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I can't gurantee that my advice will always be right. And some things I might not even know. But I will do my best to answer any questions :] I'll tell you exactly what i think, so if you don't like it, dont read it!And lately, i've discovered that one of the best answers for relationship problems is communication. talk. explain. share. it does wonders.
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what is herpes?
everyone knows
but ive never known, alls i know is its a bump.
xox
Herpes is a STD (sexually transmitted disease).
http://www.cdc.gov/std/Herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm
I don't want to have to goto the doctor or tell my mom, because she`ll think I`m just complaining and we don't have the money to goto the doctor, but every now and then for the past week and a half, i've had a sharp pain, like stabbing needles, about an inch or two below my left breast. And when i start to get that pain, randomly, it hurts to breath in and it lasts for a few minutes. Can anyone tell me why or what's going on? Please.
i have the same issue though it happens rarely now as compared to when i was in junior high. Im not sure what it is though i've been told it's 'trapped wind' or 'growing pains' (not sure how old you are so this could or could not apply to you). my best advice would be to see a doctor if you an.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=449856
^ that question might help to answer yours.
how to i tone my thighs and butt nicely for the spring so i can look really good in shorts?
http://www.self.com/fitness/workouts/slideshows/2007/01/0123bb_slides?printable=true
^ hope that helps.
(Sorry if this is too long, but I'm just a 17-year-old girl who has no idea what she's doing in this area of her life :3 Never had a boyfriend [or girlfriend for that matter] before, mainly because... I just didn't want one enough to go out and seek one.)
So I've been best friends with this guy for at least five years. However, ever since we've met, he's had a huge crush on me--I'm not sure if it's been on/off or continuous, though he has had a couple of short-term relationships while I've known him. I kind of had a crush on him once or twice, but I never asked him out because, at the time I did like him, I was unsure of whether he liked me or not.
Anyway, now we're both 17, and he likes me, though I've kind of grown asexual and I don't particularly care for anyone in that sort of way. So today, he asks me if I want to go see a play at his church; I don't go to that church (I'm not even his same religion), but I'm good friends with some of the other people in his youth group so I said sure. The night passes on, and as he's driving me home, he asks me to be his girlfriend. I kind of sputter for a second, but finally I just say sure.
Now I don't know what to do. I love him as a friend, and a part of me says that I might as well go out with him--that I even owe it to him (we have a kind of "he buys me food every once in a while and I don't release my undead feline minions upon him" relationship). However, I really don't want to hurt him by just breaking up with him in the end. I'm a senior in a public high school and (hopefully) I'll be going to an art college after I graduate (if not out-of-state, definitely out-of-town). He's homeschooled and doesn't have much of a desire to go to any college, so I'll be leaving this town in a few months anyway, but...
The truth is, I have no idea if I like him or not. It's not a definite "yes or no" question--on the one hand, he's the first guy in my life who's ever asked me out without being a complete sleezeball; but on the other, I don't know if I like him for anything more than a friend.
So what I'm trying to ask is this: is there anyway I can find out if I really like him or not, preferably before I hurt him? And if I don't like him, how can I tell him without using the whole "I like you as a friend, but not as a boyfriend" routine? (Most guys I know absolutely hate that, and I can understand why.) Help, please?
(Once again, sorry for the "tl;dr"-ness of this question. Kind of utterly baffled here.)
haha im in the same situation right now, except this guy i've only known this year but we've gotten to become really good friends and he just told me he was interested in me today (valentines day curse! haha. My advice summarized is to think. consider. look at everything you've done with him, what you've felt around him.
I asked a few of my guy friends and this is what i got from them:
Don't take action, like don't go out with him until you have a clearer image of what you want, because if you go out with this guy and things mess up then its going to be hard keeping a friendship with the guy. You guys might find reasons of annoyance and get sick of each other or one of you guys suddenly lose interest or stopped liking the other.
I would say don't go out with anyone until college because once you enter college you don't know what the hell is going to happen. Do you think you can keep a long distance relationship? I'd advise to wait until college because then you would or might like someone else, or slip out in a long distance relationship if you guys split up and end up going to different colleges. And if the guy demands you go to the same college as him that becomes a problem. Ask yourself, are you willing to follow him or would you want to do your own things instead.
And NEVER go out with someone based on obligation or because you 'think you should'. It wont work out and it always ends with horrible feelings between people.
he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?
