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I am Travis and i live in KY and i love it. Most of my friends are girls so i always try to help them whenever needed so thats why i decided to join this because i love to help ppl with whatever i can but i really love to help ppl with cutting problems because i have done it so many time for my friends and i want to make a difference for them and help them get over it. I am a very understanding guy!!

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okay so theres this guy who i really like i mean for the first time im actually in love. i liked him since the begining of the year and we barely EVER talked but i knew he liked me a little so yeah. and about 2 weeks ago he asked me out over myspace and we've only went out for about 7 days then he dumped me to be with another chick. at first when he dumped me i didnt have any feelings but know i feel like dying so bad i mean i really love him ALOT. cuz everytime i talk to him i feel so diferent and its such a great feeling and now being dumped by the guy i really love just hurts so bad. half of me hates himand half of me loves him like crazy. how can i get ovr someone who i love alot and if you can try to give me a great advise ill rate you very high! thx
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my advice is that you need to try to be as good as friends with him as you can becasue if you do that then you dont have to worry about him leaving you then maybe after he see's how good of friends that you are he will realize that he still likes you and ask you back out...atleast thats what i would think but i hope evrything works out!!!

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okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?

thanks in advance

i am sure that it is not that your not a good person to go out with but you have not had a good person to try to go out with i mean i have went out with two girls that i was there first b/f and it just takes time ...the way it sounds is that your a great looking girl and fun to be with but with the line that your like a little sister is all because your to nice and dont get into fights that ofen i mean i got the line were to good of friends many off times but if you get that take advantage of that and just be friends anyway friends you have forever a b/f you may not ...GOOD LUCK!

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Hi, I really like this guy I used to work with. I've liked him for 3 years now. We used to have a little thing where we looked like we were going out but we weren't. Well he came over the past few nights and it seemed like he really liked me but since those few nights he hasn't called or talked to me. Can anyone tell me what they think about this and whether or not I'm just wasting my time on someone who is using me. What should I do?

i cant really tell if he likes you or not but i would try to give him a call or something because maybe he thinks you dont like him cause you dont ever try to call him or anything... GOOD LUCK!!

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okay well im def not fat but i feel that i am. i am 15/f i weigh 108 and im 5'2'' . i was recently a vegeterian and my body got really weak from not having protein. i got sick and didnt eat for like 4 days and then i ate very little for the next week i lost wicked lot of weight and i was in love with my body i had a perfect stomach and no rolls or flub or anything people think im so skinny but i have issues with my stomach. now since i started eating alot again my metabolism sucks like i eat one effing thing and i feel like i gain 6753 pounds what can i do to make my metabolism faster pills anything like i excercise alot 24/7 all the time i live on fit tv and at the gym please pleaseeee help.

Well to start things off dont do anything stupied cause you dont want to hurt your body many of my friends have stopped eating and belimic but thats not the right thing to do they had to get medical help...my opinion is that dont worry about your body that much alittle flub is not going to hurt and not many ppl will look at you different and just run but dont hurt the body if you get weak stop its not worth it you only live once and its really not worth it to hurt yourself just dont worry that much about it i am sure you look fine...good luck

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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?

well i really dont want to say this but the way it sound he has done something with this other girl and does not want you to find out ... it might not be that he is cheating on you but it might mean that before you two went out he did something with this girl and he afarid what you would do if you found out but my advice is to sit down and talk about it and ask him if he cheated on you or what is going on just let things out and relex... if he did cheat on you give him another shot to get away from that girl and this might be mean but tell him untill he leaves the other girl your not going to do anything with him and then if he dont leave the other girl that your going to leave him...i hope you get everything worked out GOOD LuCK!!!

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14/F
I like this guy from another school he soo awesome were gonna go 2 the movies soon but I donno it werid. I'm pretty sure he likes me. We hung out the entire time @ my schools class trip. All my firends know that I like him and some of the popular girls in my school know too. This kid im sort of firends with was makin fun of me cuz i never made out with anyone so my other firends was like you don't know what happened @ the class trip. He found out it had 2 do with this guy (who he knows) ugh im afraid hes gonna say that I was telling everyone we made out or something, I sent him a txt saying if he tells u anything ignore him but sence everyone know she gonna think im so werid prude kid who tells everyone how obssed I am. Ugh i just donno what 2 do.

well chick lets see dont worry about things like that cause if the guy really likes you then he will not listen to anyone else and believe what you are telling him or maybe he will go along with it... but however dont worry about it guys understand and your not werid but relex everything will work out..i hoped i helped

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how can imake my breasts look bigger with out stuffing.

being a guy i really am not sure but there is always spending the money to get them bigger or as my friend told me get a padded bra there you go !!!!

