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Does he like me still?
Im 17 yr old girl, in Sep met a boy in a group of mates I know at a festival. First day he kept looking/smiling at me, laughing&joking with me. Spent the day with him&2 others, we got on so well. That night my mates went to bed but I wasnt tired so went to his group&they said they loved me being there, mostly him. Walked me back to my tent&got close to me until another guy came with us. Rest of weekend paid most attention to me, would hug me&noone else, talk to me first&shout for me not my mates&felt like he liked me but chance never arose to get with him. The last day I went to say bye he chanted my name then hugged me so big&said ‘feel like ive known you forever’. At this point I like him more than a usual crush. Week after we were at separate parties but met in town&acted the same as at the fest. 2 weeks after we were at the same party&greeted me with a massive hug, danced/joked/talked all night&got on even better THEN saw him kiss a girl im friendly with&his mate says hes fancied her for a bit. We walk to town after&us 2 are behind the group and hes all jokey, tries to climb a fence but gets stuck so I help him down then he grabs my hand tight&makes me run then hugs me big by my house. Next party a group of us walk there he asks me to detour with him&buy beer, another girl hes very good mates with comes too but not the one he may like. Me&him talk on the way about future plans&he doesnt talk to the girl hes good friends with(not rude we just had lots to say to eachother and were excited).We share our beer by taking one sip each&feeding eachother instead of splitting the pack. Sleep at the same house&in the morn reminds me of our plans together&wants them to happen. Everytime I see him we speak less though&hes getting more with the other girl&it upsets me. Sat night his mate tells me how we were best friends&inseperable and got me thinking about if he couldve liked me or still does? Has anyone been in a situation like this&it worked out with you and the person?
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Around that age, guys are usually still wanting to "play the field" or just have fun with a bunch of different girls. Girls can also be the same way. He could have something with you that he doesn't have in that other girl he was kissing. The stage you're at in your life is a very confusing one when it comes to guys and relationships.
I'm sure he still likes you but he very well could see something in the other girl as well (I'm sorry). Some suggestions that come to mind are: just tell him how you feel or ask "Hey, so what's up with you and [name of girl]? You seemed to really like her..." I think that is the most mature way to handle the situation. Also, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Have fun! Let him know how you feel about him first though. The whole "Let's make each other jealous by making out with other people in front of each other" can get messy and is a waste of time. Talk to him and if you still want to do all those things you two made plans on doing, do them! Just remember he is a guy and both of you are young.
Good luck!
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my guess is he is leading one of you on. how long has the other been in the pic? might be best to move on or let it be known with words that you want go on a date with him or something. hope this helps if not i am sorry. had a guy i liked for long time,was similar to your sitaution, and turned out had a girl with baby on way from another guy but still stayed with her over me. it still stings, but know it will get better and will find better as i have a bf now and he treats me good. you will find you a better guy.
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