Alright my boyfriend and i have been on and off for almost a year..hes changed alot..we have been going "steady" for 4 months now he sayd he loves me but i dont belive it..he has hurt me so many times and the only thing that makes me believe it just a little is i said if u love me you'll quit smoking pot..and hes been clean for 2 months now and i was not doing it to be a bitch but i did it b/c he is always on trouble with the cops and now hes on probation for 3 years..i just wanna know if i should believe him when he tells me..hellllpp pllz! <3 x0 MaNdIe 0x
Bethany answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:27 pm: 3 simple words how they just mess everything up.. If he loves u he has to show u i agree.. making guys prove there love can take a long time.. cause everyday ou learn to love them more.. hopefully he didn't jsut quit smoking cause of the cops u prob had a part in it to.. hope this helps [ Bethany's advice column | Ask Bethany A Question ]
*tasha* answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:50 pm: He's your boyfriend and yes you should trust him...But take it slow still and don't get to attatched to him.Maybe if you don't believe it you guys just shouldn't say it.? Well Good luck!!
Hotblonde123 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:49 pm: Of course you should believe me. If he gave up pot for you then I think he really does love you. That is something that most guys will leave girls for. Tell him how u feel maybe he can change your mind. I hope y'all work out. Good luck [ Hotblonde123's advice column | Ask Hotblonde123 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:43 pm: Love is a confusing emotion for everyone. An action isn't enough to show love. It's up to you whether or not you believe him. Think about it, though. Can you FEEL that he loves you when he touches you? You're the only one who can tell. Just make sure he's not using the word "love" to get sex. There are guys that do that. Just be careful. Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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