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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help. (link)
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tell someone you need to get it out that u are uncomfortable in ur our house. Your mother should be more understanding take her and make her listen to everything you have to say u shouldn't have to deal with it
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Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me? (link)
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maybe if the parents got to know you then it would be better. but when i was 13 i wet out with a 16 year old and my mom wasn't too thrilled but she never told me i couldn't date him. Make sure the parent know how u feel and everything it should help
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I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her? (link)
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Sex?? Shes 13.. Im 14 and oral sex is still a big deal.. she could screw everything up.. Her body might not even be ready for it yet.. theres an emotional side of it to.. most Guys can't keep secrets so she will have to deal with being called a slut and easy and everything just explain to her that u don't think its a good idea and tell her how u feel.. hope it helped
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Hey! Dis might sound realli dumb, but i wanna know how can i get a bigger but by not workin out or takin any pills..Lyke what kinda stuff do i have to eat.xox
From, Curious Stranger.
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u need to work out it will work alot better u can do like squots they help alot u can even do them at home or "mountain climers" where u step forward with one leg and bend down so ur knee on the other leg touches the ground then push back up to a normal stance.. it helps trust me..
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i like this guy alec alot.. ive went out with him in december, and then i dumped him for another guy. and then i liked him till about the end of may/ beg of june. (but he didnt know that, until i told him) and so i told him that.. and then we went out for like 5 days. and then he said i hurt him all the way back in dec. and that he doesnt wanna get hurt again, but i still like him =/ but he doesnt know that. and im afarid too tell him.. so should i tell him? or forget about him =/ cause i really dont know what to do. I miss him and i want to be with him really bad, but i do not know how to tell him. like i tried to be with other guys, but then i end up liking him again. and want to be with him.
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tell him how u feel just sit him down and be like everyone does dumb things and i hope u can forgive me cause im truely sorry talking is the best way to solve things.. hope it helps
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ok i met this boy nick like in the middle of the skool year...and i hated him soo much...he was going out with my friend....and i dont know i just hated him...then one day i went skating and he was there and i started liking him...well a week later he asked me out and we were goin out for like a month then we broke up...we were on and off all year...well then a month before skool let out he moved....it was the hardest day of my life saying goodbye to him....he was my first love ever and thats the truth.....well now he still calls me and everything and we r still friends and he wants to go back out and i love him sooo much and wanna say yah but i cant cuz ill never c him cuz he moved what should i do~!? (link)
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do u have stong enough feels to be able to not see him every moment u want to see him? if so then go for it when not.. just don't get hurt..
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Okay im gonna give you two guys and you decide which you like best okay? PEYTON:sweet,kinda best friend,hot,kinda talk to,wants 2 keep relationship secret,football playa,beatiful eyes, charming,shy,can protect me,and sweet! ADAM best friend, hot, always, talk 2, sensitive,wants to tell every1 about relationship,baseball playa charming,and sweet! Plz answer as soon as possible!! .
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depends on wat u want in a guy i mean they both seem nice but idk how long u can keep a relationship a secret its ganna get out soon im having the same trouble with my boyfriend he doesn't want to tell his mom about me because she will be obsessive about it i told him he should tell her and so.. do u want a secret relationship or not? its all up to u in the end. Hope it helps
i would pick Adam
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How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready? (link)
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u will just know.. its hard to explain but are u sure u wanna give it up at 14? i am 14 too and idk maybe u should just experiment with oral sex if u want.. but just make sure u wanna do watever u do! hope it helps
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i have this friend who has really bad breath all the time and she talks really really close to ur face. i wanna tell her but she is the type that would take it way too seriously .. she wouldnt get mad but she would be very paranoid and upset. (link)
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just bring it up that u have gum and ask her if she wants a peice.. deff the way to go it always works... lol hope it helps
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Alright my boyfriend and i have been on and off for almost a year..hes changed alot..we have been going "steady" for 4 months now he sayd he loves me but i dont belive it..he has hurt me so many times and the only thing that makes me believe it just a little is i said if u love me you'll quit smoking pot..and hes been clean for 2 months now and i was not doing it to be a bitch but i did it b/c he is always on trouble with the cops and now hes on probation for 3 years..i just wanna know if i should believe him when he tells me..hellllpp pllz! (link)
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3 simple words how they just mess everything up.. If he loves u he has to show u i agree.. making guys prove there love can take a long time.. cause everyday ou learn to love them more.. hopefully he didn't jsut quit smoking cause of the cops u prob had a part in it to.. hope this helps
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how do i get my mom to let me wear a padded bra? like a push up one? (link)
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depends how much padding u want.. i mean a little is ok but if u go like Padding CRAZY and makes it look like your boobs are much bigger than they normaly are its a no go.. don't try to be anything ur not.. just get one with support it will help trust me
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ok..i've just started talking to this guy on the internet and my friends have told me good (: things about him and im really starting to like him..but he has a grl friend and shes younger than me..how do i give him hints that i like him but i still want him to know i respect that he has a grl friend? (link)
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Have u ever met this guy? Is he serious with his girlfriend? You can still flirt with him even though he has a girlfriend and u can even tell him u like him... if its the best thing idk.. it depends on how serious the relationship is between him and his girlfriend
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I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!! (link)
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1 Ur boyfriend shouldn't be able to pick ur friends for u he should be sure that ur only his girl.. something prob makes him feel diffrent like jealous about that so u might want to talk to him..
2 Your guy friends care about u, u can tell... but having them saying stuff like that prob doesn't help anything.. they should realize where ur coming from standing behide ur boyfriend cause u love him and if they wanna be like fuck him and shit like that then u have to tell them how that makes u feel..
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ok my friend always eats lean pockets and she is like so tiny usally she is fat so lean pockets are all she eas so do you think that lean pockets are healty?
so is it healthy ?
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is that all she ate? i dout it cause she had to have been eating other stuff or that wouldn't be healthy Lean pockets aren't the best for u people bodies re-act deff to diffrent foods.. hope that helped
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my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!! (link)
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tell her how u feel about the whole thing usally talking is the best way to solve things.. she should understand shes ur best friend and if she doesn't u have to think to urself are u really that good of friends.. i hope it helps...
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I know that guys prefer girls to shave it all off most of the time. But girls,what do you think? Should your man go bald,trim,or natural? (link)
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u ever see that Scary movie 1??? well u do not wanna be growing a bush like that girl.. trim it babii
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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help! (link)
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I must be a slut then haha nah its just underwear.. but moms can be over protected especially when their "little girl" is growing up.. Just bring it up and tell her exactly why u want to wear them.. it should help or work..
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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him? (link)
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follow ur heart no matter wat anyone says on here it wont change wat u feel is the right choice.
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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't.. (link)
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thanks for the help and ur right 2 1/2 weeks isn't enough to get to know him
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hey girl.. i need help right now well i love my bf... but its like my best friend likes me well i took him today dat i only like him as a friend and nothing else.. but i hurt him really bad.. but he just cant get OVER ME!!!!!!!!!!! and i want him 2.. bc i dont look @ him like dat.. bc my bf iz da one 4 me and i love him 2 death... can you tell me what 2 do?
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Regection sucks which everyone knows hes ganna have to take a lil while to just think things through.. He's ur best friend he should understand.. hope that helps..
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