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i don't feel like i am pretty enough to get a b/f.....i mean i wish guys would go for personality instead of looks......i would have a b/f but every guy that attends my school are into the same girl.....do you think anybody will ever like me....because i want somebody real and somebody that will treat me special....and just love me.....do you think there is such thing as him out there....?? (link)
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No matter what you think you are pretty (if you are christian or catholic this applys to you) God made you pretty so I think....I know a guy will love you for you. He is one special guy that will love you with all his heart beleive in yourself and beleive that someone will be with you. When I was younger this new girl came she was sooo pretty and all the boys loved her but one day A guy came up to me and asked me out and thats probably what will happen to you but other whys become friends with this girl and then you will learn that you can get a guy any way any day. Hope this helps
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ok i neeeddd to no how you get a song for myspace. i mean like a song NOT on a myspace music profile. i want the song harajuku girls by: gwen stefani nd its not on her myspace music profile. i wuld like the site to be free no " only $0.99 a month!!!" or anything any links or HTML codes to the song wuld be flippin AWESOME!
thx sooo much ppl! (link)
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I was going to sugjest webjays.org sorry.
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How do you take screenshots of websites or little things on your computer? (link)
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You right click and then "save as pictures"
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I got the part of Annie in annie jr. i think im a bit too old (13) to play the part, but i love it nonetheless. i dont know if, during the song Tomorrow, i should go really at the ORROW. or should i belt it out. any other advice on doing a great job would be so appreciated! THANKS (link)
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I hope you do a great Job! and you probably will. I beleive in you.
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15/f. i've recently found out that i get crushes on people waaay too easily and quickly. like today we had a field trip and on of the guys that was new this year who is friends with a lot of girls i talked to the first time. he is really nice and funny and we stayed together the whole time on the field trip and sat next to each other for two of the presentations and at lunch. it is so weird because i just basically met him but i've started to like him. i know that he doesn't suspect anything because he is friends with like a lot of girls because he is easy to talk to. and we got each others numbers and screen names, but that doesn't really mean anything to him. what can i do to stop getting crushes on guys so easily.
also i started out being friends with this "punkish" guy that is bi. he is so nice and even though i'm kinda girly, i've kinda started to like him. i know that i have no chance with him because 1) he likes older people, and 2)people would probably make fun of us. what can i do to stop liking him. i'd much rather just be friends with him.
thanks! (link)
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Try asking him just to be your friend. EASY THING TO DO. OKAY
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if you use certain dri at nite, can you use a reg. deodarent, like ban or secret, in the daytime? i just got certain-dri so i dont know. thanks (link)
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Sorry, I dont know what "dri" is..
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what do you do when your asking a friend to hook you up with someone and that person tells you that he said maybee but the person said you have to talk to your crush but you dont know if its true and i dont want to do something stupid in front of my friends (link)
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Can you refrase that question i am Confused???
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Hi, I'm 15/f.
Anyways I wws browsing through Advicenators, and I read some of the questions. A couple of answers were a sentence long! Like, "Nah, I don't think so." Then the columnist said, "Please rate me high!!"
For somr reason, that annoyed me. I'm not exactly sure why. Does it bother other people as well?
Thanks. :) Please reply! (link)
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It bothers me and plus I didnt say rate me high I said something like if you like this advise please rate it. just makin sure you were'nt talkin bout me
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what are some cute christmas ideas for under $5? i need to buy for 9 members of my family and don't have too much money. please do not suggest food/candy/homemade gifts/or for me to go to the dollar store. thank you. (link)
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$5 for nine people hmm... maybe you should try to earn more money because 5 dollors for nine people is like impossible unless you bought them tiny candys.
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my boyfriend always checks other girls out on the street, it really bugs me and am scared its cuz he's lookin for someone better? should i be worried? please let me know and do all guys do this , he tells me he loves me but im not so sure cuz it bothers me :( help~ (link)
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Most boys that love a girl dont look and check out other girls. What you should do is sit down with him and talk to him about it. You shoudnt be worried just concerened. If you like this advise please rate it.
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I went to watch some bands play tonight - and I made the mistake of attending the after party.
It ended up being between 15-20 people in one side of this duplex. When we originally decided to go, no one had alcohol and it was getting too late to buy anything. However, when I got there they had a few mostly empty bottles, but they were nearly empty from before. I don't think a single person there got drunk.
