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this from :friends dont do this to each other right?
the thing is that i have feeling for her. and when i told her that she said she was fine with it but not sure what gender she likes, but she doesnt feel the same way. but when she is a close person to ME (i dont see her do that to others but only me.) yes she is a close person but why will she do that to me? and scerw up my mind? she did that close sitting before i told her how i felt. we still hang out and tease each other like sisters. but i cant stop thinking of her being to me. she leans on me most of the time. so its hard to tell does she like me or is she a close touchy friend?
my guy friend does the closness to me too and he is Bi, i ask him why he was close lto me that day when he viist me. he said old feelings came back to him. because he used to have a crush on me. so when i think about that. i realized that jon was leaning and holding me like what Mandy did to me. so this is confusing....... (link)
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Oh, i'm sorry i didn't realize it was like that, but i would say that ur friend isn't too sure of what she wants...all i can say it to talk to her about it. I can't tell her what she thinks and i can't help you with what she feels jsut by a her being close to you.
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14/F
There's this one guy, Tyler. He's friends with a lot of my camp friends, who I see regularly. I talk to him online at least once a day, generally. We have great chemistry. We just fit together really well. He's like a puzzle piece that connects to me. I only met him once, and we didn't really talk then. It was at a party, and I was kind of shy. We just said 'hi' twice and left it at that. But I really really like him. I think about him constantly, and everytime I do, I have to smile. I can try to supress it, but I do it anyway. We're meeting up in a few weeks, and I absolutely can not wait.
But there's this girl, Kate. She's a friend of mine, and she knows him. She's really great. I kind of used to feel like I always had to act a certain way around her, to impress her, and I know other people who have said that too. But it's kind of stopping now, and we're getting closer. Being friends with her means a lot to me. And if we weren't great friends, I feel like I'd lose a lot of my other friends, too. She's kind of the leader of our camp group. Also, last year at camp, I wasn't really part of the popular group, but I was friends with all of them. I've been going to camp for the longest out of all of them except one. I even introduced it to two of them. And I always, always wanted to be part of that group. If I don't have Kate, I don't have anyone and once again, I won't be popular. This is my last summer at camp before I become a counselor, and I really want to be part of their group. Not even for that, but it just means a lot to me. But there's still the thing with losing friends if I don't have her.
The problem? I don't think she really "approves" of Tyler(when I say approve, I mean he's just not really cool enough for her. He's not into anything bad or anything like that; he's a good guy). I mean, she talks to him, but sometimes she'll say something about him(I usually don't let it slide though, I'll be like, "I don't know, he seems so sweet," or something). My other friend, Lyla, was really great friends with her before. Her and Kate were best friends. But then Lyla started going out with another guy who Kate didn't approve of, and they're not nearly as great friends anymore. They keep having mini-fights and they're just not close. I'm afraid to spend time with Tyler, because if we end up together, or even if she finds out that I like him, she might not approve of it. I really need her to, but I also need him. I have absolutely no idea what I'm going to do.
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Well thats sooo great with Tyler, and i think that you really shouldn't care of what she thinks. You can have him as a crush/boyfriend w.e, and still be friends with kate though. Just when your around her dont talk about Tyler too too much. But i guess you kind of have to learn about pleasing urself, and not others. I know you just want to be popular, i know i truly do know. But highschool is pretty much the dumbest thing..and right now its seems like it means everything to us, but wait in a few years, say you just ditch tyler or w/e, you'll be thinking of how much you really wish you just went with your heart. But if say Kate dosn't approve and dosn't talk to you (which is most likly NOT going to happen) then she's not a true friend..there for you don't need her.
In your eyes this Kate girl is like a queen to you guys...ask yourselves why? its pretty much stupid to impress people, just live for the moment..it'll make you sooo much more happier then being popular
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I was thinking about throwing my first boy/girl kinda party. I'm 14/f and I have a pool, so I wanted to have a kind of pool/summer party. I need advice about how to exactly organize the party so everyone will have fun and what to eat and drink. How long should it be? What are activites boys and girls both enjoy? Do I just invite the people, they come, and do their own thing? Help; I've never done this before and I need advice!!! (link)
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Goodness hunny, take a deep breath everything will be fine :) haha a pool/summer party is a good idea, and just think of the parties you've been at. You mostly have pizza and pop. So you can have pizza (or any other kind of food that a lot of people like) and pop, water, juice..w/e floats ur boat :) I would say it should be somewhere are like 4 hours. And just put some tunes on, maybe put a volleyball net up, or anything you enjoy doing. And yeah..you pretty much invite the people, they come, and they can find w.e they want to do..pretty much. haha
well i hope everything goes well, its nothing to sweat about just have fun!
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I have this project in one of my classes, and we need to do a survey with 100 people. me and my group already have about 20, and i thought it would help if I could just ask people online too for answers. only answer for one candy, and for "other" dont say what candy it is, just say "other".
