Member Since: January 28, 2011
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Last Update: November 2, 2022
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What are your fears? (link)
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Snakes, heihts, rollercoasters, loud noises, and crowds
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Whats the chance of a condom breaking? (link)
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Condoms are 85% effective
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I'm a female, and my weight is 100 pounds. My height 5'2 my band size for a bra is 28 inches. I was supposed to get my period at age 12 said my doctor, my breasts have devoloped but they stayed the same size since 5th grade! Do I have delayed puberty? I don't eat much not because of a disorder I am just not hungry. This is not not normal, correct? (link)
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You are not by yourself I didn't start mine until I was 16.
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Hi. So in the fall, I'll be going into 7th grade. But this will also be at a new school. So there are 2 middle schools in my town, and all of my friends are at the smaller one, and I'll be moving to the bigger one. Technically this will be my first year of real middle school though, because last year in 6th grade, I was actually homeschooled. This will not change my level of work at school this year, because I am a very extraordinary student anyway, although I am worried about middle school itself. I'm a newbie, AND it's my first year of middle school when everyone else started last year. I won't know my way around, I'll be late for classes, I don't even know how their systems work and everything. I'll be the new clueless yet smart girl that everyone pities. I'm smaller and an easy target for bullies, but I can come back with extremely witty comebacks that makes them want to wish they were dead in a ditch, if that helps. But I need to know some important things that will help me. I already know how to unlock lockers and stuff, so yeah. Thanks for your time. (link)
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Well first off if you need any help finding classes I am sure the teachers will be glad to help you find them. I am sure there will be a dress code I am not sure if it is requred to be in uniform or not but they will tell you what all the requirements and regulations are on the first day of school. If you are bullied do not be afraid to report it to a staff of teacher.
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Hello my name is ... well that honestly doesn't matter . I've been sexually abused by 3 family members and 4 other male's in my life .
I was abused by a family member at home . it started when I was 2 years old... well that's as far as I remember .
I hate the person so much . I cry my self to sleep . I have cuts all over my thigh's .
I try to forgive but I cant . how could I ?
how could someone do something to a innocent little girl .
my mom cried when she found out she was having me . I was the " accident child " .
she didn't want me .. I know she didn't .
I always felt like a mistake to this world .
maybe I am . Im no one important just a 14 year old girl who got sexually abused by her own father . ive become so suicidal I wish everything would just end . - abby (link)
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You are not a mistake. I know how you feel Iwas molested by my Dad when I was 3 years old and when my mom found out she called the police and you need to do the same. The police is there to help you so you don't have to deak with this anymore. I have been going to Pineland which is the mental health program where i am located i am now 26 years old so it's been 23 years since the event happened and my dad's dead now and it is still hard for me to forgive him for what he had done. I often have mixed emotions I find myself absolutely hating him one minute and then the next I find myself making up excuses for him ehen in reality there is no excuse for what he did. He may have been mentally ill but he still could have controlled it. I agree with adviceman 49 you need to report this so other girls don't have to put up with it and the police will stop this from happening to you. Please follow my advice.
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What is your favourite type of pizza? (link)
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I would say the cheese pizza is deff my fave
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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If you call the police they can arrest him because blackmailing is illegal
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OK, my life sucks. My mother hates me and is doing drugs, my dad keeps molesting me and I can't feel emotions or make friends. Now how the fuck do I commit suicide. (link)
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Don't do it . . If you need someone to talk to you can talk to a school counsler or a trusyed adult about your problems at home abd the problems that your having will come to a stopand tbe mmolestation needs to be brought to an adults attention. Now It has to stop. Whatever you do please don't commit suicide
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Hi, I'm In NEED Of Help to find a Job. I'm turning 14 and I Need money for Clothes. Do You know anywhere where I Could get a Job FAST?? (link)
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Why font you try baby sitting or ask your mom and dad ifbyou can earn do extra chores around the house to earn some extra cash. You could have a lemonade stsnd or a bake sale. I hope I have helped
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I'm a 15 year old female and I'm a Christian. I grew up in a Baptist church, though my family isn't baptist nor are we nearly as strict and legalistic as some Christians.
I am homeschooled and my workbooks/PACE'S(ACE Curriculum) sometimes have stories and/or comics of kids in different situations and teach Christian morality and thinking.
But as I was reading one of these stories, it was about a girl who became Christian and it was talking about how she was changing her life. One of the things it mentioned was: "She began to find new joy as she replaced her former friends and ways with new Christian friends and activity's that helped her grow spiritually."
