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My name is Stephanie. I'm called Blondie, because well im such a blonde! I have Hazel eyes, im 13, born on July 10, 1991. Also, I'm 5'2, im a female, i live in Ohio, and sadly im very single:(! I love to play basketball, Tennis, vollyball, baseball, sleep, day dream, hang wit friends, shop, and so0o0o much more!!! I go to GMS. GO PREXIES!!! TA DA!!! Thats some about me!!!

advice

i have a crush on a girl but im 2 afraid 2 ask her out in person

Well i really cant tell ya much but to get over it and just ask her out. Or maybe flirt a little, she may get the hint and ask u out herself.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Okay i was working on a science project with my friends alyssa and amanda...today i was talking to amanda about presenting our project and she was like i dont wanna go today lets go tommorow and i agreed but then alyssa came in and said lets do it today so i was like alrite..we might as well get it over with then after our presentation we got a 100 and amanda said to me why did you change your mind just because alyssa did then alyssa says your talking about me behind myback when we were all talking about it together and when i asked alyssa what i did said get away from me..i really wanna be friends with her but i donoo what to do..?

Id say if she is acting like that she wouldnt be a good friend anyways. you can do better than her, stef (u are stefanie ryt? if not then sorry)...Wish i could give you more advice but there isnt much to give ya but that just get over it and make new friends.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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There is this kid on my bus,Neil. same grade same hr and in 2 of my classes. I really like him a lot hes really nice and cute. I want to ask him out but i dont have the courage. what can i do to overcome my fear?





- ~Chelsea~

Well, I dont know what to tell you but to get over it and maybe give him a few hints. Or ask him what do you think will happen if they went together or somthing. Ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

Id say eat them however you want. If you wanna pick that wing up and just eat it thats ok. All because your in a fancy resturant doesnt mean you have to be fancy. I mean dont go burpin or anything but dont be to fancy.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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IS there a healthy way to gain weight? If way can anybody give me advice. Im not looking for any diet drinks or anything just somthing I can do! Please Help! Thnkx in Advance

Well you want to gain weight by building muscle. You shouldnt go eatin alot, that will just give you the bad nasty fat. But if you wanna gain weight go to a gym and make some muscle. Healtyest way i can think of. Sorry i cant give you more advice...
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Alright, I highlighted my hair about August 17. Do you think it would be a good or bad for me to highlight it again? It's growing out so I think I should. Altho, I don't want to burn up my hair.

Well highlighting hair is much better than an all over hair color. Only highlight your hair every 3 or more months. Not to much... It wont really burn your hair to bad but you might wanna start using some kind of product of shampoo and conditioner meant for people who dye hair.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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do u have ideas of what i can do to occupy myself?? i just feel sad and depressed!!

Well since im always depressed i shouod know. Ummm well i usually try to be busy doing something. Like hang out with your friends, shop, read a book, do what ever is possible. If your old enough try to get a job. That way about 3-5 hrs of your day is tooken by that.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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Ok so I am 13 years old and I want to start babysitting. I'm not sure if there are laws on how old you have to be (I live in England.) Is 13 old enough? How would I go about it?

Well actually as i know of, there is no law that says you have be a certain age to babysit. But it depends on the parents of the kid you want to babysit because they may want someone older to babysit the child. But yea it all depends on the parents.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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lately this weekend i feel depressed and sick! i don't know what to do! what should i do?

Actually same ffor me...I have been sick all weekend and when i havnt been with my friends im depressed. I moslty hanged out with friends but the few hours i didnt i felt like shit. But it will only probly last for the weekend. Let it slide but if it keeps goin and you are depressed for awhile tell your parents or guardian (this happend to me and lasted 3 monhs)and they will know what to do(when i asked my mom she to the therapist)! But give it time. You will feel better over time...But if you cant take it no longer talk to someone...you can even talk to me because Im going through the same.
~Hope this helps*Stephanie

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I have to babysit tomorrow and the next day and i get really bored i have to watch my lil bro 4 lyk 6 hours and i wanted to no if u have n e ideas about how to keep me not so bored?

Well if your so bored then ask your mom or dad if you may have a trusted friend over that they know. Having someone with you may help the time fly. Or if your parents dont like that idea, get on the internet, watch movies, read a book, play with your brother, take him to the park. BUT WHATEVER YOU DO DONT FORGET ABOUT HIM.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and we have only kissed once recently...and i really think i love him. he's on my mind all the time, everytime i hear his name my heart skips a beat, everytiem i see him, no matter how bad i feel, i feel instantly happy about everythign. we support each other in everythign, btu i have had friends tell me it is not true love...does anyone have any ways to tell real love from puppy love? i really dont know what to do, and i want to tell him how i feel, but i dont want to if it isnt real love. HELP ME PLEASE!!!

Thats hard. If your not sure if its love or not, it might not be love. Your friends migh be right. But since you never really felt love, it might be. But it may be just lust. I have this thing where i think i love the boy but by the time the relationship is over i know it wasnt. But what you gave me, only you can tell if it is or not. Talk to your boyfriend about it. He may make you feel better. If your close to someong older who looks ask though there in love, talk to them. I really hope that you and your boyfriend stayed together ad long as possible so you can figure if its love or not.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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okay hurr it goes i went out with this guy over the summer for like a month and a half and i truley believed i loved him then he cheated on meh and broke up with me for my best friend. Well they are broken up now but i still love this guy but he hates me now n i really dnt know why but i kant get him out of my mind i love him sooo muchh and i want to be back in his arms sooo bad wut should i do?

