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Question Posted Friday November 11 2016, 7:01 am

Something really weird happend and i wouldnt say im overthinking it, cause i think anyone else in my position would think so much about this. Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago. We had a really nasty break up, he lied to me, so i broke up with him-- and when things calmed down after a while he told me to forget about him completely and i guess i hurt his ego. Anyway- its been months, hes blocked me off of everything and hasnt tried to ONCE unblock me to see what im up to. I see him every now and then because i am a custumor at his store and he acts like i dont even exist. Looks at me every now and then but nothing i try to pay attention to so that i dont think so much about it. So to me, im completely convinced that he hates me and im off his mind because of the way he acts and the things he does. Now, yestereday i was asleep and wake up and find a missed call at 1 in the morning. So when i got up, i looked it up on truecaller and found that it has no number-- so i saved the number to see who it could be on whatsapp and found that its his mothers picture. Which means its his mothers number. We used to contacct eachother from his moms phone when his phone would be off at home or something if we wanted to talk, but when we broke up i deleted the number because it had 1 whatsapp conversation we both had at night and i didnt wanna look at it anymore. I can't remember the number because i didnt really pay attention to it at the time i just saved it and deleted it when we broke up. His mom doesnt know me and i dont know her, so i highly doubt its her calling me. I did think to myself that maybe hes calling to hear my voice then hang up-- but why would he make it so obvious and try from his moms phone? Maybe he thought i forgot the number and deleted it or what? We barely kept contact on it so im assuming he thinks i forgot.. but isnt that weird? And now im trying to call the number back and its giving me a busy tone... which means he realized i tried calling back and put me on the block list. WHY is he doing this? or maybe hes not? Please if your going to write something like "who cares, hes your ex, refrain from writing on this post because thats not what i wanna hear because i ALREADY know that. Im just confused that after 6 months i would get a call from his moms phone and be blocked off of it. Especially that he doesnt have the decency to view my stuff from his account on social media, hence why he still has me blocked everywhere. What do you guys think? IF your an immature guy (because thats really who is ) how would you view this type of situation?

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Britt22 answered Monday November 14 2016, 12:15 pm:
had something similar happen to me and could be male depression or he is just an jerk and hurting you back, possibly. best move on as hard as it is and let go let yourself heal. you will find a better guy i promise. best delete that message and put away any reminders of him. nothing you did it is just him. remind yourself the flaws when comes mind and think of other things and keep busy have an girls night out too.

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