There was a noise complaint~
The police showed up, someone answered the door - then slammed it in the officers face. The person then proceeded to lock the doors, turn all the lights off, close the curtains and get everyone upstairs.
A 15 year old girl had to leave due to curfew, and since neither she or I drank, I decided to walk her out and see what the cop situation was outside. The police came up to us and the three officers asked us a few questions. They asked if we had been drinking in there - we said "no", they asked if we had been smoking pot in there - we said "no", they asked who owned the house, we gave them as much of an answer as we could - since they were already running the address trying to find the owner.
Then they asked how many people were in there, we said we didn't know most of the people in there, and we hadn't been there long. But we thought 7 or 8 people were still in there.
They ran the plates of all the cars parked outside, and they claimed to have seen a person holding a beer while they were looking through the windows. They took our word for it that we didn't drink, and they let us go without a breathalizer or a search. They just ran our ID's.
The cops eventually got inside of the house by contacting the owner of the house and getting permission to enter.
After that semi-long story, we get to the question:
Since kids were drinking inside (some/all of which were minors by a year or two.) but I wasn't. I left and gave the police all the compliance they asked for. Since i'm 18, and I was there - even though I didn't drink at all - Is there anything the police can do to me at this point? (link)
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Dont worry you are safe and I am glad you played it safe and were responsible. If you like that advise please rate it.
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13/f
My best friend *lets call her Megan* just recently told me that she got raped by her brother and cousin. Her brother was removed from the family but she didn't tell the police. I'm very worried for her. I wanna tell an adult but she said she'll kill herself, so i didn't. I guess what I'm asking for is whether I should consult someone. Please help.
Thanks in advance (link)
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wait what happened to her cousin that raped her.?
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ok i failed 2 finals before & im afraid that will affect what colleges accept me. i'm just not a great test taker, but even with F's on the final, i still managed to get all A's and B's for all of my classes as my final grade & still have a 3.4 GPA. any opinions or experiences??
thanks!! (link)
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Relax 3.4 is good great and better than ever you have nothing to lose. IF YOU LIKE THIS ADVISE PLEASE RATE IT.
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I do not think my parents are in love, and it makes me so sad. I think they would be better off divorced and happy, but I know that the only reason they stay together is for the their children.
I am so upset! I cannot stand it anymore.
Any advice? (link)
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Try talking with them. See if they want to do anything about it.
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16/female.
Let me just start out by saying that I am a STRONG believer of gay marriage, and I have absolutely NO problem with homosexuals in the slightest.
One of my friends is a lesbian, and I love her because she's amazing, she really is. But, lately she's been really touchy feely. She writes me notes saying, "I know you're in denial, I know you're conservative & straight, but you should atleast experiment & give it a try." I AM straight, I was born it, so I can't just change and be a lesbian, that's what I think & feel. I'm not attracted to her at all.
She'll like come up to me in the halls at school, and hug me and kiss my neck and shove me up against a locker, and it seriously is beginning to look like I'm a lesbian.
When she does this, I just say, "Nooo! STOP IT" Like, I don't know if she takes it seriously or not, but when I say stop she does. So, today on AIM, we were talking, and this was our conversation:
Her: I'm going to look hot tomorrow in school.
Me: Ahah, Whyy??
Her: I got new clothes.
Her: Kiss me?
Her: :)
Me: Ahh, that's nice! :)
Me: lol, No thanks.
Her: No thanks, what the fuck?
Her: Why did you say that?
Me: To the whole "kiss me" thing.
Her: Whatever.
Me: HEY! don't!!
Her: Don't what?
Me: Be mean. :(
Her: You did this yourself.
Her: It's your fault.
* BLOCKS ME *
Ahhh, so. I just would like to know if this is any of my fault at all. I'm not LEADING her on, I wouldn't even know how to do that. I'm dating a guy & I'm really attracted to him & she knows that. But she'll always say that I need to experiment with her & stuff, and it's just really weird for me.
Thanks in advance. :]
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I would say if you want to "experiment" then go ahead but I wouldnt thats just me "I was part lesbian for three to four years and I stopped after that because I knew I would keep doing it and wouldnt get pregnant so I just thought o sex so fun i WILL DO IT TONIght but then I realised it isnt about sex it is about loving another women" so please dont do it unless you want one and only one shot at it and after one shot for about half an hour then deside. HOPE THAT HELPED BUT REMEMBER IT IS YOUR DISESION AND ONLY YOURS.