You must feel bad. I know you probly love him still, but you just havnt got through your head that he cheated on you and he isnt the best person to be with. Just look around, find new people. You will eventually find someone who will be sooooo great that your mind will be on him and not the cheating boyfriend. But if you like to give him another chance i would understand but it sounds as though he wont. Give it time, you will find someone. Cant wait? Then do things all the time to get him of your mind. Go shopping, be with your friends, read a book, go to the movies, workout, do what ever you can to get him off your mind. I would also talk to someone you really trust, like a parent or guardian, to talk to about this more. Find someone who knows you very well. They may give you more ideas to do what you like.
Hope this helped~Stephanie

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There is this new guy at my school, and I really like him, and he's got such a nice personality! I want to ask him out, but I don't know what to say or when to say it (I only see him at school)He's really shy, just like me. Please help...

Well your lucky he is shy because i bet it will be easier when im goin to advise you just walk up to him and start talking. Together, you two will eventually loosen up. Ask him if he could help you on your homework, tell him you like his shirt, or just say hi, how you doin. Either way you start the convo. i bet he would be happy you did.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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i have had my period 4 a awhile and i have basketball it is 4 days a week and i dont want to wear a pad cause i dont really lyk them it feels lyk a diper and ya i odnt lyk it wut shoudl i do and how can i ask my mom!

i dont no wut to do

Women are so lucky they have came up with tampons. Tampons are very comfortable...and less chance of a leak. Just talk to your mom about using them. Tell her you dont like how pads feel. Me knowing how pads feel and how i bet everyone feels she will understand. I know i was nervous asking my mom but she just said ok. She understood just like your mom should.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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wut is the best way to get a rid of pimples or acne quickly? i rate!

Well lucky for me i dont get many pimples because my mom put me on noxzema since i was eight. But to get rid of it you should always change your pillow case, Always wash your face, Use acne cream, dont touch your face(dirty hands), and just take care of it. Also dont pop your pimples, they leave horrible scars, yes they may get rid of them sooner but your gonna have scars for the rest of your life!!! Ask your docter also, he/she may have some ideas of how to help you out. Im sorry i dont have much to give you and just know your not the only one who goes through this.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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Hey ladies, I know this may sound like a stupid question, but how do u know if a guy likes you?? Like, what does he say or how does he act when he is around you? And what does he do if hes flirting and how do u know if hes flirting...please respond, I need some help and no one has been answering me!! Thanks girls..email or IM me!! =)

Well most of the time for me the guys just tell me that they like me. But the very few time that they havnt done that they usually flirt a whole lot, like the little playful push there and when he always talks to you and when he just like to do funny stuff around you. Flirting isnt hard to detect. You will deffently know when someone is flirting. If you cant tell then he probly isnt flirting, i may be worng about that every person is different but hope you find out if he does.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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Hey stephanie. I remember you from sig check hehe but anyways i think your a cool person so maybe you could help. I am 12 years old and I just moved into a new town and everthing here is different including the people imiss my old town and friends...no one here is friendly i have no friends at lunch i sit alone and it bothers me badly because im not used to having no friends. Is there a way I can make new friends better and keep in touch with my old?

Thats happens to everyone who moves to a new town. I havnt had that done to me but i'm usually the one who makes friends with the new people. But there isnt always a person like me at every school. I would say that you just go over and ask if you can sit with someone. You never know they may be the nicest people you ever known. Dont be shy, be out there say hi to everyone in the hall. They will eventually start talkin to you. Dont sit around and be quiet...DO SOMETHING! Make yourself noticed, But dont be annoying. I would say just be nice, outgoing, and just fun and i bet anyone would love to be your friend.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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My mom says I need to be more responsable so that she can trust me when I start driving in a month. How can I show her that she can trust me?

Do some extra chores and keep your room nice without her asking, that shows that you dont need her to worry. With your schoolwork, Do your best and get your grades up as high as possible, that will show that your determined. And just be nice. Dont be mouthing off to her bad or doing stuff you know that you shouldnt(although, i think, its fun)be doing. She will notice the changes in your attitude that she cant help but trust you.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

thanx

Well now-a-days guys liek jewlery. But if you cant afford something like that do something simple and sweet. Make him a mix cd of rap music with a football. Or get him a nice shirt. Just think of what he likes. I bet if he is as great as he sounds he wont care what you get him as long as it comes from your heart.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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Ok well I go to a school where there is over 3,000 people. I'm a girl and I am 15 years old. I guess I am ok looking too. And whenever there is a hot guy who likes me i talk and flirt with them. So it's like no big deal. But after a week or so, sometimes not even a week, i start to get REALLY sick of the guy! To where if i even think about him i just want to throw up! I've never been in a serious relationship and everyone thinks of me as a hoe because i move from one guy to another! Is there something wrong with me?! I start out liking the person but after a while he just gets so old! And it is like this with EVERY guy! No matter how hard i try to be commited to someone it just does not work! So do you think you can give me advice on why i can not stick with one guy and be happy for once? Thanks a lot!

Well i dont think your ready for a serious relationship. Your not a hoe for what you do, you just like to move on to many people. There really isnt anything wrong with that. Just wait there will be a guy who comes along and wont make you feel that way. But time will tell what will happen. So give it time, Im sure you will find that special someone soon.
Hope this helps~Stephanie

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