Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Age: 16
Member Since: November 15, 2009
Answers: 45
Last Update: August 11, 2011
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im 18 my boyfriends 20..and im pregnant.
we were so careful..we used condoms and bc but we ran out of condoms and thought it would be ok. i took every pill on time but im pregnant. he wants to give the baby up for adoption and i cant, i already love it. does anyone have advice on how and can convince him to keep it? no lectures please. (link)
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Don't worry. I won't lecture you. Tell him you want to keep it! Tell him there is no force in the world that can keep you and the baby seperated!
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K im really confused and need like serious help so here goes
k so i saw this guy in the 8th grade im now in the 11th grade and ever since i saw him and talked to him maybe a few times in grade 9 but only cuz he was sitting beside me in english and we wuld jus causually talk and well i cant stop thinking about him i mean ever since grade 8 i cant think of any other guy then him i dont know why im not even close to him or know him or really talk to him and now i dont talk to him at all because i dont go to his school anymore because i moved after grade 9 to a new skool only about a half hour away from my old school and i still cant stop thinking about him i feel like im going crazy i dont know why i want to get to know him and hang out with him and i really feel crazy because i really dont think theres a such thing as love at first site and honestly i dont think he wuld be interested im not that pretty and ya but hes tall and im tall and my friends go to the same skool as him and a few know him well and stuff and the wierdist thing is he has the same last name as my brothers first name which i dont think means anything and i know this all seems confusing and crazy and makes probably no sense at all but i need help wuts going on why cant i get him out of my head plzz help me or i seriously think im gonna go crazy (link)
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Ok. I'm gonna just say this real quick. Calm Down!
It's normal to have someone stuck in your head at all times...well normal for me because I have the same problem,but ok. Anyway...try to look him up and chat. Get to know him little by liitle. actually that might help get him out of your head because you'll be trying to look for him and getting to know him for a while, you'll be totally busy for a while. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but ok. Good Luck!
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I met a guy through one of my closest friends, and we've become really close over the past few months, he's my best boy mate, and I've grown to like him as more recently. He knows how I feel about him and we've held hands before, but we agreed on friends only at the moment. He had his heart broken a few days after we met, a girl he liked a lot lead him on and used him, and she was really horrible to him for being upset about it... he said he's trying to move on and that he "just needs to get laid" but he just can't seem to forget her :( I hate that there's nothing I can do to help him and I really like him so so much, I don't know where I stand or what I should do at all... I don't wanna get my heart broken or be used but I just don't know where I am in his head :( I'm willing to wait for him but I don't wanna waste my time either..
(I'm age 16 if that helps at all!) Thanks in adcvance guys :)
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You could talk to him about it. You could let him know where he stands in your heart. Give him a chance though. Give him a chance to figure things out. Don't get your hopes up high though because it could be bad and good for what he feels. Just wait and see like that saying good things come to those who wait. Good luck though! I'll be cheering you on!
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im 15 and im gay and i really like one of my good friends ive had feelings for him for awhile but im too nervous to tell him not sure how he will react i havent come out to anyone im worried what people might think i really like him im not sure if hes gay im not sure how to go about it do i tell him how i feel or send him a message? what can do? (link)
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Well, maybe you should talk things out about that with him. Although it might end up bad or good. So just beware of the things that could happen. Good luck! I'll cheer you on!
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im 14 male and im a little worried my penis is just over 5 inches long is that normal? do girls care? (link)
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Um.....Well,I don't think they will care and aren't you a little young to be doing "that" anyway? Also, maybe you should ask a doctor about that.
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so i have this guy friend who i liked for like ever, and he finally made a move.. but i was already about to get with this guy, and the guy who is my bestfriend held my hand and i kissed him, but my dad would never approve.. well he would but then he wouldnt be able to come stay the night with my brother.. and they are bestfriends.. and so therefore our relationship would be a lie and secret.. and i want a real relationship.. so i am dating this guy who is amazing, but i keep seeing my friends face, and my boyfriend said he loved me and he cares.. but my friend has always been there.. now we are in a fight.. and i care so much for my friend.. but feelings are forming for my boyfriend.. and i dont know what to do.. this should be so much longer haha.. but i balled over my friend because we are in a fight...help.. also my friend has a huge poker face.. he can bury his feelings sooo deep... and right now he is.. and i just want to tell him i love him.. (link)
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well, you should listen to your heart. If I were you, I would talk my feelings out with my friend.
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15/f ok so i have this amazing bf! i love him to death! christmas is coming up and i need lots of ideas on what i could get him i cant think of anything! any opinions would help. i want it to be something special or sentimental but i just cant think of anything :/ plz someone help me i need all the help i can get. i want to make this a special christmas for him thanks :) (link)
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Put a bow on your head and give yourself to him! JK, but you could find out the tings he's into. Put them together and what do you have...the perfect gift!
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hey
mm i was just wondering what scents do guys like on girls??I know odd question but i just wonder what would my bf like lol thanks! (link)
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flowers
sweetness
basically something that smells delicious ang smells really good, but not that strong.
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so me and this guy have been talking for a few months now and he says that i never show that i like him. how can i show him that i like him? (link)
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Well, you can send him love notes. Always hang with him. Write a song about him. You could do that. It's good that you're asking me because when I like a guy, I'm bad at making it real obvious, so.....Good Luck! Tell me if it works! ;)
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..if a guy actually loves you like he says he does or if he just wants you for the sex? (link)
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Well, it depends what type of guy he is. Like some guys, really love you and other guys just say that to get you into bed with them. Good luck!!! ;)
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I have no idea what is the best way to approach the situation.