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Basically, I used to be a really good child. Not always the nicest, but most of the time my parents could stand me, and I never did drugs or anything really horrible. Around the time of Feb. some things happened with my mom, and I basically crashed. I hated her so much, and my dad turned the whole guilt trip God thing on me. I started smoking cigs, and weed, I always lie to my parents when I go somewhere, and I'm a total and complete bitch. I take every oppurtunity to get what I want, so I take advantage of people. I'm behind on credits because I've failed so many classes. I just gave up being so good, cause it felt like no matter what I did, somehow I'd get bit in the ass for it. Well its december now, I have no relationship what-so-ever with my dad or mom. When I get home, I call my boyfriend, and go sit in my room, or sit at the computer. I used to be really into church, and now I hate it and don't really believe in it anymore because all the people at that church are full of shit. I'm constantly watched by the congregation because they think my boyfriend and I are gonna go off and have sex behind the buildings or down the street (which would never happen.) We have gone off and smoked a few times and got caught tho, haha. But I really don't know what to do, it's starting to bother me a little bit. My dad told my sister that basically I'm "breaking his heart," because of the way I've been acting. He knows everything I do, I don't hide it at all, because there's really no point in hiding stuff like this. What should I do? It really sucks because my dad is so stressed out right now. We may loose our house and have to move. My parents have worked really hard to get our house, but now we just can't afford it. And, I don't want to quit smoking, it really does help me to chill out because I get so stressed so easily. Along with being addicted, it's extremely hard to quit so whatever. The whole weed thing was getting bad though, because the last 3 times I've smoked it, were because I was upset and I wanted to get away for a while. So I'm trying to not do that, I don't buy it anymore so I'm not gonna really have a problem with that. I guess I feel bad because I'm upsetting my dad, I could care less about my mom, she's never home anyway. Her and I will never have a relationship because we never get along no matter what, and she keeps to herself and never really talks to me about anything. I know I should change, but I don't really want to. I'm not depressed or anything. I have amazing friends, i'm in love with my boyfriend who is one of my most incredible guys I have ever known, I'm somewhat fine with the way I look, and I pretty much get what I want. I kind of always pictured this time of my life to be different. I figured I'd have different friends, look more like a girl instead of a somewhat gothed out chick, I thought I'd have a different relationship with my parents, like more close. Idk, it's hard, I know its bad for me, but I don't care..but I do. That probably doesn't make sense, but I just don't know what to think or feel anymore. (link)
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Well maybe you should not smoke, hang out with Christian or Chatolic friends go to church and try to spend more time with your family. If you drift away you may never drift back you need to know what is right. I dont want you into trouble it breaks my heart when people smoke and do bad things and if you try to do better make sure you get good grades dont smoke then everything will be ok. PLEASE TRY IT REPLY SOON AND PLEASE RATE THIS ADVISE PLEASE do not be harsh with your rating
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I have always wondered this, when a dog looks in a mirror can they see their reflection? My dogs never react and just look like they are staring at a wall.
Thanks ! :) (link)
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They do see there reflection just in black/white. Please rate this advise but please rate it good.
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Can you get lead or ink poisoning by accedently stabbing yourself with a pen or pencil and it starts to bleed? If yes, how do you know that you have been poisioned? Is it lethal? (link)
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You can get poisined by a pencil but they are ending the pencils with lead that can kill you. REPLY IF YOU NEED ANY MORE ADVISE PLEASE Rate this advise please dont rate it badly.
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ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp?? (link)
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First off dont get into major mean trouble with her because later on you will laugh at this. You should try to stay away from her dont say mean things like you did (I mean the word slut and much more) Then later when you feel comfortable talk with her not in a harsh way but in a nice enjoyable way try to make sure she is ready to put aside these differences. Soon you will probably becaome friends. Hope that helpped please rate this advise please do not rate it badly. Reply if you need any more help remember my name Asknicole111
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Okay...My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now...and its not like a dumb high school realtionship where you break up every 2 minutes and love someone the next day...we really love each other! And his birthday was November 25th and I got him a massage at this spa...and now i need some ideas for his Christmas present??? Pleas someone send me some ideas!!! Thanks, §~**Haley**~§ (link)
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Well a massage at the spa was a great idea but now time to think outside the box!!! How about a nice romantic dinner and remember he will probably get you something. OR: Bake a meal just 4 you and him. OR: go to a football game (If he likes football or any sports) If you need any more sugjestions REPLY AND PLEASE RATE THIS ADVISE
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