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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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well my b/f and i have been together for about 7 months now and we are doing really good although sumtimes i think that it is too good to be true. i have been hurt before and i just dont want to get hurt again. we spend alot of time together and we cant imagine ourselfs with anyone else.
you shouldn't think like that, because what's the point in having a relationship when all your worried about is it ending. enjoy the presence and don't worry about the future. not all great experiences end the way you want it to, but it's the memories and lessons you learned and made along the way that count. i admit, i feel that way with my boyfriend, but just have confidence in your relationship. if it's really meant to be.. it'll never end.
okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's
he sounds like a player to me. he obviously only wants your benefits, and i suggest you comfront him about it! don't let guys treat you like that because you are worth a whole lot more than that. find a real guy who treats a girl with respect, because this one doesn't.
I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?
don't try to end something someone has just to make yourself happy. he's obviously moved on, and you should too. meet more guys and hang out with your friends. don't force yourself to be in a relationship because being single isn't all that bad! enjoy it while your young!
i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!
these people don't sound like real friends. real friends would take their time to listen to each other and that's definately not what your friends are doing. either that, or your friends ARE jealous. you can't assume they aren't because they are always exclusive to you, that could just be a part of their act. you should talk to them about this, and if you can't then i don't see how ya'll can even get along. communication makes a friendship. your friends should never stop you from making more friends!
I reallllllllly like this guy.. and he and I went out before.. and yeah we hooked up in eveyrthing.. but i regret it tootally!!!! and thenw e broke up after about a week :( and then he and I kept talkign and stuff and were realllly tight.. but now we like never talk.. and he acts as if he hates me or something.. but deep inside of ME I really want him back!! is there anything I can do to make him want me again?
i hate to tell you, but there is absolutely nothing you can do to get him back if he doesn't like you anymore. sometimes you just have to move on it if it isn't meant to be. ya'll did break up for a reason right? you probably feel you need to have him back because you want someone there for you, but he doesn't have to be the one to do that. you can find a billion more guys who can do that for you, but be careful who you choose!
my friend wants to come over, but doesn't have a ride. She keeps telling me to ask my parents, but I'm not going to because it's her parent's responsibility to give her a ride not mine. I kept telling her no and she is buggin me!!ugh! please help!
that's really rude.. you shouldn't force her parents to give her a ride if they can't. you can help out by giving her a ride. she is your friend after all right? if you really want her over, you will ask your parents to give her a ride, but if you truly don't then don't bother to ask them. just tell her that they can't and she needs to understand that.
Last night I tried to kill yself by ODing on sleeping pills. It didnt work though obviously. All that I remember is my dad bringing me into bed and my body started spazing out. I woke up this morning feeling really sick. And really upset because it didnt work.And the sad thing is htough.. If it had... I'm sure that my dad wouldnt have noticed and my mother wouldnt have noticed becaused she was on drugs and passed out. I just dont know what to do with my self. I need some advice. I also feel embarassed.. because after I tok the pills (they were sleeping pills) I wasnt in the right state of mind.. and one of my teachers IMed me when I was online and we had a conversation about stuff becasue I asked them if they ever knew a friend that tried to commit suicide... I mean come on now! wouldnt that just blow your mind? ugh. I dont know what to do. Someone please help me. I'll rate...If thats what it takes to get a decent answer
well killing yourself won't do much. all it will do is hurt people who care about you, even if it seems like no one does. you still have your whole life to live.. don't you want to get married and have kids? don't you want to fall in love? don't you want to do something that you've always wanted to do? don't you want to have a family and watch them grow up? trust me, at this exact moment you may be feeling upset and may hate life.. but later on you will realize that life is great. you will meet someone who will make you feel good about yourself. you just need to wait and stop hating yourself and life. i suggest you go to a counselor or talk to your parents about this. or even a teacher or friend and they will help you get the help you need.
There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?
Sorry Its long
if she had the courage to break up with her boyfriend of two years, i'm pretty sure she has the courage to dump her boyfriend now. if she doesn't, she obviously has strong feelings for him. she should break up with him, because if she doesn't, it isn't fair to the boyfriend she is going out with now. don't try to find a way to get her boyfriend to break up with her, because that is just a waste of time. she should just do it herself.
I have this friend,(E) and every time I turn around, I hear that she was trash talking me!! Well me and my two other friends, (L) and (H), and they keep telling me she was talking trash about me! I have known (E) since 4th grade, and she is my friend so why does everyone tell me she trash talks me?? Who should I believe? I rate high!!!!!
you should know her well enough to know if she'd do something like that to you. have you talked to "E" about this, or have you kept it behind your back? talk to her about it, but remember.. people do change. there will be friends who backstab you, and it's all part of growing up. you just have to decide who is worth it, and who you can actually trust.
Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!!
well you have to tell her! she should understand if it is highly inappropriate. she isn't going to force you to use a song that you aren't aloud to be using. if you can't, you can't, and there's nothing you can do about it. just tell her you like the song, but you just can't use it for whatever reason.
hey adina this is brittany and i really need your help i mean me an my boyfrind have been dating for a little over 9 months and i mean he all ed me up last sunday and was crying on the phone saying that he doesnt know if he loves me anymore an that i need to give him a wekk soo i did and i dont think that he is coming back but i dont ko what to do i mean i really love himand he told me evernight that he loved me and that he had never loved someone soo much as he does me and i dont understand how it could change like this over night and my world has crushed he use to say all those sweet thingd like you and casey say and do all the things youand casey do and i just want him baxk everyone things that he and i are meant to be but i hate that sayign if it meant to be let it go and it will come back but i don want to i am heart broken and ilove him i have never loved someone soo much, he helped me out ofthe deppression that i was in after the whole cheerleading thing and he help me to stop somethigns and i really tryuley love my teddy bear.....how do i get my teddy bear back!! please help me i am asking you to...
true love doesn't end over night like that. if he truly loved you, it would be impossible to stop loving you over night. maybe something has gotten in the way of his love for you, or maybe he's busy and hasn't had much time for you. maybe he isn't telling you the whole truth, but maybe he is. you just have to wait to see what happens, and if what happens isn't want you want, you have to move on. it's going to be hard, but you can't force someone to love you if they don't anymore.
this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high.
age is nothing but a number, and if he doesn't realize that, he is worthless. he should know that it's inside that counts! he is probably afraid of what others think. it all depends if he is sweet and flirty with you when no one is around or when there is people around. you should talk to him about the situation, and if he isn't supportive about it, let it be and move on.
ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!!
that isn't right.. you don't break up with someone then go after them again asking for another chance. just move on.. if it didn't work out the first time, it probably won't work out the second time. plus two days isn't enough to really have anything for him, so it shouldn't be that hard. you will find other guys, just don't make the mistake you did with the last relationship.
see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?
never go after your friends guys! that's a big no no, especially if you want to keep what you have with your buddy. a friend taking your crush is a big heart break, and you really don't want to do that to her! chad may leave you for someone else he likes just like he did with taryn. put yourself in her shoes, and you'll realize that taking her guy is a big mistake. it'll be okay if she is totally over him and has a new interest, so just keep in touch! let him know you don't think it's right to start anything with him at the moment, and respect if he doesn't agree. it'll just show he isn't worth it, and trust me, you will find better guys in the future.
People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?
tell them the truth. they will understand that you aren't emotionally ready, and you want to wait to have a real relationship that'll last a while. they may even look up to you for being so honest and real. you should never be afraid to be your true self, because you can make a difference in anyones life!
How can i lose some weight?? i really want to lose 30 pounds. i exercise alot and it just makes me gain more because of muscle. i hate it and i just want to lose 30 pounds can you give me some suggestions PLEASE!
Why do you want to loose pounds? To make you look thiner, or just to loose pounds? If it's to make you look thiner, a good diet and excersize is the best way to. Even if you gain muscle, muscle replaces fat. If you want to loose pounds, don't eat until your full, and don't eat alot of fast foods! You should also give up sodas, because they help you gain alot of pounds.
ok well my friend was going out with this guy over winter break and me, her, her boyfriend, and a few other people were all hanging out the whole break and we were all like best friends and then the break ended and we came back to school and some rumors started going around that i liked her boyfriend and she got all mad at me and stuff and then they broke up (he broke up with her) and she thought it was because of me but now we are ok and everything and he asked her back out today ... and i kind of like him... and i can tell he likes me because he is always flirting with me but like today after we got out of school we walked over to his apartments and he kept grabbing my "private areas" and when i say private areas i dont mean bad areas like i kept pushing him away and stuff but i mean i like him and i can tell he likes me but now he is going back out with my friend and i dont want her to get hurt and i dont know what to do so if you can... HELP!!! (im 13 in 8th grade my friend is the same but her boyfriend is 15 and in 8th grade)
wow that really isn't good! back off of him, because he is not worth it. if you go out with him, what makes you think he won't do what he did with his girlfriend to you? you should also tell your friend, because she doesn't deserve crap like that.
my friend doesn't really like this guy who i like but she's leading him on. she said to my face she's doing this on purpose. he likes me and we are like best friends but my friend askes him to dances a month early so i can't ask. What should i do?
female 16
wow, what a true friend she is! i say you confront her and talk to the guy you like about what she is doing. if she really was your "best friend" she wouldn't be doing that to you. that's so wrong!
both of my ears only have one pericing, and i want to make alot of other peircings myself but im a little scared and i kinda, dont know how to do it. i want to do my cartiladge on the top and another hole by my first hole on the lobe. but i want to get an industrial (its like a bar that stars at your cartilage and ends somewhere on the bottom somewhere, im getting that professionay done if i have the guts) so i dont know if thats going to interfere with my peircings. i wanna do it myself but im not sure what teh steps are. does anyone know how/have experience? or are there any sites with pictures and explanations for me (someone who is realy slow). ive never done anything like this before and any info would be great! thanks!
i peirce my ears all the time! it's not that hard actually, the only hard part is getting over the fear of doing it! it actually hurts less than getting it perfessionally done, because they usually peirce your ear with a peircing gun. using a needle or earing helps air go through your peirced hole making it hurt less. well, you have to mark a dot where you want to peirce with a marker. make sure the needle/earing is clean, you can clean it with hydrogen peroxide which i do, or put it under STEAM water. to make peircing your ears hurt less, put ice over it for a minute or longer to make it go numb and then go for it. after, put more hydrogen peroxide and turn the earing/needle even if it hurts. let it breath for a few minutes then you can put the end of the earing on. make sure to clean it often!
Okay. Well I like this guy but I have never met him. My friend has though. It's still weird though, likeing someone I have never met, but I really do like him. I dont know what i should do. Should I like him? Or am i just being weird? We talk alot. On the phone and on the internet. And its not like hes just some random person i know nothing about. He's friends with one of my good friends. It wouldnt be hard to go and meet him. But i just dont know if i should like him right now.
aw it's totally fine if your friends met him and stuff! that's how i met my boyfriend, and we've been going out for 7 months. what i really liked about it is, that he didn't judge me for looks and he truly liked me for who i was and my personality. and you aren't being weird at all! as a matter of fact, alot of people meet people on the internet, so yeah! just get to know him more and learn to trust him, and when you're ready.. go meet him in person! =)