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heyy y`all!!! asHley here..
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i'm sorry, i know this question has been asked a million times, but where are some good background sites?? the one i normally use isn't working for me. thanks in advance

the only backround site i use is - http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ or the ones that are linked off of them =o) hope i helped

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i need help..i really feel like im fat..my friends say that im not but i really think i m. i am 13 years old nd i weigh 120 pounds..my sister is 14 nd she weighs like 90 pounds...nd shes super skinny..she eats so much more than me nd shes still skinnier!! sumtimes i cry at night cuz i feel so fat...ive tried exercisin nd dietin..i even went on a starvation diet for two days but then i stopped cuz it wasnt healthy..even tho i lost 10 pounds...i hav a pool nd i go swimmin alot but i dont like to be seen in a bathin suit..i always go swimmin alone..i really need help..can sumone please help me!!
xOxO unc0mf0rtable xOxO

hey.. first of all, it doesn`t really matter about yur weight! and yu shouldn`t be self concious about it! and try eating ONLY healthy foods.. and don`t eat like 10 extra meals.. eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner, then maybe one or two snacks at the most.. but make them salads, fruits and vegetables, all the good stuff... and yu can run, swim (without being worried) or, try one of those excersize videos! they`re fun!! lol.. just relax and live yur life =o) hope i helped

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i have a boyfriend who means the world to me. but some people are telling him that i flirt with this other boy.. but i dont!! he is like me best friend and i have never thought of him as being anything more than a friend to me. some of my friends say he likes me but i def dont like him at all. my boyfriend thinks i do .. but i dont know how to prove it to him that i dont!

talk to him!! and tell him how this kid is just a friend and that even if he liked yu, yu would never like him back!! and also show yur boyfriend how much he means to yu!!! good luck

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I've been wondering- how r u supposed 2 type an upside down ? mark. I have seen other people do it. But i dunno how?

to type an upside down question mark all yu do is hold the ALT button and on the set of number keys on the right of the keyboard, press 5544 ¿ hope i helped

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Does anybody in here know or is related to a famous person? if so who?

italian_diamond

i dunno if he`s famous where yu live, but my dad lived in marc bavaro`s house for 2 months while he was on vacation! (marc bavaro = gaint`s football team player or sumthin like that) lol

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i've been using this site for a while, but i still can't figure it out! HOW DO YOU RATE SOMEONE???

hey... in order to rate someone wen yur a columnist, first ask them a question... then once they answer it, yu can go to Your Questions and click on the number of questions yu`ve asked... it should show yu yur answer and then say RATE THIS ANSWER!! just pick a number and add feedback if yu want =o) hope i helped

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This:

http://www.avatarity.com/avatar.php?aid=7427

Is an avatar. Not an AIM buddy icon.

Could someone please tell me where I can get some avatars? Or does someone make avatars?

(Please don't tell me to go to www.avatarity.com. They do not allow direct linking.)

I will not claim them for my own. PLEASE help me.

Thank you. :)

(Erm. Sorry if this is posted twice. O.o The first time I posted, it wouldn't show up.)

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=LaBonita916&nextdate=8%2f4%2f2004+2%3a47%3a20.577&direction=n

has amazing avatars!! but yu have to ask or credit her.. i credited her cuz i used one on mii xanga.. hope i helped. and major creds to her!!

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I am 15, about 5' 8" and only weigh 105lbs. I know that is really skinny or w/e and it's kinda scaring me. In a 1 year time period (from when I was 14 until 15.) I gained about 20 pounds. I went from being 95lbs to about 115lbs. I'm a dancer and didn't like that 115lbs, so I tried 2 lose just a lil weight 2 get down to 110lbs. I got 2 my goal and then stopped trying 2 lose weight, the only thing is, since then I seem 2 keep losing weight and now I'm @ 105lbs. Does any1 know wut's going on?

well this doesn`t quite answer yur question but.. when yu wanted to lose weight the first time, did yu become anerexic or balemic? cuz if yu did, it`s wiicked hard to stop!! but first, try eating three meals and at least two snacks and see if yur weight changes in any way.. if it gets any lower tho, yu have to tell someone because it could be serious.. good luck

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what's a good way to make friends?

just be yurself but when yu meet someone!! if yu someone interesting, just walk up to them and introduce yurself! it may seem wierd at first but once yu get use to it, yu could meet some awesome people!! good luck

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ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this!

i`d say go for it!!! but before yu actually say yes, yu should tell him that yu want to go out with him but once and if yu ever break up, yu can`t let it ruin yur friendship!! hope i helped

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My really close friend that i have known since we were 6 is a cutter. She did it once and told me i talked with her and i thought we reached a point where she realized how bad it really was. She said she would stop because its stupid and hard to cover up. Just a few weeks ago i noticed not just the 2 singles cuts but about 15. It scares me because i love her and i know that cutting is horrible and solves nothing. I haven't gotten to many chances to talk one on one with her but when i do i get scared that she won't listen. I don't want to be a snitch and tell her parents but maybe that is the right thing to do. I'm so confused but i know something needs to be done before she really hurts herself by cutting to deep. I mean we are only 13 years old i really don't know why she is cutting herself. Please help me save my friend!

hm.. this is really sad and i`m so sorry that both yu and yur friend have to go through this.. and even if yu get scared and yu think it`s too hard, yu HAVE to talk to her.. go somewhere, sit down, and tell her that she has to listen to everything yu say.. tell her that it`s a horrible thing to do and if she doesn`t stop, yur going to have to tell someone.. tell her how yu feel inside! and how scared it makes yu that yu can loose yur best friend!! and make sure yu look her in the eye so she knows yur not kidding in any way!!! cutting is usually a sign of stress and depresion.. ask her if she`s okay! and try and have her talk to yu about it!! and then, wait a little while and watch her.. if yu see one more cut, yur going to have to tell someone.. she may say she hates yu or sumthing but it`ll only save her and someday, she will thank yu.. i`m so sorry and i hope i helped... tell me how it turns out!

