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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)
♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.
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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.
♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.
♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!
♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥
♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥
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i've been feeling sad for a couple of months now because i felt that my bestfriends are drifting away. then yesterday, i was with my friends at a school basketball game and my bestfriend got mad at me out of nowhere. then i started thinking like always, but i started crying. i pulled one of my friends to the bathroom with me and stayed in there. then my friends and my bestfriend started coming in and they told me to come out. i came out, but my bestfriend started ignoring me. we went back to the game, but i couldn't stop crying. my bestfriend hasn't talked to me ever since and i think that she thinks it's her fault. i slept for 13 hours but i still feel tired and i've been crying for no reason. i have no energy to eat. what's up with me? what should i say to my bestfriend?
♥ You're just depressed. Talk to your friend about it. And make sure you are eating healthy. Talk it all out with all of your friends and it should all work out.
hey, do any of you know really good ways to get relaxed besides drugs? and if you do, give exact details and steps.
♥ Breathing patterns. Take deeper breaths.
♥ Yoga.
♥ Pilates.
♥ Good luck! xoxo
yeah, i know there's alot of questions about Valentine's already, but most are all asked by girls. but does anybody have any good ideas for a guy to get for his girlfirend? She's pretty close, and has a good sense of humor. Please try to stay away from cute/fuzzy stuff (sry, but i cant stand giving that). Thanks
19/m
♥ Chocolate!! Girls loove chocolate.
♥ Flowers, they make us happy.
♥ and a very cute card. and right how much you like her and cute stuff inside of it! :) just be sweet!
♥ Good Luck. hope you find something she will love!
I am really scared of airplanes. You see my mom has a thing with Disneyworld, and basically we went to Disneyworld every christmas and summer. But then we didn't have enough money to keep going. Now we do, and I haven't been on an airplane since last summer. I am REALLY scared. I just have a bad feeling about it. I have no say whatsoever in if I want to go or not, so that's not an option. If anyone could help me calm down...or tell me anything...that would be great.
♥ if you chew gum when you are taking off and landing it helps your ears. Stay busy. Try sleeping, or reading, or knitting, coloring. Anything to keep your mind off of knowing that you are on a plane. Don't sit in the window seat. Try sitting on the aisle seat. Good luck. Hope I helped. xoxo
What dose it mean when someone says
" their vagina is beat " ?
♥ It means that they have had sex.
ok for my softball team we all are supposed to have nicknames but i don't have one. Do you have any good ideas for some?
♥ What's your name? or what do you like to do, anything that represents you. That's what a nickname should be, something that represents you. I bet if you talked it over with your friends and/or parents, you could get a good one. Or you can let me know some information about you, and I'll think about it, and get back at you!
I know it's normal for teens esp. girls to go through this phase when they try on a million outfits just to go to the grocery and end up with something they started with 10 outfits ago. Today I had to go to the mall which is important but... I ran up n down the house half naked looking for clothes...n there's so much and I picked some and then 2 minutes later I don't use it and I use some other one! What to do what to do...n then wen i get something it's so simple and I realize I'm tired! Gosh what to do n how to stop this? How do i decide what to wear without tryin sooo many outfits?
♥ lay it out, like on your bed or on the floor to see if it looks cute together.
I have a coupon to Baker's shoe store for $20 off a purchase of $50 or more. If i buy $55 worth of stuff from that store .. do I get the $20 right then? Making the bill $35?
♥ yes.
my boyfriend fingered me and i got really wet(yah know) is that a good thing or bad? another thing how do i know when im ready to have sex with my b/f
thanks in advance
♥ well it's deffinately not a bad thing. Most girls have this happen to them. esp. during sex or when they get fingered etc...but when you know for sure that you want to be with this guy and that you really do love him, that is when you should have sex. because your virginity isn't something that you are going to be able to get back. Good luck. congrats. xoxo.
Hey okay well i am wondering what are some things I could do to make my good features stand out and make me look prettier? I know a few things but what can I do with my face/hair/body, etc. I use makeup and I know how and all that. If it helps i am sorta pale, brown hair, and hazel eyes. Make-up tips i guess, etc. Just ways to "accent" my prettyness if you get what im saying. Sorry this is confusing but ill RATE! Thanks in advance!
♥ You could try a little bronzer on your cheeks.
♥ style your hair in all different ways.
♥ you could try different colors of eye shadow to make your eyes stand out.
♥ lip gloss and glitter also always does the trick!
♥ hope this helps a little. xoxo.
where would you find a code at?
♥ go to my site. the link is at the top of my page.
how do you make xanga layouts?
♥ you have to find a code for one first.
My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.
♥ No, it's not a sickness. A lot of girls' go through this stage. Don't worry about it. You'll grow out of it eventually, if it bothers you, try really hard to think about other things, instead of that. But You'll grow out of it don't worry.
I just got a digital camera for my birthday today! And I want to put some pictures on myspace. But i'm not sure how to do it. Step by step directions will be really helpful! Thanks in advance for the effort of everyone who tries to help :)
♥ load them on your computer!
