My period is 2 weeks late and I'm really afraid I'm pregnant. My friends say that it's near impossible - especially because I am usually always late to begin with. My period is completely irregular. I've even skipped a month about 2 times since i've started (about 4-5 years ago).
I've never had sex. My boyfriend fingers me a lot but he has never even ejaculated around me so I don't think any of his fluids could have gotten into me. What are my chances of actually being pregnant?
Also:
-what if he had masturbated earlier that day or something and there were still fluids on his hands? is that possible?
-what if he had precum on his hands and then put his hands inside of me?
sorry. I'm just worry a lot. Thanks in advance.
okay in order for you to get pregnant he will have to gome inside you to reach your ovaries so there is no chance of pregnacy but you should go to the doctor for they can give you some homomes pills that can make your cycle come on time the ones i know that work is call estrogen so she if you can get those but there is an chance they will give you some that they think will be good for your body just practice safe sex next time alright
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for the aches take an hot (not boiling hot) bath with and tablespoon on vingar and relax your musles you will feel better then drink you some tea or thera flu that should work but don't forget to rub some vicks on your chest and behind you shouders it will c;ear up your throat and nose ( DO NOT TAKE ANY HALL) it makes your cold worst.
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ok hi
i was talking to this boy and we were just friends with benfits but i really liked him and although he told me he really liked me i dont really believe it. so earlier this week i left him a voicemail telling him i wanted to just be friends and nothing eles because i fell in love once and got hurt and i didnt want that to happen again. so now hes not talking to me and not answering my calls and i think i hurt him but all the time when i tried saying sorry and talking to him he wont talk back. so should i just foget about him or keep trying to talk to him.
sound like this boy thought you was easy and tried to get into your pants instead having an relationship so let him bounce there are other guys out there for you, so don't sweat it
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i have terrible dark circles under my eyes, yet i sleep 8 hours every night and have a good sleeping schedule, even on weekends. how can i get rid of them?
here's an grandma tell for you, wash your face with some oatmeal bath and place an cucumber over your eyes or an half of an apple with an hot towel my grandma told me that years ago when i was in college and stand up pver night studying for my mid terms.
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kayy i really like thisguy but whenever im around him i get all nervous and cant walk or even breathe .. is this normal ..i know this sounds like a weird question but how do i get past all this to be able to talk to him calmly and flirty?
just go to him and start an regular conversation you never know he might got the fever for you
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What are some signs that a guy likes you? Preferrably a guy you're friends with/talk to a lot in school? I've never had a boyfriend and no one's ever liked me as far as I know so I don't know this stuff too well lol.
the way you can tell if an guy like you if he 1. keep playing with you 2.always around you 3.wanting to seat next to you instead of his friends 4. always looking at you 5.ask you out
i hope this help good luck
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so the other day, i had my period but it was almost over .. soo my boyfriend was at my house and i didnt tell him i had my period .. but i diddnt worry cuz it was the last day. soo we started fooling around and my flow started getting really heavy and he was eating me out and all of a sudden he looked at me and there was blood all over his mouth!!!!!!! now he cant even look at me in the eyes. i dont know what to do! please help me!
that's an big no.no you should have told him your girlfriend was visting now he is man because you did not say something or tried to stop him give him some time to forget and then tell himyou are sorry for not telling him and you thought your girlfriend was gone, and next time wait 2 days before plessure.
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i have moderate acne...its pretty much just around my mouth area and like 2 on my forehead...ive been on these pills subscirbed by my dermotologist and she gave me this wash and lotion and ive been using that for like a month and the only thing the wash does it dry out my skin and make me get more pimples...i have clean and clear morning burst (orange with microbeads) and i hear that clean&clear works for alot of people and also that stuff that dries out your skin just gives you more pimples...should i try clean and clear? or something softer for my skin?
you can try it if you want or use an moisterzer with your perscption and let your doctor know that the medication is drying your skin out.
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ok i have two questions here:
one: i have a bladder infection. it hurts soooo badly. not only in my stomach, but also "down there" every time i go to pee. -.-'' WHEN WILL THIS END?!?!! i went to the doctor today and they gave me these pills but so far, i only feel better for a short time and then start feeling like shit again. so yeah. someone know when this will go away? please tell me. im dying.
second: my boyfriends mom asked him if we have been having sex because she says you can get bladder infections if you have sex too much. and he and i had sex 2 times the other day, and then once the next day. we're pretty sexually active. i dont think 3 times in two days is too much, but if i DID get my bladder infection from that, how can i prevent this from happening again? and dont tell me to not have sex, because we use protection every time. so just tell me how i could not get a bladder infection, but still have sex with my boyfriend?
thanks so much. if you only know the answer to one, go ahead and answer. you dont have to know both to answer. :)
okay first if all i have never heard of an bladder infection coming from to much sex in that case i will have an whole lot of bladder infections, i been in the medical field for 15 years an never heard that you can get an bladder infection from 1. to much pop 2.not drinking enough water 3.holding your pee, now keep taking your meds and the pain will go around soon DO NOT Skip your meds take them on time.
