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I live in Cleveland,Ohio&&Me&&ma twin/bestfriend need jobs,but were only 13..So dew anyone know any Jobs that we can dew..Tew make money..?? (link)
1 baby sitting
2. cleaning houses
3. yard work


where can you work at the age of 15 in roseville, ca.

95747..

please help me or tell me where i could go to find out (link)
I don't know of any jobs that you could get besides house cleaning or babysitting.


can an employer fire somebody just for not smiling even if the person is friendly otherwise. it doesnt seem right it should be based on how well they do their job? if anybody can answer this it would be appreciated. thank you! (link)
I don't think so.


ok sinve i cant get a real job yet since im under 14. what are othr things i can do to make money? i rate high (link)
1. babysit
2 clean houses
3 wash cars
4. have a yard sale
5. waslk dogs


I think this should come under 'mental health', but i'm not too sure.

I keep getting mini panic attacks. At night i get all scared, shivery and just start crying uncontrollabley. This has been going on for about a week and a half now, sometimes worse than others. I found that for some reason wrapping my hand around one of my teddies arms calms me down, but i was just wondering if there is anything i can do to help with it, or stop it from happening

Thanks
PS 13/f if it helps (link)
you should see a nurologist.


What is a physical because i have to take one to be in basketball (link)
A form that you have to get a doctor to fill out.


okay so school is coming up and i have no job or money as yet. I've applied to over 20 places and none have called back as yet so the job thing is off the list for now. My mother wants me to babysit her friends kid while they go away for the weekend and i'm going to get paid $100.00, But the thing is that we don't have a relationship at all, we don't talk, she's always attacking me physically and verbally and whenever she wants her favours done, she uses me...i want to do it because atleast that's a start for me then my dad would give me some more money on top of that for school shopping but on the other hand; i don't want to do it because she's just using me..like she always does and i would have to ride in the car with her down there and that's gonna be sooo awkward..so would you do it? yes or no? your opinions are greatly appreciated..thanx:) (link)
i would do it becouse it's not your mom's kids it's her friends kids and your mom's friend is paying you.


16/f
my parents keep such a strict eye on me, and i really just want to have fun. i got caught in my friend's car a couple of weeks ago when she was still on JOL, so i was grounded and now they're keeping an even closer watch on me.
tomorrow night, my friend is having a sort of party and i want to go. there will be alcohol there, and i want to have some to let loose and have fun. i don't know what to say to my parents, because i know they'll call me to ask what i'm doing and thoroughly question me. they need to let me make my own mistakes, but they don't understand that.
any advice on what to do about tomorrow night and in the future with my parents?
Thank you (link)
If i were you i would ask them if i could go to a sleepover,


Hello, I am dealing with a woman who is crazy!! She is my Kid's stepmom. The kids are 2 girls 9 and 11 and one boy age 8.
Problem is she is way overly sexual toward my kids verbally. And now sexually. I found out from my daughter today that the stepmom and her father went on a camping trip with their combined 7 kids all in one tent. They had loud motion filled sex in front of the kids while they were supposed to be sleeping!!! My two daughters described it all to my horror. Is this illegal? They have sex with their bedroom door open. Her rules are always open doors, because bad things happen when doors are closed. She told my daughter all animals go to hell when they die.She told them a man may rape you and rape is when they have sex with you , and are sick of raping you and kill you when they are done with you. She talks about their sex life while driving in the car. Her oldest daughter talks openly about blow jobs and oral sex on women and she is 12. They go down the road having open sex talks!!! What happened to singing or talking about the disney channel?The list goes on and on. The woman is a 2 time convicted felon for child endangering and robbery and a 3 time misdemeanor for shoplifting. Their father is now brainwashed by her and hasnt seen his kids in 2 months. I live in a nice home with a wonderful fiance and a perfect home life filled with love. I am afraid that a judge is going to make me send the kids to him eventually . I have custody, he has visitation. Any legal advice? Any pschological input on crazy?? Thanks!! (link)
If you have custody i don't think the judge is allowed to force to parent or guardian to make them be a witness they have to have a parents or guardians consent.


My 12 year old son has a neighborhood friend (who spends alot of time at our house). He is a very nice boy, who doesn't have alot of friends because he can be "a pain in the neck" (according to my son) and we believe because of his hygiene. His odor is very offensive and we don't even like when he sits on the furniture in the house. He has been in the car with us on a few occasions and it is necessary to open the windows to cut some of the smell. Here's the really tough part... how do we handle this. I would like to pull him to the side and speak to him about taking showers and wearing clean clothes, but the other part of me thinks we should speak to his parents. The problem with this is his mom is not very "clean" either. What should I do?? (link)
If i were you i would take him in a room by himself and explain to him about his hygine problem.


I have bi-polar and would like to speak to other people who have this condition, so basically I would like to know how to get on to a chatroom and to find out does this condition ever go away? (link)
Bipolar is a condition that cannot be cured but there is medications out there whre it can made not so bad.


