I have a distinct picture of what i want my future to look like (i want to be married to the great guy, with great kids, and live in a beautful house, and be the ultimate soccer mom (president of the PTA...on several charity boards etc.)
I'm really worried that i wont get this life, i dont want to sound like a snob...but if i end up living ni a asmall shack, with no husband and no kids, i'll be reallly sad.)
Does anyone ever really get the exact life they want?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? Eyesofagony answered Monday May 7 2007, 9:56 am: "You can be/have anything that you put your mind in"....if you wish to have the greatest husband,the greatest kids,the greatest wutever you want then you can get it without a hassel...just a very important advice,,dnt rush,...take your time to find tht specail guy,,and if you guys cant live in a great house at first,work together to get that house of your dreams. you can do or get wutever you want as long as you put ur mind to it...trust me i been in your place before and now,im very happy with eveything,,thanks god..anwyas put your mind to it and work hard to get your dreams fulfilled [ Eyesofagony's advice column | Ask Eyesofagony A Question ]
Sabine answered Monday May 7 2007, 1:22 am: To be honest, you may or may not end up with the life you want. Moreover, you may eventually decide it's not the life for you. Life is a roll of the dice.
The important thing is being happy and knowing that you can be content no matter what life gives you. You must be resilient to the inevitable disappointments and share the joy when something does go right. Hopefully, you will meet someone great to share your life with. That's more important than what job (or home-based activities) you have or how many kids or what kind of house.
It's great to have goals and know what you want. But I like the saying "hope for the best but prepare for the worst."
Brezzer12 answered Sunday May 6 2007, 10:24 pm: Well you have what you want..so just get it. Don't get stuck up in drugs, smoking, drinking...etc, and that all could happen.
But go for what you want, don't let anything stop you. just be happy with life and let things fall how they are supposed to...Then again everything happens for a reason. [ Brezzer12's advice column | Ask Brezzer12 A Question ]
AskJR answered Sunday May 6 2007, 9:59 pm: We all have visions of our future (adult) lives.
If this is what you want then get your education and college if possible. This will increase your chances of meeting and connecting with the status of people (men to marry) in your future.
Work toward your dreams and goals. And never settle for less.
We all begin in a lower bracket of apartments and jobs unless born rich or educated, but build and work our way up from that.
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