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wait it out or just make a move
I do like him...well ....
he looks to be about 36, im 32 female but I look young.....anyway he stares at me and smiles with all 32 teeth showin, (he is fluffy, im normally not into teddy bear type men, but this guy seems diff, compared to the other men ive crushed on and asked out.....and he has nice teeth and boy is he sexxi), everytime he sees me....as if he is extra happy to see me, i only see him maybe once or twice a week.....then he speaks in a shy low toned voice when im leaving and he'll tell me to have a nice a day , he's been doing this for months now...... I want to approach him, but I do NOT wanna get my feelings hurt again...(yeah ive asked men out in the past and that did not turn out as planned)..what should I do? he does this everytime he sees me....one time he made slight convo by asking me do I like the new bus route, well I let him know I didn't....and I made him laugh and he just stared at me in shock but he was just smiling....
there are cameras around that can hear and see everything, ....plus there are passengers on the bus...I don't want him to get into any trouble nor do I want to get embarrassed...ive noticed he sighs a lot around me. or he will stare at me smiling...and I laugh on the inside...but I never said anything.
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This is actually the first time I have ever heard someone was attracted to someone because of great looking teeth. Are you a dental student? I'm teasing you but quite glad you asked this question.
Here's why. You mentioned that he was "fluffy" or looked like a "teddy bear" that isn't your type. A young woman set me right one night. She asked "what do you like about so-and-so is it her physical appearance?" She had told me that people you see as "plain", ordinary or don't notice or think they don't fit a certain idea you have may in fact be "the one" an the so-called "desired" person may be disaster. Always look past type and get to know what's under the brown paper packaging.
You do see him as cute and have noticed that he has been pleasant with you and smiles which is good. However, I'm not sure if you know his name or much else beyond that or any other details like his personal life and whether there could be a wife or girlfriend. However, if he's chatting to you about something so random as a bus route he's trying to get a conversation going for whatever reason and like most guys probably doesn't give a damn about public transit changes.
I know you don't want to get hurt or look foolish and I don't blame you but I think you should try and gauge his interest without risking much in doing so. How? Next time you see him say "I'm so-and-so. It's really rude that I never introduced myself considering we're almost always on this bus at the same time." Do that when you're getting off and then say "Perhaps we can do coffee sometime."
Hand him a post-it note with your number. If he calls he is interested and if not at least you know without really putting yourself out there.
The thing is he may like you and is an equally shy person unable to talk to you or maybe girls for that matter so perhaps you'll find a friendship or whatever else if you start talking.
You could explain if he calls you that you were not sure he would. If he seems extra happy to see you than odds are he would be receptive to finding out more about you.
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