17/f

I've been on a diet for three days now and I'm finding it really hard. I have a huge sweet tooth and I just love cakes and chocolate and lollies.
I eat enough and I'm not hungry after I eat but I really really have huge cravings for something sweet all the time and I can't stop it. It's really bad. What can I do to stop myself eating bad things? All I want is the taste of something sweet in my mouth.
Exercise doesn't stop my cravings coz I've tried :S

Can anyone help me? (link)
If you crave something sweet you could eat a piece of fruit instead of something with alot of sugar in it.


okay so like sorry if this is the wrong catagory
but im a teen girl and it itches really bad around my vag lately just around it
and im not sexually active and i am so not ready to shave down there
but i dont think i have an infection and i will not at all go for a check up
what will help it (link)
you could have a yeast infection


I need a name for my American Eskimo Dog. My dog is a boy and it is pure white.
What are some good names?

Thanks in advice. =] (link)
eskimo


Okay i am going into high school next year and my friends are starting to drink and smoke. i cont want to but i know i will not be invited anywhere if i don't. i know this seems like simple, say no, but the only way to keep my friends is to drink or lose them. i know it seems like these friends suck, and they do but i cant change groups. like idk, but idk i don't want to. i just don't want to sink to that level. if you are a teen, you know what this is. you cant just be like "no I'm not drinking" I'm only 13. I'm turning 14 soon but...what do i do? (link)
I would tell them if you were really my friend you would make me drink and smoke to be friends with and then if they still tried to make you drink and smoke tell them iam sorry but i can't be friends with you anymore.This comes from a smoker smoking may seem cool but it's really not .


17/f

i babysit a 6 year old girl and her 12 year old brother. the boy doesn't need much attention he pretty much stays to himself while i play with the 6 year old. one day i went to the boy's room and walked in and saw him masturbating. i was shocked and said sorry and he looked absolutly scared beyond belief but now whenever i'm babysitting i can hear him in his room doing it. i don't know if i should say something or try to ignore it. (link)
I would talk to him about it first but then if he keeps doing it i would talk to his parents becouse his little sister could walk in on him just like you did.
hope i've helped.


I am quiet late on my period,the date of the 1st day of my last period was on the 16th May, i am regualar, i took a pregnancy test on the 21st june and its come out negative.is there a possibilty that i can be pregnant or have i done the test to early.plz someone help me, feeling a bit alone and confused at the minute.thank you for reading this (link)
If you had sex it could be a possibilty anythings possible.


hi, ok i love babies! people always want me too babysit their kids all the time. i do always babysit them. but some of them dont pay at all. so the question is how do i get them to start paying?:)

heather (link)
you can have them pay you before you start the babysitting job and then if they don't pay don't babysit.


im having a party tomorrow.. im not sure if im pregnant lets say theres a good chance.. um if i was i would only be 1 week ha because i had sex last sunday and tomorrows sunday.. is it ok if i drink? i dont even no 100% if i am or not.. but if i was it would only be a week so could that harm it if i did (link)
I wouldn't take any chances on drinking becouse if you drank and it got into your immune system it could go to the baby and the baby could get seriously hurt or even killed but i would suggest to take a pregnancy test to see if you were pregnant.


On May 22 I was given devistating news that after an 18 month battle with cancer my 9 year old cousin would die in any where from 2 days to 2 weeks. This news devistated me and left me not only depressed but i found myself isolating myself from others. Images ranging from him laying in bed paralized (he became paralized from teh waste down) to him laying there thinking (his organs began shutting downa nd week 2 he was not responding to anything) On June 4 he passed away which just sent me more into a down hill sprial. More images poured into my head and again more after his funearl on June 7. Now i find myself seeing his face every time i close my eyes-- pictures of him in his casket or burning in fire ( he was cremated after his viewing & service)

now i'm stuck.. trying to start a new beginging without him in ym life but with no help

i wnot talk to anyone but my boyfriend about it- and he seems to avoid the topic because he doesnt know waht to say.

so what do i do?
hwo do i move on with life?
how do i wake up every morning withotu first thinking if it was a terrible dream?

life has to go on, the world wont stop for me.. so what now?

i need to learn to "move on"
i'll never forget his strength, his courage, or his smile


but im afraid that if i move on, i'll forget
and i just can't let it be tru ein my head

so now what?
i just need help..
experiences, spiritual guidence- anything

please help!


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my dad died when i weas 12 and i would say i know how you feel but even though i've been through a death experience myself i still don't know your actual feelings but i can say i know it's hard without having your cousin in your life becouse iam 19 years old now and it's still hard without my dad around in my life especially on holidays like fathers day but things have gotten better for me becouse family has helped me through the hard times and if you have family that you are really close to try talking to them about your feelings about your cousin becouse talking about your problems usually helps in these kinds of situations and try to find a quiet time by yourself and pray and ask god to help you be strong in hard times. Iam sorry that i couldn't be more of help i hope things get better for you and i'll keep you and your family in my prayers. I hope this helps.




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