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Question Posted Monday February 6 2006, 4:53 pm

my boyfriend fingered me and i got really wet(yah know) is that a good thing or bad? another thing how do i know when im ready to have sex with my b/f
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sizzlinmandolin answered Monday February 6 2006, 6:18 pm:
It's a good thing. The fact that you didn't know that shows that at this point you aren't even close to being ready for sex. When you have sex for the first time is up to you, but it's important to BE ready, not just feel ready. You need to consider all the consequences and understand sex. You need to use an effective form of birth control, know how it works, and realize that it may not work. STD's and pregnancy are two things you definitely don't want to happen. Knowing these physical risks as well as the emotional risks (such as regret or attachment for the wrong reasons) and preparing for all of them makes you ready for sex. Whether you choose to have it at that point or not is up to you. All things considered, I don't think that it's a good idea to have sexual intercourse before you're 18 and personally, I'm saving myself for marriage. Sex can really complicate things. It can be good to experiment with other sexual things though such as manual sex or oral sex. I hope I helped you and good luck. :)

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AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Monday February 6 2006, 5:47 pm:
♥ well it's deffinately not a bad thing. Most girls have this happen to them. esp. during sex or when they get fingered etc...but when you know for sure that you want to be with this guy and that you really do love him, that is when you should have sex. because your virginity isn't something that you are going to be able to get back. Good luck. congrats. xoxo.

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kaylaxosays answered Monday February 6 2006, 5:14 pm:
That just means you where sexually stimulated. Its not a bad thing at all. I guess you would consider it a good thing...
When you feel like you seriously want to have sex with him. THATS when you know your ready. You'll know, trust me..if your not 100% positive you want to do it..then your most likely not ready.

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