16/f
i have this exact problem. It's because he still wants you even though hes with this other girl. He wants more than he should have so if i were you (like the two people below me), i'd stay away from/ignore him. If he still cares about you/loves you its only because he's being greedy and wants you along with the other girl.
im the one that asked the aim question...
i found the file.. but it doesnt have my convos in it
are you sure? well then. hokay go to aim (im assuming you have 6.0?) go to the edit button at the top of your buddy list and click on "settings" on the bottom of the list (aka F7). Then on the left side bar click on "IM Logging" and there you can click either to log your conversations or not and where to save them if you do. hope that helps?
i have this idea to like buy a carnation for random kids at school that normally dont get appreciated. i dont want to tell my friends and such, so they dont tell others, so that they'll expect it.. then it wont be the same. like i'll buy 1 or 2 roses for like the kids, and the people will give it to them. i read it in a book called "chicken soup for the teenage soul" or whatever, that someone did that and it like changed their life. so do you think this is a good idea? :]
i have to agree with the person below me. The whole flower giving concept itself is a wonderful idea and really sweet, but why offer someone else flowers when you can offer them your friendship? Rather than just make it a moment thing, you can instead offer your friendship and gain something precious for more than just a day. Giving flowers just to make others feel appreciated seems like a pity thing, even if you dont mean it that way. I still say go ahead with the flower idea but in short, why just stop there? Give them a flower and ask them to be your friend. Who knows, you might end up being friends for life with one or more of them.
is there a way to look up conversations youve had on aim? well i know there is because my mom told me that a bunch of her friends from work read all of their kids conversations on aim.. but does anyone know how to do it?
thanks xox
if you have aim 6.0 it automatically logs your conversations and if you check your documents there should be a file labeled "aimlogger" or something like that and you can access all your aim conversations from there. If you have the old aim it shouldnt log conversations. I'm not sure about triton or gaim though.
i moved microsot word from the start menu drop down box for all microsoft programs to onto my desktop. how can i get microsoft word back into the microsoft file in the start menu? i tried clicking the word icon and dragging it, but it didnt work. help pleaseeeee=]
if you go to the start menu and 'all programs', you should still have microsoft word on there (unless thats where you moved it from). Then right click and choose the "pin to start menu' button. If you dont have it in there, then right click on the microsoft icon on your desktop and choose 'pin to start menu'. that should work!
i'm currently writing a report for history on three reasons why we dropped teh a-bomb on hiroshima and nagakaki. my three reasons are to save american lives, ended the war quickly, and kept stalin out of the pacific. well my brother told me thoses reason because i know nothing about a-bombs. and i've searched all over google and i can't find any sources to explain to me each other main bullets. i mean my brother explained to me why and such, but i need sources for this pager and i just can't seem to find anything. so if someone could help me find a site that has some information on it tha'd be great.!
http://www.studyworld.com/newsite/ReportEssay/History/Asian%5CHiroshima-32240.htm
I think that link might help, not sure about these other ones:
http://www.lewrockwell.com/orig2/denson7.html
http://hnn.us/articles/10168.html
do you think you list your brother as an interview?
This guy and I have liked each other for so long and this summer was awesome we were like gf and bf and then things died out. Like every month i would phone him to see how he was and we would talk for ages and yet he wouldnt talk to me in school. So A few weeks ago i invited him over and honestley its like awesome we were all cuddly and like a couple and then he left. Then at school, ignores me and then sometimes he talks to me and he's like 'u ok?' and i've been like 'umm yeh' but he promised to take me to the cinema and he didnt and then he promised to come over on Friday and he didnt. Should I confront him, thing is if i do- i will have to be drastic and say ' Look if you care for me, if you really care, you will put effort in as a friend, otheriwse i cant see this friendship working out?' and im scared he will be like 'whatever' and not talk to me again. He said to me ' we will always be friends if not more' and he's a sincere person- im really confused.
I think you should definitely confront him. Just letting things go along as they are isn't going to get you anywhere. You're going to have to do something about it or things will just stay this way. Chances are if he still wants to be friends with you, he wil listen and explain his actions. You need to talk to him about keeping his promises and why he ignores you at school. If hes going to be friends with you, he's going to have to associate with you outside of school and in school. If he chooses to instead ignore you and break off your friendship, then move on and find better people. As heartbreaking as it will be, you can get better friends who will always be there for you and keep their promises. But if he's as sincere and such as you say, then i think things will work out for you guys.
My best guy friend usually helps me through everything, he seems to understand and listen. But recently he hasn't seemed to care about me as much. He used to call a few times a week and ask how I was doing, and if I had a problem we'd talk it through.
It's been 11 days and he hasn't called once. I feel like he really doesn't care about me anymore. Today he helped me with a problem but only because I told him I had one, and I felt like he felt he HAD to help me. I only see him on the bus to school, and I never ask about it. I don't know, I've tried talking to him about the not caring thing and he says, "How am I supposed to know you have a problem if you don't tell me?" I mean yes, that is understandable, but he used to check in with me at least.