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This one is for the guys...

Do you all find freckles cute?

its ok sometimes but i really am not sure cause some look like shoit with them lol

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Im goig to a new school next year with my best friend, she is great and ive known her forever, but im a fraid that if i hang out w/ her alot that, i wont make alot of new friends. plz help!!!

keep your friends but the best thing about a best friend is they should be able to trust you to make new friends but still realize that there your best friend and there not going to lose you

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14/f. Any advice on making the first move? And building up the courage to do so?
Thanks

well if you really want to make the first move then you must have confidence in yourself and just do it believe me if the mans a guy hes not going back down no guy will just make sure you thinks its the right think and just believe in yourself and have fun!!

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My cheer squad is putting together an appreciation type party for our football players as the get ready for the season.


At this thing, we want to show a football movie. We have it narrowed down to Remember the Titans and Friday Night Lights. We think they're both one of the best football movies out there (well... besides Rudy, of course) but we can't decide on one.


Which would y'all choose? If you answer, we'd really like a reason why as well!


Also, we really just and one of those two, nothing else, and we can't show both. Thanks

Well i am a really big sports fan and other than Rudy my favorite football movie is deffinatly Remenber the Taians there is so many good points in the movie and that can show how one team can come together to win a title even though there are many things in the way great movie and thats the one i would pick Good luck!!

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i keep trying to make this boy jelous so he will like me more...sometimes i feel he doesnt like me even tho he really does. should i keep trying to make him jelous..help me out!!

well to start things off i would not try to make him jelous because then if he ever though about going out with you then he might change his mine when he see you trying to make him jelious becasue he would not want you to do that when or if you go out...just be yourself if he dont like you like that then dont worry about it there plenty of ppl out there!!

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Mkay.

I'm dating this guy. Ryan. We have been dating for about three weeks now, Yeah, I know - It's not that long. But this isn't the first time we dated.

My best friend, almost hooked up with the same guy. But we went out one night and she did things with another guy and almost went all the way. Ryan found out and told me about two months ago that he didn't want a girl like that, So we started talking more, My bestfreind hates it with a passion. She claims that she wants him to die and that she hates him and doesn't want anything to do with him ever again, and that she has no feelings left for him what so ever, So I thought - What the heck, I'll date him and give him a chance.

We started dating. My bestfriend found out and told me, it's me or him. Take your pick. Of course, I chose my best friend. Me and Ryan broke up. Then about two weeks later, me and Ryan started talking about, and everything was cool with my bestfriend, We even pledged to not let another guy get between us ever again. Everything was perfect, So I gave Ryan another chance. I told my best friend, but she was too drunk to remember that I said anything.

Last night I hung out with both of them. My bestfriend was a complete ass to Ryan and I felt bad but I couldn't do much because I hate being in the middle of fights, So I just stood there and talked to all my other friends. Apperently everyone but my bestfriend knew that me and Ryan were dating. Well, I didn't want to tell my bestfreind last night either because we were not only with a buncha friends but she was also wasted.. So I didn't say anything.

Somehow, she found out. She called Ryan and completely bitch slapped him and called him on everything. I haven't talked to her yet but I'm not so sure I want to. I don't know what to do because I know it's going to come down to the same thing, Her or Him. I don't want to choose for the sake of myself, but what do I do?

I'll rate 5s.

Well chick i think that if your friend was really your friend that she would not make you pick over him or her but as i was always told friends are friends forever but the person you love may leave so make sure you have that one person you need....so if i was you i would try to find a time to sit down to talk to both of them and ask them to please talk to eachother for you and if that dont work then i would take my friend...i hoped i helpped,Travis

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I have some best friends, and I have a very best friend. Well we are goin to high school next year. Do you think theres a good chance we will stay best bets friends? JW for your opinon. Tanks i will rate ya!

Well i hate to say this but i just went though this not to long ago...the first year of your high school career is not that bad but when it gets really hard is when you get to the second year... i myself have lost 3 of my best friends and i still have one... i think it is posible to keep it going it is just really hard but good luck and let me know how it goes

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