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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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hey, i'm 15 years old, and i really want to dress like ashlee simpson. i just like her style. if anyone could maybe give me some links to clothes that she might wear or something? i'll rate. (link)
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I know she gets some clothes aeropastal becuz she wears shirts soem tomes that say aeropastal on them lol and abercrombia I think thats how you spell it
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i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me! (link)
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Well If I am pretty sure you got an infection by keeping a tampon in to long when you had you lastperiod you might of did it becuz it take the next time to noticed if you have an infection if it doesnt clear up in about 2 days I would go see a docter Hope I helped and hope you get better
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I'm the one who asked if my gym teacher saw my cartilidge piercing what should i do, cuz I'm not allowed to have any piercings in, and your not allowed to cover them! So, I got caught today and I'm not allowed to take gym at all!! I'm going to the principal tomorrow, because I'm NOT taking my piercing out, i love it too much. They just now (this year) made the rule that we're not allowed to cover our piercings, and my gym teachers reasonings, is because kids as they get older get alot rougher. Which is a bunch of BS!! What is some stuff I can point out tomorrow w/ the principal. THANKS =) (link)
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Just tell him that you got your cartlidge pierced reasonitly and you cant take them off for like say 6 week or some thing or tell him you forgot about it. I forget about my big loops all the time so I get in trouble..but if you dont feel right about lieing say that you like them so much that you really didnt want to take them off.. Hope I helped
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Does anyone know why my cacti keep dieing?
1) i have them by a window
2) and i water them once a week (link)
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I dont know if I am right, But I heard once from my science teacher that you needed to water them twice a day and take them out side for about an hour or two a day:\ not sure sorry just trying to help
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Theres stains all over my clothes and my carpet (from food and dirt and such). Ive tried using detregent on it but the stains arent coming out. What should I use on it instead? (link)
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OxieClean I use it all the time it gets out allot of stuff like blood finger nail polish dirt sause and you can get it at the store NOW lol
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i have to make a business card for school..my business is sensual scents its selling perfume..i have a logo and all that..but i need a catchy slogan..if any1 has any ideas please let me know!! thanx.. (link)
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If you dont get this perfume you will be doom lol its not that great but I think its cute ha ha
hope it helps
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I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/. (link)
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goodies they always have sales on tuesday and thursdays hope I helped
Megan
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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?
thanks aton! (link)
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I put it on the bottom and I use pencil and there are allot of good brands but I use marykay it stays one all day until you wash it off just dont buy the really cheap kind at wal mart IT SUCKS
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when i get hungry, i sometimes munch on pita chips for a snack (sun-baked chips that have basil on them). are those healthy? (link)
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NO but they make some low carb and they are really healthy they have 4 carbs in all bags 12 protian and no sugar
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hey i cut myself and a teacher asked me about them and i have to go to see a counselor should i deny it all or get help? (link)
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I dont think you should you need to tell soem one you can kill your self even though O dont know you I really wouldnt like you to die plz stop :(
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I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!? (link)
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I know what you mean they can be really rude if you every ask a question and they give you a rude response jsut go to suggetions at the tope of the page and when you get there it will say report abuse just click it and put in the columns name and put what they did to you I wish the rude people would get bandthey are just trying to be funny but they are mean and they can get some one hurt
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i usually eat very very verryyy healithy (fruits, veggies, protein, etc). buttt everyonce in a while i have junk food cravings--a snickers bar or a slice of pizza or a package of sour patch kids---you get the idea. how often is it okay to have one of these things if you want to stay healthy and maintain your weight? (link)
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Well I eat them when some thing happens I mean like Christmas or partys or dances just socailable things
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does anyone know where to get jeans that are a little below ur waist and are about $15-30? someone please help and i may rate you a 5! (link)
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well goodies have some good jeans and they are about 15 some times 20 but they have really good sales on tuesdays and I think sunday but I'm not sure
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when you ask a question, does it show up on your page? (link)
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Yes every thing does if your new at this dont put your e-mail adress on there some people will send you viruses or nude people
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Whats a good way to tone your calf muscles and your upper legs, like your thighs and Tone your butt? if You dont have access to any weight machines, or anything like that. (link)
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Bring you legs up off the ground about 8 inches (one at a time) and hold one for about 30 sec. then the next leg
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Where can i get good backgrounds for my column? (link)
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nuthinbutnet.net THats where I use to get it but then I changed it to a solid color hope I helped
Megan
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hey, does anyone have any good ideas for a band name? theres like 4-5 s in it and all i thought of is "strength in scars" but it sounds kind of like my firends band so i dont think were gunna use it.. thanks so much [i'll give you credit or whatever if we do use it lol just give me your first name of somthing] (link)
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Use a funny name so if yall become popular every one will no who yall are some thnig like the RUsty Door Handles or like The pudding spoons every one will know who yall are and it would be a cool band name by the way my name is Megan
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okay.. im the new girl at school.. and all the girls hate me.. like.. they call me stuck up.. and i asked one girl.. and she said im stuck up because i wear hollister and american eagle and hang out with the guys who only wear that.. (but thats only because theyre the only people who will talk to me becuase everyone thinks im stuck up!!!) and they have no reason to think that because.. like.. im not.. at all!! i dont know what i should do and i really need help! ive already tried being nice to them..! (link)
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Maybe you should start out small like jsut talk to some people that arent that popular then start working your way up if people tell you you are stuck up jsut say how do you no that you dont even know me. Its pretty miuch becuz you the new girl after a month they will treat you normal
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help! (link)
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wash it in hot water then dry it in the dryer. it will shrink about 1-2 sizes smallers
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i don`t want to sound retarded or anything but how in the heck do you delete a question? so it like won`t show up on my column? help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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Go to Edit Answers and go to the question that you want to delete and delete all the text in your answer for that question and then click on Edit Answer Hope you find it
MEgan
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