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There's this guy that I really like that I dated last year. I broke up with him but I regret it. He asked me out this year but I wasn't ready for another relationship but now he has a girlfriend. She's pretty and all but I love him and can't forget him he told me he still loved me but couldn't break up with her but idk why. If he loves me soo much y can't he just do it he claims to love me more than her but at school he doesn't talk to me and gives her a lot of attention. What should I do??
you know there's times that guys act like that he will come to his senses soon don't sweat it ,so if he keeps acting like he don't know you do him the same way he will wake up then.
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Ok. I'm sorry if I make this akward but my boyfriend, nathan, sometimes pressures me into things I don't really want to do. I really love him and I have never felt this way about anyone. I don't want to break up with him but he pressured me into having sex in his friends house and now I feel like a slut. He males me feel that way sometimes and everything is always bout sex. He loves me and he cares slot bout me but idk what to do! Someone please help me!!! I'm a girl and I'm 13
okay i am an mother of nine so you might not want to hear what i am about to say,
you don't need to be talking,doing breathing, dreaming or anything that io miss about sex................... now i feel better, now don't do anything you don't want to do if he make you feel that way them let him go....
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I run a free monthly newsletter online reaching 1,000 people nationally. It is high demand. Have a small staff that won't work with me. Newsletter is over 30 pages long after tons of cut backs. For me to handle it is just too much being a housewife and homeschooling the kids. I am also trying to write books and the newsletter is a great stepping stone for that. Well, what do I do now? I can't write it all, don't see how to cut it back, kids need schooling first, really need the money of writing plus my dream, where to go from here?
hi,
i understand your feelings as an work at home mom with 9 childrens and my own daycare/candles business/columnist/ freelance writer/author and not to add an wife i do understand so here is what i do i get up at 4am exercise for 30 minutes then meditate,for 15 minutes and ask the goddess and god hisself to help me throw the day i plan all my things ahead of time from what column i am going to on this day til the next day, my point is make an schedule for everything you need to do if you need to talk to me one on one email me at askshay1@yahoo.com us stay at home mom need to work together., looking forward to hear from you soon.
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Is it normal when a guy when having sex like his penis comes out of the vagina? and how often does it happen because i had sex the other night and his penis kept coming out of me and he had to put it in...it happened like 4 or 5 times...is that normal?
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if that happens then he is really enjoying his self try to grip and let him enjoy, have fun
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i started birth control the end of november i took it up until december then i ran out n couldnt get anymore cuz of the holiday. i started taking it again 9 days ago so i was off the pill for about a week or so.. i've been on it for about 9 since the week gap. i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend today.. what are the risks of me being pregnant its been heavy on my mind.
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no you still had the homones in you but to ease your mind take and home test to be sure and if so then make an appointment for your obgyn.
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i was unresponsible and had unprotected sex. when should i take a pregnancy test? i know 5 days before your missed period but i don't really understand because i don't know if i'm like going to miss it for sure. i'm almost positive i'm not, i just want to be totally sure.
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If you know you had have unprotected sex and you miss your period you think you are pregant, take the test, then make an obgyn appointment as soo as possible.
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i was supposed to get my period a week ago. i have been spotting for the past 3 days and then it all just stopped. i was wondering if it is possible that im pregnant.
if you are sexual active and had sxe unprotected in the last week before your cycle was suppose have can down and it didn't then there are an chance you can be pregant or your homones are changine make an appointment to see your obgyn and see okay,
hope this help and happy new year
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Hello, I missed my period for last month and I don't know why. I have a steady boyfriend but we haven't had sex, he has fingered me though, only once this month,and that was after I was already late. But when we do those things I always go first and then I do him second, with my pants on and wash my hands.
I'm responsible for my actions and the dangers. I just don't understand, it does not seem possible, it seems more possible that I got pregnant from a toilet seat than my own boyfriend.
I had messed up my month of birth control, so I only took like a weeks worth. Could that have done something to my cycle? I am also stressed with school.
Is there any other reasons I could have missed my period?
Happy New Year., yes stress can change your cycle and bith control pill can change you cycle expecially when not taking them regularly also your homones can change your cycle , but to calm your nerves schedule an appointment to see your ob gyn and she/he might change your bithcontrols to some that can bring your cycle down in ady or week, i hope this help.
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my boyfriend used to finger me for how many times, ang im wondering if im still virgin? am i?
Happy New Year,
will yes you are still an virgin unless you have actual sex with him., if you go to the doctor for an regular check up and he ask are you sexual active you can tell him / her yes but not physical but becareful when doing finger sex because if his hands not clean before you to start you can get an bacterial infections ok.
hope this help.
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I think Im over him but Im not sure... Somedays I can't stop thinking about him.. Somedays I don't think about him.. How do I knw If I am REALLY over him??
been there done that if you see him again that will tell you if you have feelings for him othink about hte goods and the bads as well
keepin it real
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i cant belive im actualyy saying this but i cant give a hand job if its not hard i just start laughing, im ok with blowjobs well if hes alrady hard but i dont no the best way to do it without laughing? how can i do it? i just dont like the flobbyness lol
okay take an deep breathe just think of and ice cream bar or something with an stick on it relax and star with an hand job to get him hard be sure to use some favorable lub. once he is hard then do slow motion with your mouth and all you should taste is the favor lub and hes aleady hard so there should be no flobberness
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