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Hello, this is kind of an awkward question. So me and my friend are in the 9th grade and we were doing homework in my room and she fell asleep on the bed. But her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk and they happened to be right on my notebook. I didn't want to wake her up so I just kept working with her feet in my face lol, but her toes kept wiggling a lot so I got distracted and started playing around with them.
for example I pushed her toes a few times and they would start wiggling by themselves. Then I would hold her toes still to make them stop wiggling. so I did this whenever I wanted her toes to start wiggling lol. Then I turned on the radio to see what happens, and when I pushed her toes they start wiggling to the beat of the song. I thought it was really cute, so I made them follow my voice instructions too, for example I whispered "wiggle faster" while her toes were wiggling, and suddenly they started wiggling faster. and when I whispered "point your toes", she makes the tippy-toes like a ballet dancer. I think she was dreaming about dancing coz we both like to dance :P
Is it a normal thing for me to think her feet are cute, and to play with them this way? I haven't told her about this yet, coz I think it might sound awkward telling her that I kept her toes wiggling like nonstop while she was asleep. Thanx (link)
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yeah totally, just wouldnt tell her tho he may think its weird, and have nice day
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Can sperm travel to boy's mouth and enter the girl's mouth while kissing? (link)
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nope it travels through the penis into the vagina.and tries get in the egg.
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I'm in the process of wanting to commit suicide as I want to be with my son, I haven't got anyone at all, my partner ignores me blames me for what our son did, he wrote me a letter blameing me and how much he hates me and he wished I was dead instead, I'm having nightmares and dreaming of being with my son so so much, iv tryd to get help and I cant get any at all, I'm on medications and it makes me feel even worse, I sit up each and every night now as iv planned my suicide to the end, as I vet left at him on my own quite alot and i know I wouldn't be found till.i am dead, I need help and I cant get it so what's the point, I wouldn't be missed at all as I'm always on my own anyway, I tryd it last year and it felt so good as it took the pain away what I was feeling, cant believe I am still here, please help me or vive me son advice to help me please, next time I'm going to go somewhere very spe ial so I has to be right I do t want to wake.yp I'm done and fed up, iv found homes for my pets tht iv raised and they don't need me now, thank you for reading (link)
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you will be missed by friends and your relatives. that is so sad i am sorry that happened, know bad things happen to good people. life is worth living. there is hope in Jesus Christ and God, go unto them for comfort and through this hard time you wont regret it. and your partner is grieving guess that is how dealing with it. try counseling too. your pets wouuld miss you too. life is hard sometimes, but worth living . suicide is not the option. will take time to heal but you will. if anything bring awareness to what your son did, and depending on why you could share your story with others. hope you get better soon will be in my prayers.
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I am fairly young under the age of 18 and had been engaging in oral sex with my boyfriend who has suffered from a cold sore years ago. I had oral sex with him on a Saturday and then by the Wednesday I had some discomfort weeing. I had a look up my vagina on the Saturday to see thrush build up (have encountered thrush oral/vaginal for two years every few months). I treated it with canestan, however I was finding it painful to wee and to sit down properly. The next week I went to the doctors on Tuesday and was told I have genital herpes, and had medication thrown at me without any swabs taken. I then decided to go to a GUM clinic on the Thursday to be swabbed, I am now waiting for my results. The lady who swabbed me said it looks like genital herpes. However I keep reading it up on the internet and have found that a yeast infection can also cause red bumps down there. I have suffered with yeast infections for two years both in my mouth and vagina. I was put on the mini pill to stop the reoccurring of the infection however I still had it. They have said my hormones are incredibly imbalanced, my mother and my nan have also had these spots down there and it has been to do with a yeast infection. My question is what do you think it is, a yeast infection or herpes. (link)
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im sorry to say probably herpes. but it will be okay justtake the meds and let the bf know too and know he may of given it to you. take it as a lesson learned and learn to live with it as hard as it may be.
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Hi,
I'll keep this short but this may not be the correct category.
I was adopted at twelve years old. Went to live with them that summer prior to my October birthday. Thus, I was eleven in their household. I was in a fosterhome and loved by my foster parents. Genuinely loved.
My parents by adoption never grew to love me. They use to tell me they loved me unconditional because they're super Christian Methodists. Of which they may not be truly saved Christians but that's not what I'm going on about. I never believed they loved me because of the constant mild neglect throughout all the years. Turns out although they had everyone fooled, I was right. They recently admitted it saying, "I never grew to love you as a child. I am so sorry! There's no room in me." The truth made me appreciative to have obtained. However, I'm bent out of shape. This hurts really deeply. To the core even. It cuts me. I spent about 14 years not being loved by them. Because they didn't love me and I was often isolated with just them and not really around others except church and the school year I began to withdraw more and more. Their lack of love made me hollow inside. I think it was because I couldn't handle it and still struggle to handle it. It hurts to feel. To feel this.