♥ save them
♥ go to your myspace homepage
♥ click on upload/change pictures
♥ click on browse
♥ find the picture double click on it
♥ click on upload
♥ you're done! :)
13/f
Ohkay, I like this guy and he is like one of my best friends. I can talk to him about anything.. and I mean like anything. and ever since i became best friends with him(which was like 3 weeks ago) my friends have been saying ive been alot happier and him and i should hook up. and ive been going thru alot of tough crap with my family.. and i feel happier when i talk to him and see him and when im with him. whenever we see each other in the hall i get massive butterflies in my stomach and like i just cant help to smile and he like turns bright pink and smiles big when he see me.. and like that happens in the hallandin class.. and i have a class with him too and it all year so i see him every day and like i sit close to him so we flirt and more but how do i know if he likes me or not? i dont wanna screw up our relationship cuz he makes me really happy..&&he a really good friend to me
♥ AWE!
♥ well it sounds like you guys both like eachother a lot.
♥ i think you should make a move!!!
♥ ask him about it if you want. or soemtime when you guys are alone just go in for a kiss or something. let him know that you like him and he will let you know how he feels.
♥ good luck!
okay so like last year this kid named danny asked me out and then so i said yes and we went out then i dumped him the next day he was really heart broken but i really didnt care. So then this June i moved but the street i moved on to he lived on..and he started likeing me again and i liked him to so then it hit like NOVEMBER and he started likeing me lk he was lk kissing me and everything .. so then he was suppose to ask me out but he never did and i still like him but he doesnt like me ... and im really confused shud i like him or shud i just let go?
♥ ohhh man.
♥ all i have to say is love hurts.
♥ but you should still stick with him i think. I think you guys will end up getting together because you have had a history.
♥ just stick with it for awhile. and see what happens! :)
hey...ok-- i kno this sounds alittle weird .. i want to have sex with my boyfriend but im not really sure how to... can u help me with that.. or give me some tips?? like if i suck him?? how does that make him feel? HELP
♥ um, well if you're talking about "sucking him" otherwise known as giving him head, that's just oral sex. If you are actually talking about having real sex then he's gonna have to put his dick in your vagina?
♥ oral sex - you just suck him until he cums. it's really not hard.
♥ you might be bad your first time but don't worry about it.
♥ sorry I couldn't help you anymore than that because your question wasn't detailed enough, so if you want to know more than just ask a more detailed question.
I was in a long distance relationship with a guy for 8 months. I met him at a summer camp 2 summers ago and we started dating in July. We saw each other 2 times during our relationship, then I surprised him once and visited his church this past summer after we broke up in April. He was my first kiss and my first love. I've had a boyfriend since we broke up, because I thought I was over him. He's one of my best friends and we still talk all of the time. I got over him because I didn't think he loved me anymore. He broke up with me because the distance was hard on him. He's more than worth the distance to me. After me and my last boyfriend broke up, we started talking a lot more cause we didn't talk so much while I was in a new relationship. I talked to him last night and my sister asked him if he liked me. He said yes, but that we couldn't do anything about it because I live here and he lives there. I understand where he's coming from, but I might see him about 2 times before the end of the school year and then again for a full week because of summer camp. Because we still like each other, when we see each other, I still want to be together. I'm still in love with him. I guess I should tell him, but what would you do? I have an idea, but I want other peoples' opinions.
♥ Me and my friend live in springfield illinois.
♥ Her bofriend lives in Rhode Island.
♥ they have been dating for a very long time, they talk on the phone every night. Also, they watch t.v. shows or movies but talk to eachother on the phone while they do it, so it's kind of like they are together watching it.
♥ I think if you guys really like eachother then distance shouldn't matter.
♥ my friend and her boyfriend also fly up to see eachother all the time. but they are seniors in high school, and i'm assuming you are younger, so that probably wouldn't work for you.
okay like im really skinny but i have like a baby face and when i look down i have a little double chin is there any way to get rid of that (like exercises) without going on a diet cus im skinny enough as it is?
♥ i don't know how to get rid of it but everyone has one when they look down. not only you. so i don't think it's really a problem. I wouldn't even worry about it because everyone has that. It's not fat, it's just extra skin.
I can't do my work at school sometimes because there are some girls that make me angry when they act like I'm copying of of them. It's like they are always on my face. On this other class. She thinks that I'm trying to look at her stuff and her work. I hate it when I see her trying to hide it when I'm not even going to do anything about it. Then in this other class this other girl does the same. It's both so irritating. Why do they think I want to buy the stuff they have. I think it's because when I was talking to someone I said something about trying to be nice to them but I didn't really do anything. But they had been girls that has been mean to me ever since the 5th grade. They usually think they are all popular. How am I going to do my work because I can't stop being angry. The teacher just keeps on talking and all I can hear is the tone of him talking. So I missed out on the whole lessons. I really want to get a good grade. The final exam is coming up. It happens everyday. I'm not copying of of their work.
♥ just try not to pay attention to them. Who cares what they think. Just do you're own work. and if it really really bothers you maybe you should talk to them about it and ask them why they always do this.