Nerds
Skittles
M&Ms
Gum
Hershey's
Snickers
Twix
Reeses
THANKS! :] (link)
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mmm...M&Ms :)
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So im graduating HS this June and i want to make the most out of my summer...what should i do?
I want to "start a new" lifestyle, and i want to be more independant, and feel like i can do something to help other people (link)
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Well if you want to start over new and become more independent, move away from home, like an hour or more away.
If you want to help other people volunter at a local shelter, animal shelter, etc....pretty much anywhere.
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You are sitting on the ground, as your friend is sitting besides you, they slowly gets close to you and then grabs your arm and holds your arm and hug it as they lay their head on your shoulder and cruls up to you.
but thay are the same sex (females).
Do close friends do that to each other?
or is the one who is the toucy person is trying to tell you that they like you? (link)
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haha wow. well that it kinda odd, but it could kinda mean both things. If she more of a friendly person then most people then i would just say she was like doing it as friends, and nothing else.
However if you have questioned her about ur sexuality it could been that she does like you...more than friends
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im 14/f 9th grade never had a boyfriend.
there's this guy that really likes me. he's always asking how i feel if i seem sad he asks me if im okay and whats on my mind. i'm friends with him but i never really thought of us as anything other than friends. i really want a boyfriend because i want to know how it feels, but then again i don't want to just date someone then break up with them in like a month because i feel no chemistry between us. but on the other hand i'm afraid of not having my first boyfriend until im like 20. i know it doesnt matter what age but i just want to experience it young so i know what its like...so with you knowing all this do you think i should go out with him or no? thanks soo much for answering. (link)
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Hmmm...well don't think that you need a bf right now. Its sounds like you in this guy are pretty good friends so don't ruin that over just "wanting" something that might not even be there. But i would say if you havn't really wanted this guy as anything more before, when/if you have anything more...it would be that great and you will just want to be friends again, which is sadly hard to get back :/
But i hope you figure out everything and update me sometime, if you want to about this sitt. :)
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Hi i'm a teenage girl who has given up on relationships and everything else in life.
Before i commit suicide i want to have a hookup with someone.
How do I go about getting a hookup with a guy who won't hurt me or abuse me?
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I know that you don't want to hear this and i understand. But i seriously hope that you don't try to commit suicide. Its a permit decission for a temperaly problem. Theres other ways to try to get help. I would tell a friend ASAP, so they can go get you help, b.c i'm sure right now you don't want it. You really need to just talk to someone and get your feelings and thoughts out, other then killing yourself. Many people die each day that would LOVE to be living, and then theres people that want to die that are perfectly physically heathy. I just hate to see this soo much.
I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT TO LISTIN TO US, BUT GET HELP RIGHT AWAY. THOUGHT OF SUCIDE ARE A VERY SERIOUS THING. You may not think or see that but it is
Your beautiful inside and out, and think of all the people that will be crushed by you never being here again. Its not worth it.
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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I would call her a few times and just see what happens.
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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. they are making him pay for a new car and he is grounded for like a month and i keep telling him that i will tell them but he wont listen to me what should i do (link)
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Well if your brother dosnt care then just don't worry about it. thats all i have to say. Just tell him you will help pay for a new car. Idk, if you don't want to tell your parents then theres nothing else to do. Don't tell your parents, and just don't worry about it
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16/f-- okay. So I started hanging out with a guy from another school (17) a few weeks ago. He had a girlfriend that he didn't want to be with. He was only with her because he didn't want to dump her before prom. We started spending a lot of time together, and he told me he fell for me. He dumped her, but told her he'd still go to prom with her. He was also going to be taking me to my prom. Now, we have a lot of mutual friends, and they all told me what a great, wonderful, nice guy he was, so I let myself really start to like him. He told me how amazing I am and how I mean a lot to him. Then, when he went to his prom with his ex, he ended up getting back together with her. We didn't talk much for awhile, because he felt super bad, and I was hurt. But he was still going to my prom with me. So we went, and it was a little awkward at first, then it got fun. But he told one of our mutual friends that he wishes he would have chosen me. Now, he tells me he still wants to stay close to me. He came to my house last night to talk. He told me how unhappy he was with his girlfriend. He said that he would have hated himself if he didn't give her another chance (Which I completely understand). He said that she didn't change though, and he just looked at me for a minute and said that he was an idiot, and that he can't believe he messed everything up. Then he hurried up and changed the subject.
Now, I had to leave out some details to the story to make this a reasonable length, so those are just the basics.