I can see I might not be letting others in and I can't help it. I have this mark on me that I can't be loved. I know it isn't true but I keep pushing people away saying silently, "You're better off." Since I was adopted and over the years, the people that loved me before don't anymore. Everyone eventually stopped loving me. I feel like it is because the curse they placed on me. How do I cut off these binds? I'm SO used to them. I'm used to feeling unloved. I don't know if I can let go. I don't like holding on but it comforts me, oddly.
It seems that someone is concerned about my well-being that may want to be friends with me. I can't seem to let her be my friend. She says she's worried about me. I can't seem to empathize with her nor feel if there's a true feeling of concern there. I don't want to grieve her but inside I can't help but have a disbelief in me that she could feel concern.
I don't make any sense do I?
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your adoptive paretn arent really save if were they would have room. remember God and Jesus Christ will always love you and be there in your life for you just go unto them and on new friend should give her a chance as scary as it is itll probably be worth it in the longrun=) know nothing is wrong with you too =)
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what can I do to please my girlfriend
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you can get her a thoughtful gift =)
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So, when I started my current job a year ago a much younger woman, E., was very friendly toward me- catching my eye, smiling, staying behind.
I had had a terrible experience from getting involved in work before so kept my distance from her. I knew that between the age difference (20y) and simply working in the same office nothing good could happen.
She seemed hurt but found a man from another office and they moved in together.
Eventually we got talking and I really enjoyed her company- she has a Visual Arts degree and we share similar tastes in TV and film, though she prefers Fantasy books and is quite a 'romantic' thinker.
She was the first person outside my team to ask about me after my hospital stay, which was nice, and we have some great chats.
Anyway, This Valentines Day we had an office theme and we're encouraged to send cards etc.
I thought it would be nice to send her a Secret Admirer card- nothing intense, just a 'have a happy day' type card, no hearts, declarations of love etc.
When she got it she seemed really happy which was nice to see. The usual "so embarassing" whilst showing it to every other woman. It felt good.
However a week later she suddenly became very distant from me. Avoiding eye contact, curt replies, no smiles. She even left work with a female friend without saying goodnight, neither of which she has done before. I have no idea how she worked out it was from me.
I have kept out of her way as I hate the idea of making her unhappy or uncomfortable in any way.
I tried to do something nice but it backfired. I get on well with everyone else from canteen staff to managers and even have a female work friend the same age as E. who keeps meeting me for lunch.
I don't want to get a reputation as a 'creeper' at work. Nor do I want E. To feel odd around me as in the circumstances I just thought it would make her feel special and happy.
Any advice?
Read more: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=662306#ixzz4Zw56oIvK (link)
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my advice is to talke to E about this and let know you meant no harm and was being nice and if brave enough tell her how you feel. good luck know its not easy but will be worth it in long run and can move on or start something beautiful.
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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well this is a tough one, but think you should accept and talk to him few times or so and let know you care about him but it will not be same as before and move on knowing you will find better cause obviously dont return feelings for some odd reason you will find better, i know from experience. sorry late reply you should wish him a happy birthday as i promise the pain will dissapear
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Im 17 yr old girl, in Sep met a boy in a group of mates I know at a festival. First day he kept looking/smiling at me, laughing&joking with me. Spent the day with him&2 others, we got on so well. That night my mates went to bed but I wasnt tired so went to his group&they said they loved me being there, mostly him. Walked me back to my tent&got close to me until another guy came with us. Rest of weekend paid most attention to me, would hug me&noone else, talk to me first&shout for me not my mates&felt like he liked me but chance never arose to get with him. The last day I went to say bye he chanted my name then hugged me so big&said ‘feel like ive known you forever’. At this point I like him more than a usual crush. Week after we were at separate parties but met in town&acted the same as at the fest. 2 weeks after we were at the same party&greeted me with a massive hug, danced/joked/talked all night&got on even better THEN saw him kiss a girl im friendly with&his mate says hes fancied her for a bit. We walk to town after&us 2 are behind the group and hes all jokey, tries to climb a fence but gets stuck so I help him down then he grabs my hand tight&makes me run then hugs me big by my house. Next party a group of us walk there he asks me to detour with him&buy beer, another girl hes very good mates with comes too but not the one he may like. Me&him talk on the way about future plans&he doesnt talk to the girl hes good friends with(not rude we just had lots to say to eachother and were excited).We share our beer by taking one sip each&feeding eachother instead of splitting the pack. Sleep at the same house&in the morn reminds me of our plans together&wants them to happen. Everytime I see him we speak less though&hes getting more with the other girl&it upsets me. Sat night his mate tells me how we were best friends&inseperable and got me thinking about if he couldve liked me or still does? Has anyone been in a situation like this&it worked out with you and the person? (link)
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my guess is he is leading one of you on. how long has the other been in the pic? might be best to move on or let it be known with words that you want go on a date with him or something. hope this helps if not i am sorry. had a guy i liked for long time,was similar to your sitaution, and turned out had a girl with baby on way from another guy but still stayed with her over me. it still stings, but know it will get better and will find better as i have a bf now and he treats me good. you will find you a better guy.