I don't know what to do. It's honestly really hurting me, I cry everynight, and have NO ONE to talk to. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, PLEASE help me. Anything is good!
He's 16/m, and I'm 16/f.
i had that same problem with my best guy friend last month and it was horrible. The reason he became distant and mean was because he got a girlfriend though. I dont know if your best guy friend got a girlfriend but that could be one reason why hes changed. I would talk to him at least and ask he why he's acting this way. Send him an email or talk to him in person about the way you feel now that hes being a 'jerk' if you will. If he acts mean about it, then just give him some space and talk to some of your other friends. I would suggest getting closer to some of your other friends too so that you can have someone to talk to when hes too busy or whatever.
I have to write a paper comparing and
contrasting my best friends. I thought it
would be a great oppurtunity to start with
a friendship quote. My problem is that one
of my best friends is a guy, and the other is
a girl. Most quotes are too girly to work
for both. Does anyone have any sites or
specific quotes that would be appropriate for
school and for my paper? Thanks!
it looks like a lto of people answered your questions but today i was looking for friendship quotes for a graduation gift i was making and i thought you might like a few (dunno if you read thes ones already):
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.
A true friend is one who thinks you are a good egg even if you are half-cracked.
“This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life.”
“Friends are God's way of apologizing to us for our families.”
if you click on someones myspace picture will it show whos looking at it
Nope. Luckily for some people, there hasnt been a myspace tracker created yet.
I'm making a bookmark and I need it to be about reading and have a short catch phrase. For example, it got be like Got books? or Reading a good book.. priceless. It can be anything catchy, and it can be from a tv commercial but it doesnt have to.
all ideas appreciated!!!!
http://thinkexist.com/quotations/reading/
there are some pretty good ones like “Read in order to live.”, “What is reading, but silent conversation.”, “Reading is to the mind what exercising is to the body.”, etc
you can just go to google and type in 'quotes about reading' in the search bar and get lots of results.
i love my bf 2 death bit i dont like kissing him is that wierd? like bein around him i get butterflys but kissing him its like eh nuthing. is it bad that i told him this? and duz this mean i dont reely like him?
Not wanting to kiss him has nothing to do with whether or not you really love him. Kissing is just another part of relationships and it IS possible to have one without kissing (obviously most people dont not kiss). Kissing is just another way to show affection. It just could be that hes a bad kisser, his breath smells, etc that makes you not want to kiss him. Telling him might be a good thing so that he doesnt constantly wonder why you dont kiss him anymore. But yeah, not wanting to kiss him doesnt mean you dont love him still.
Say your spouse dies and goes to "Heaven". You learn to cope and marry again. Then you and your new spouse somehow die (whomever first, it doesn't matter), but you both go to "Heaven". Now you're there with two martial partners. How is your time divided? Or how does that work? Can you love them both? Can you "be with" them both? Will they know of each other's existence?
There obviously isn't a right or wrong answer, so all opinions welcome and appreciated.
i thought about that before too. I believe that in heaven, there isn't really a thing like a marriage. If you've married more than once and had happy marriages both or more times, then it's quite impossible to be married to just one of them in heaven.. my opinion is that (like the person below me) marriage is an earthly thing and that in heaven everyone exists together in happiness without rituals like marriage and such.
What does it mean to "cut rug" with somebody?
"would you cut some rug with me"?
cut rug means 'to dance' i think. so 'would you dance with me'?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cut+rug
urban dictionary says it means either to 'To dance really well and impress others.' it also has the slight implication of 'to have sex with'... but overall it's about dancing.
I've noticed that each day or so there is a different person on the home page. On my account I checked off the button where it asks if you want to be there some day but I was wondering, do you have to actually apply to e put there or do they just select at random?
thanks.
They just select a person randomly. I never applied and I was actually on there once.. kinda surprised me haha. But yeah, just answer questions, rate, etc and sooner or later you'll be put there too. (:
I know this is a very confusing question, but for my photography class we have to do a "mixed media project." But I have no idea what to do! Does anyone know what this is and have any ideas?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed_media
it's essentially a project where you use different types of art techniques such as paint, pen, watercoloring etc. It's a mixture of different art styles, hence the name mixed media. So pretty much you just use a variety of art techniques to create one project. Im not sure in what context your teacher is requiring you to do the project in photography but i'm assuming you'll have to take a variety of pictures and then somehow combine them into one? You could ask your teacher if you really need help.