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how do you get a guy NOT to like you?
you see, one of my best friends like this guy. let's call him johnny. well, one of johnny's guy friends who i am really good friends with told me a month or so ago that johnny likes me. my friend always thinks the guy she likes likes me, and to have one guy ACTUALLY like me would kill her. it's weird to ask this, but i need to get him NOT to like me, or my friend will be crushed forever. she will never let me talk to the guy she likes again. helpppppp.
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To get a guy to not like you is find out what kindof person he's into be the total opposite. Hey, it worked for me.
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Give him subtle encouragement in her direction. Talk her up in front of him, tell him she thinks he's cute, etc. Guys are usually pretty oblivious, and he might well have no idea she likes him. If you don't like him, thats your best course.
Best case scenario, you misdirect his interest, you send your own "I don't like you, don't chase me" signals, and hopefully your friend notices or finds out that when she's not around you tell the guy he should be interested in her.
Talking behind someone's back isn't always bad.
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Well that's very difficult, but possible. Whenever this guy talks to you just ignore him just be completely snobbish or rude to him. Hope all goes well!
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Okayy so don't worry. All you have to do is talk to johnny. let him know EXACTLY how you feel and tell your friend to talk to him. If the message isn't clear to him, then he'll just walk away. If he likes you and not your friend then he's not worth your time. If she's really your friend then she'll understand you're not the bad guy here. DOn't stress so much about it and just communicate. that's the key. hope i helped and if you have any more question just ask :)
good luck!
love,
rachel
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