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Ok i don't want to get hated on but I'm a high school senior and I like this guy in my grade that Im graduating with and I have like a huge thing for him and he doesn't like hide from me and I think he might suspect me of liking him. Ok we're both guys, ok yeah that's what I feared of getting hated on. I really have an urge to kiss him but ya know I don't know how to make that any obvious because I try spending as much time around him possible. He cares about my happiness and stuff and I just don't want to lose him if anything but he doesn't just walk out on people. (link)
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i suggest asking him on a date first. like the movies or golfing or something you both like. good luck and then depending on how the date goes kiss him then
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Ive talked about these two girls before but now i really have to get this off of my chest. So i met these two girls named amber and kayla on my schools facebook page. Amber and kayla didnt know each other prior to the page as well. So in the summer amber and i would literally talk every single day until the day we met. Kayla and i didnt really talk at all so i understand why she doesnt talk to me as much either. But basically ever since i met amber in person im even lucky if a get a response back from her on facebook now. Yeah i understand the school year is busy but its not that busy, facebook lets you know when the last time a person has been online and Amber gets on everyday. Anyways i tried making plans with kayla and amber and they would always come up with excuses like "i have an assignment or im in class" which i believe but now i think theyre just trying to politely cut me off because Kayla and amber have hung out 3 times probably more (ive only seen them together 3 times on ambers snapchat) so i confronted Amber one time saying "wow thanks for the invite guys" and amber said "it was last minute and not planned and she asked if i was free the day after" but i didnt respond because Amber was probably asking me to hangout out of pity. Then after that amber stopped showing who she was with on snapchat but little does she know is i have kayla on snapchat too so when amber doesnt post kayla posts. So im ranting right now because on friday kayla and amber hungout the whole freaking day (didn't tell me) and then went to a basketball game. I would confront them but whats the point? If you have read up to here and follow what ive been saying it would be lovely if you could give me advice on this situation. Also with kayla and amber if i dont message them i wont hear from them at all. Im always the one to message them first. When i see Amber in person ( she has a class before me) im usually the one that goes up to her and says hi (except for thursday the only reason she said hi to me was because we were walking past each other and gave each other eye contact). When it was ambers birthday i messaged her happy birthday and said hopefully me, her and kayla will be able to find a way to hangout with each other. Amber replied and said " thank you girl and im praying for that day to come" that day couldve literally came on friday if they just freaking invited me. Then when kayla posted on ambers wall happy birthday then amber said " omg ily so much" which pissed me off cause that means that theyre closer than i thought. Ive been trying to be friends with them and they just brush me off like wtf. You might be wondering why im not really talking about kayla but its because i dont see her at all on campus, ive only seen her once (in september) and me and her dont really have anything to talk about. Lastly before you say " how about making your own plans with them instead of expecting them to invite you" i did multiple times and they would come up with excuses which were believable at first but clearly theyre not that busy if they have time to hangout with each other. Kayla i mostly believe cause judging from her snapchats she rarely leaves her dorm, amber on the other hand....anyways info on us are we are first year university students (link)
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i am sorry they did this to you. sounds like a loss cuase. best find better friends and maturely confront amber if she still dont give answer end the friendship. put away reminders and know nothing you did, its her being ugly. a real friend would include you and make an effort. relationships are two way streak not one.
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How can I forget the girl I love the most? (link)
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telling you from a girls prospective, you wont forget her, but can cope. put away reminders and keep busy, think of other things when she comes mind. take it as a lesson learned if you know there is no way to getting back with or at all with her. know i been trying forget a guy, been two years still havent. learned to accept that there will always be a part of me that loves josiah, the guy, but have a bf now and he treats me better. anyway you will find better, just let yourself heal and know God knows what he is doing for your best interest.