My cousin, I don't really know her well and we're like distant cousins.
My boyfriend, best friend, I know him very well.
So my cousin and boyfriend go to the same college, stay in the same dorm building. They've met before, but do not talk to one another.
One night my boyfriend goes to a party and texts me and tells me cousin is there. I'm like oh cool. Then he says she kept staring at him and was following him. He isn't the type to confront a female about weird things. I was thinking that was SO weird. She texted me and said she saw him there. Ok, cool. So another night my boyfriend goes out and she's there. Again she's following him and walking by him. I'm again ok wow, that's weirddddd. So, Friday he's out again. This time he tells me, "your cousin here and she's following me again, dancing crazy around me, and pointing at me." What! He then says "Can you please talk to her about it because its making me feel really unconfortable. BUT don't be mean about it because I do have to see her around."
I told my mom this and she says I should say specifically what she was doing and to tell her its making me uncomfortable and him. Is that appropriate? If so, how should I put it in words?
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Ask if he likes him. Like ask why she follows him. Maybe she will tell you because she thinks you can help her and maybe she won't say anything because she might also think that it's none of your business. Trust me, I had to deal with a problem like this too. If she tells you then maybe you could tell her to lay off a little bit or something because it makes him uncomfortable. Actually just do what you think is right. Hope it helps! ;)
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Okay i have a girlfriend, and I'm bisexual (mostly gay) and she doesn't support me at all. I want to break up with her so badly not that i want to hurt her but for 6 months now I've put up with her downing me. She lives with me and her family moved out of state, i want to break up with her but i don't want her to be on the streets or end up moving out of state. Because i want to still be friends and i slightly don't want to lose someone that's close to be. But when i think about it i get depressed. But i can't live my life like this and i don't want her feelings hurt either
Her feelings matter too, so please i need as much help as i can get.
Love Beau (link)
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Talk to her about how you feel. You two won't get anything done unless you work it out and try to solve the problem.
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I like a guy,who seems like he wants to hookup with me but as well be a really close friend.I want him to become interested in me and want to go out with me.What could I do to maybe be hard to get or make him want more than just a friendship/hookup? (link)
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Haha! Same problem with me actually. Well hang out with him most often. Make him see that you are the person he wants to be with. Or...you could ask what type of girls he's into and try to be that person.
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Ok so here is what is going on I like this guy and well idk if he likes me back. Last week he walked me to class and we talked after school. But then Monday he was all plain again. Also he is flirits slot with all the girls. I have been friends with him since last year an I liked him last year too. But e liked one of my friends. What can I do to make him like me I want to stand out cuz I know that a lot of girls like him. This happens he flirits with me for like 2 days then it all goes back up to normal what is going on???? Pls help! (link)
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Well...I'm sorry to tell you this, but most guys are like that. Also it does sound like he's a player and maybe it sounds like he justs wants to be friends. Or maybe he has a difficult time deciding on who to like. You know...keeps running back and forth. It's like that with me too. It's soooooo confusing, isn't it?
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I had two cats, Toby & jack. jack was taken to my moms house for a month now to get fixed and everything... a little after he left, toby has been really affectionate; i dont know if its because he needs me to be like his Jack, because they loved each other.. if not mistaken, they were lovers.. hahah, but why is it that my cat who was never this affectionate before suddenly is? he never even liked being picked up and now he can sleep in my arms.. (link)
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Well first of all...aaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee and maybe Toby thinks of you as a replacement cat lover or maybe he really loves you now.
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My bf would love a model car replica of his 2000 honda civic gold rims and all. Is there anyway of ordering a custom made model replica car???? (link)
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Maybe, but I'm guessing it'll cost a lot of money. I'm not sure so...Good luck!
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So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it? (link)
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Ok...well it's most likely you didn't do anything wrong. You could confront him, but I doubt he'll say anything because well...all boys are like that so.......I hope everything works out for you. Good Luck!
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latley my boyfriend and i have not ben nearly as close, weve talked about it alot and have stopped fighting as much but how can we become so close again? also i might have fallen out of love with him :'( i dont want to talk to him on the phone anymore i find an excuse to hangup, id rather be with friends instead and so on. how can we become close again, i love him but idk whats going on.
today i went to kitaro and asked for an application and the waiter an i talked for over ten min and we both kept catching ourselves ,dare i say, flirting, the other guy never came back with an app so after a while i just said i had to go il come back some other time. i wasnt going to cheat but i felt so much more love out of him than out of my boyfriend of a year n a half.. any tips? :( 15/f (link)
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If I were you, I would listen to my heart. I also would look at the pros and cons. I'm just saying, do what you feel in your heart.
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you see, one of my best friends like this guy. let's call him johnny. well, one of johnny's guy friends who i am really good friends with told me a month or so ago that johnny likes me. my friend always thinks the guy she likes likes me, and to have one guy ACTUALLY like me would kill her. it's weird to ask this, but i need to get him NOT to like me, or my friend will be crushed forever. she will never let me talk to the guy she likes again. helpppppp. (link)
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To get a guy to not like you is find out what kindof person he's into be the total opposite. Hey, it worked for me.
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How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp (link)
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If I was the girl you liked, I would want you to show me how much you care. Show me your passionate affectionate love to me.Write a poem/song about her. Tell her how an ordinary day would be for her if she would be dating you.
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