A lot of my friends think I should just totally forget about him. However, I understand where he is coming from, I really do. And I can't help but like him. A lot. Yeah, he did some shady things, but I'm forgiving. But I don't know if I should be. What do you think I should do? Should I just keep being there for him? Should I totally forget him? Should I tell him how I feel (I'm afraid to spill everything because I don't want to sound desperate)
Any help would be great, I'm totally confused. Thanks. (link)
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Well i would just stick with him for a while. I don't think HE really knows whats he wants rigth now. If he dumbed his gf for you, but then eneded back up with her, and then once again wants you back, i'd say hes just as stuck as you are. He prob. likes you both..but i do say he likes you more. Just talk to him more, hang out if you want to, and just see where things go. Your not going to sound desperate at all..so don't worry about that. Your just saying what you feel :) don't be afraid to show your true feelings
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I have a distinct picture of what i want my future to look like (i want to be married to the great guy, with great kids, and live in a beautful house, and be the ultimate soccer mom (president of the PTA...on several charity boards etc.)
I'm really worried that i wont get this life, i dont want to sound like a snob...but if i end up living ni a asmall shack, with no husband and no kids, i'll be reallly sad.)
Does anyone ever really get the exact life they want? (link)
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Well you have what you want..so just get it. Don't get stuck up in drugs, smoking, drinking...etc, and that all could happen.
But go for what you want, don't let anything stop you. just be happy with life and let things fall how they are supposed to...Then again everything happens for a reason.
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Prom is coming up, and my friend has been trying to convince me to go tanning with her. So i went today, and it was pretty okay. but when i got home i found a website saying all these risks about tanning and i'm not sure i should go again....
Do tanning beds really cause skin cancer and other skin diseases? are there safe ways to get a tan?
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yes, tanning can cause skin cance, and other skin diseases. Theres really no "safe" way to get a tan from a tanning bed, nor laying outside. Sanless tanning lotions can leave you loooking a little more orange then tan and they only will last that day pretty much (b/c when you take a shower it'll come off) But me personaly i would say a spray on tan would prob. being the savest and the best way to go other then tanning.
But tanning can be bad. but if you only go a few times, then i you'll be fine :)
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I dont have a date for prom, but I'm still going. And a few of my friends odn't have dates and they're still going, too. But.... is it okay to go to prom without a date? Do people go without dates? Will it be as fun? Will people think you're a lsoer?
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No, actually if you go without a date it takes away that stress of having that person with you. If your friends are going by themselves too everything will be fine, NO ONE will think that your a loser. I personaly think its all a personal thought on things. Just be comfortable even without a date, its a pretty great day, and you should just try to make it as best as you possibly can :)
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"and everyone cried the night you died and i'm no good at suicide" can someone tell me what this is from? (link)
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I'm not sure what it is from...but that girl was wrong. its not from if anyone cared - Nickelback.
Just to let you know.
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i have a stomach ache because of my period. it's on and off. i already took motrin to help stop the pain, but it's still there. i don't wanna go to school tomorrow feeling bad, but i can't afford to miss another day since our finals are getting closer and i've missed enough days. what can i do? (link)
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well i'm sorry to say. the only thing that really will help is taking medicine and putting something hot on your stoamch, that will help the pain a little. But other then that, theres really nothing too much you can do. I'm sorry. But if you can, try maybe something more for period cramps like Midol, Pamprin, Premsyn, etc.
Hope that pain goes away...just another joy of being a girl :)
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do guys like it if you kiss their neck? (link)
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um mostly yeah :)
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Im sorry if this is long. But, i like this guy ,and im good friends with his best friend. The guy i like, is in the group of people i hang out with, its just i talk to everyone in that group but like him. and he talks to like everyone but me.
Hes cute, and i would like to get to know him better.
But its weird, he treats everyone so much different then he treats me, like he joke-endly makes fun of them and like talks to them more. But never me ? i dont get it.
I dont think he likes me like i like him though.
i dont know , im just confused.
and whenever we do talk its for like 2 seconds.
HELP ? please
does he hate me you think ??
im sorry if this confused anyone, or anything
xox melissaa. (link)
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Umm i would say that he dosn't hate you. hes just dosn't talk to you that much, and he dosn't know you. Go to the movies or something with that group of friends, and start hanging out a little more to maybe get to know him more.
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There is an odd purple lump growing on the bottom of my foot. I don't know what it could be! It itches like crazy and I cant walk on it, cause if I put all of my weight on it, I pass out for hours at a time. Could this be bad? Should I see a doctor? (link)
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umm hunny go to the doctors right now. i would say thats not good at all, and needs to be cured asap :)
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so my dad really worrys about me and my boyfriend.and like we've gone out before..but my dad wants to meet him.and is like oh he shuld be afraid,like i know he is kidding, but idk how can i make everyone happy? like my dad wants him to come over my house and stuff..its just weird b/c my bf is a little uncomfortble..but is fine with the idea? (link)
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Well your bf shouldn't be uncomfortable meeting ur dad b/c sooner or later he will end up meeting him. Since you know that your dad is just kidding, then you really shouldn't sweat it. It may be kinda uncomfortable and ackward at first it will get better trust me :)
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