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Something really weird happend and i wouldnt say im overthinking it, cause i think anyone else in my position would think so much about this. Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago. We had a really nasty break up, he lied to me, so i broke up with him-- and when things calmed down after a while he told me to forget about him completely and i guess i hurt his ego. Anyway- its been months, hes blocked me off of everything and hasnt tried to ONCE unblock me to see what im up to. I see him every now and then because i am a custumor at his store and he acts like i dont even exist. Looks at me every now and then but nothing i try to pay attention to so that i dont think so much about it. So to me, im completely convinced that he hates me and im off his mind because of the way he acts and the things he does. Now, yestereday i was asleep and wake up and find a missed call at 1 in the morning. So when i got up, i looked it up on truecaller and found that it has no number-- so i saved the number to see who it could be on whatsapp and found that its his mothers picture. Which means its his mothers number. We used to contacct eachother from his moms phone when his phone would be off at home or something if we wanted to talk, but when we broke up i deleted the number because it had 1 whatsapp conversation we both had at night and i didnt wanna look at it anymore. I can't remember the number because i didnt really pay attention to it at the time i just saved it and deleted it when we broke up. His mom doesnt know me and i dont know her, so i highly doubt its her calling me. I did think to myself that maybe hes calling to hear my voice then hang up-- but why would he make it so obvious and try from his moms phone? Maybe he thought i forgot the number and deleted it or what? We barely kept contact on it so im assuming he thinks i forgot.. but isnt that weird? And now im trying to call the number back and its giving me a busy tone... which means he realized i tried calling back and put me on the block list. WHY is he doing this? or maybe hes not? Please if your going to write something like "who cares, hes your ex, refrain from writing on this post because thats not what i wanna hear because i ALREADY know that. Im just confused that after 6 months i would get a call from his moms phone and be blocked off of it. Especially that he doesnt have the decency to view my stuff from his account on social media, hence why he still has me blocked everywhere. What do you guys think? IF your an immature guy (because thats really who is ) how would you view this type of situation? (link)
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had something similar happen to me and could be male depression or he is just an jerk and hurting you back, possibly. best move on as hard as it is and let go let yourself heal. you will find a better guy i promise. best delete that message and put away any reminders of him. nothing you did it is just him. remind yourself the flaws when comes mind and think of other things and keep busy have an girls night out too.
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My whole life I have suffered with this absurd issue where I sabotage every relationship I'm sharing with a guy because of my inability to feel good enough and also that happiness is crazy weird to me (I battle a terrifying case of cherophobia).
I'm dating the most perfect guy ever. He's wonderful and does absolutely everything right, which I cannot say about the past guys in my life. But every little thing he does, I act upset about it (even though I'm truthfully not), and I just hold a grudge on him. And I just realized that deep down, I'm hoping he'll break up with me, but he never does. So I continuously find reasons to be pissed off at him (even when I'm genuinely not angry at him at all, not even in the least bit).
I don't know what to do. Any advice? (link)
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give him a chance or tell him the truth that want end it in a nice way
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I met a man online recently and had a lovely first date with him. I couldn't believe how intelligent and kind and respectful he was. Even though he isn't really my usual type, I found myself very drawn to him. He even waited with me while I got into a taxi, and I found myself thinking that I had somehow met a true gentleman.
Our second date, a few days later, was even better. We spent upwards of seven hours (!) together, eating, drinking and talking, and both commented on how unlike a second date it felt. He said we had waded into conversation that was "six month relationship" territory -- "in a good way!" -- and that he couldn't believe how comfortable he felt. I confessed that I hadn't been so charmed and attracted to someone in a long time, and that it made me nervous.
He held my hand as we walked around, talking about what we would do on our next date. As we headed to the subway he said he couldn't resist anymore and smothered me with warm kisses and groping hands. It wasn't something I would normally allow on a second date, but I have to admit it was really exciting -- and what the hell, we were happy and connected and it seemed all but certain that this was really going somewhere.
The next day, I expected a quick note from him just to say hi or "thanks for a great afternoon," as this is pretty typical guy dating etiquette. When I hadn't gotten one by dinnertime, I went out on a limb and wrote him myself -- a short, cute text saying that I couldn't stop thinking about making out in the rain. When I still hadn't heard back by midnight, I began to worry.
It's now two full days later and I still haven't heard a peep from him. NOTHING. We had made plans to see each other next weekend, but I'm becoming pretty convinced that he has simply disappeared and wants nothing to do with me. After all, when you don't hear from a guy, it's because he's "just not that into you," right?
I'm so hurt and confused. What did I do wrong? What changed, and how did it happen so fast? It has been a long time since I let myself feel hopeful about a man, and this really stings. Can you please help me shed some light on this situation? (link)
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i do not know what going on but that is confusing best confront him and ask if the next date is still on that should not of scared him off.
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Hey there.
I am nearly 14, and I have pretty decent friends at school. My group is pretty closely knitted and I always liked it.
My friends do invite me to events, and I've been to their houses and stuff a couple of times. But this weekend, I found out that they threw a party without me. I don't know what I've done wrong, and I don't know what to think of it. I thought they were my friends.
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hmm sounds liek you need to talk to them about and get to bottom of why you were not invited if they are good friends. maybe they were only allowed a certain number of friends over. hope this helps and ty heal know nothing you did wrong.
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