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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

whoa - yes yu should definitly dump him!! i mean it`s gunna be really hard at first but no one deserves that pain! i mean he says he`s sry but it could happen again! and he could totally break yur heart! even if yu really like him, yu need to get rid of him before yu get hurt again!

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hi im 5'4 and 90 pounds. im worried that i dont weigh enough. everyone thinks im anerexic but im not so i dont care but i feel like my weight might be too low. should i gain weight?

hii.. it wouldn`t be a horrible thing if yu gained a couple of pounds.. i mean i don`t know yu so i can`t judge but from wut yu say, yu seem VERY skinny... i mean if yu eat really well (which includes all three meals!! and a couple snacks here and there) and yu still weigh that much, maybe yu just weren`t meant to be fat!! but if i were yu i`d eat a lil bit of junk food just to show everybody that yur not anerexic! and once they believe yu, go back to the healthy stuff! hope i helped

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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?

hey - i don`t wanna sound really mean or anything but.. if this guy is already cheating on another girl, who knows wut he`ll do to yu! yu need to get him to tell his gf wut he`s been doing with yu! then once she`s outa the picture - ask him out! lol =o) good luck

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hey um i was wondering..how do u make ur own icons??

hey! there are a ton of ways to make yur own.. i usually just edit mine but sometimes i make them - here`s a couple websites for them --http://www.dollbuddieicons.net/?id=makers and yu can edit yur icons at - http://www.ghettoicons.com/?id=home .. i know a couple more places so if yu need more then IM me =o) hope i helped

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OMG I got my haircut 2day after school....so I got there and when I sat down I told her how I wanted it. I specifically said 2 1/2 inches. Okay so she turned me away from the mirror for a while and all I heard was snip snip and I saw hair falling to the floor. I didn't even realize but she cut 5 1/2 inches off cause she thought that was what I said! It's so ugly and it's about to my chin! UgH! i dont wanna show my face 2morrow! heLp me! has this ever happened to u be4?

hey! yeh this has happened to me before and it`s horrible!! but yu shouldn`t care wut anybody else thinks about it!! it should grow back soon!! but anyways.. wen i got mine cut too short, all i did was pull it back in a pony tail.. if yurs is too short, yu could always do two french braids (if yu know how) or a half pony tail.. it won`t make it look any longer but it`ll keep people from thinking it`s too short.. and whenever yur talking to someone, don`t bring it up and maybe they won`t notice? lol sry i couldn`t help more.. good luck =o)

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hey ashley..i think this adivse columm thing is really cute!! U SEe i have this bf who i really like but i havnt seen him all summer and its catching up on me. u see i like this other kid who i met and im not sure if he likes me..then agian at the same time i really wanna be single and just flirt and be able to meet other guys i dont no wat to do!! :-( please wat do u think?? -flirts-a-lot

thank yu =o)
hm.. this is kinda hard and i`m goin thro the same thing... if i were yu tho, i`d prolly see wut it`s like being single and flirting! i mean i bet yu have before but try telling yur boyfriend that yu need a little bit of space! hopefully he`ll understand! but make sure he knows yu still like him!! i mean theres nothing wrong with a girl wanting to flirt, but yu can`t just leave yur bf behind.. so tell him that yu need space - then try flirtin with this new kid! try and find out if he likes yu! i mean - does he flirt back? anyways.. i know it`s hard to break up but sometimes it only makes yu miss yur bf more! so tell him yu need time and then go get the other guys!! theres no harm in flirting =o) sry i couldn`t help more

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i have a boyfriend at home....and i on vacation rite now and i met this group of guys and one of them kissed me and i will admit i didn't hate it...if he ever found out he wood kill me! wat do i do if he ever found out?! =o/

hey! well first of all, yu can`t wig yur self out! he should know the truth from yu but if yu don`t feel comfortable then wait a lil while! but if he does, he obviously isn`t gunna kill yu! i mean.. just show him how much yu *like* him and how important he is to yu! hopefully he`ll understand.. but just make sure yu don`t do it again! cuz it`s the worst thing in the world to lose his trust.. hope i helped and good luck!

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hey ash its miranda ME/CT im really freaked out about 7th grade i mean ive already been in the school for a year but im still nervous about what my freinds r gonna think of me and stuff over the summer and what the kids im gonna meet think of me...what was it like for u and what should i do to relieve stress and not b so nervous? lyl thanx

hey miranda darlin!! first of all - calm down!!! 7th grade really isn`t that bad!! yu already know a ton of these people and are prolly friends with them! and if they don`t like yu then that`s there problem!! yur an awesome person and i`m sure everyone will! but just act like yurself and forgot about all the stress!! just relax and have fun!! i mean.. big woop if someone doesn`t like yu! it`s not the end of the world hun! and that`s the worst that could happen so stop worryin!! i`ll see yu soon =o) lol hope i helped

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Hey ashes.. its amanda...
i was jw.. what if u want to move on in ur relationship u have with ur bf but he doesnt want to?? what do you do?! i mean im not having trouble but my friend is!
thanks for everything!
love you =o)

hey amanda! this is a tough one.. well.. if i were yur friend - i would probably (without mentioning) give little hints to show him that i wanted to! like.. act all flirty but mature and stuff! or just talk to him about it!! i mean she can tell him that she doesn`t want to ruin their relationship in any way - but she thinks they`re ready to move on!! sorry i couldn`t help more!! xox adios

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