I understand having new Christian friends and distancing herself from bad things like drugs and alcohol. But why would she need to remove her old friends from her life? Didn't Jesus sit and eat with the non-Christians and sinners?
Wouldn't we WANT to be friends with them so we could possibly influence them in a good way instead of cutting them off?
I guess I just don't understand why you would do that...
Could someone explain this to me? Or tell me if I'm right and their wrong? Or the other way around? (link)
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I understand why you are confused because I had to ask my pastor the same question and this is what my pastor told me he said the reason that you di this is because sometimes if you gang out with your old friends who are not living the Christian life style you could go back to your old ways because yoour old friend s are not good influences when you are trying to live the Christian life . He says that you can still talk to them and that sort of thing but just don't go back to your old hang outs with them like the club or the bars show them how Jesus has changed your life for the better . I hope that I have helped answer your question.
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I mean is it all like "unholy"? I know that black magic is like witchcraft but whats white magic? Will it get you sent to hell? I have been thinking about this since I read "Jays Journal". Also are spells considered witchcraft? (link)
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Anything that has to do woth magic is considered a sin and yes its all against gods wishes but if you are doing it all you have to do is say the sinners pray and God will forgive you and you have to mean it of course . I hope that I have answered ypur question.
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Hi i need some advice i want to find god i'm 13 male and have had a few family problems and feel lonely sometimes and i do want to become a christian a couple of months ago i started going to church i go every week i pray to god twice everyday i feel good after praying god has really helped me i have started reading the bible i want to give my life to god what else do i need to do to be a christian? (link)
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Going to church and reading the bible and praing are all good things and parts of being a Christian but the main thing that you need to do is ask Jesus to forgive you of all yours but you have to mean it and remember God forgives all sin there is nothing that you could ever do or have done in the past to make God be mad at you forever and remember nobody is perfect and ever body makes mistakes . I have been a Christian for almost 3 years now it will be 3 years novenber of the 25th of next year and I still make mistakes and he forgives and forgets every time. So all you have to is say this prayer and mean it Jesus I admit I am sinner and please forgive me of all my sins and he will. Hope I have helped your making the best decision you could ever make.
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My mom won't let me have a bikini how do I get one without her knowing and I can't drive! Please help and I'm 15 (link)
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I wouldn't suggest you go behind your moms back to get a bikini because yout mom has good reasons for not want ing uou to have one and then if you get one with out her permission then you would get in big trouble .
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What would look good with a knit, pastel yellow-colored long-sleeved sweater? It's a baggy style. Please include shoes and all when answering question :) (link)
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I think a pair blue denim skinny jeans or a pair of black leggins or a pair of black galcho's would look great with your sweater or mabye even a black jean skirt would work I hope I have helped .
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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family... (link)
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The job you have is most likely a minimum wage Job and it won't pay for doctor visits hospital bills drapers baby clothes formula and and many other things . Do you think that you can raise a baby by yourself because since you said that your parents wouldn't like if the father of the baby is black which is the least of my worries they probably won't help you raise the baby they might even throw you out do you know how many parents have kicked their kids out of the how when they came home and told them that they were pregnant and some parents don't care if your only 15 they will still throw you out of the house . Babies tend to cry all night do you think you could go to school and do homework on 2 to 3 hours of sleep. what about STD's did you even think about that because when you have a baby you have to have sex and when you have sex you can get an STd if your not careful and condom's dosn't keep you from getting an STD. not to mention the the big belly will go away and then your stuck with a child to raise and no pregnant belly a baby is not a toy you can't just stuff taking care of the baby when you want to . I hope that I have helped you make the right decision and you will think twice before making the hugest mistake of your life . sorry if I hurt your feelings i am just trying to get through to you .
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Iv been dating my boyfriend for over a year &i am head over heels in love with him. I know this is immature and annoying to get anxiety over but everytime he watches porn I get such anxiety and mad at him. I try to hide it as best as I can. I know he should be allowed to do whatever and I don't want to control him in ANYWAY or tell him what he can or can't do but it makes me feel so bad. He never calls me pretty or gives me compliments so I get nervous when he's looking at other beautiful girls. If I told him I know he'd be mad I'm trying to tell him what to do. I feel bad for feeling this way but I can't help it. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated! (: thanks!!! (link)
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I know how feel my ex did the same thing to me I suggest you talk to him about he won't know until you tell him how feel . I mean maybe he does not realize it bothers you . i would feel the same way if my boyfriend was looking at porn and by the he shouldn't be allowed to do whatever he wants. It's not controlling him telling him how you feel and if he doesn't listen to you when you tell him how you feel and keeps looking at the porn . i Suggest you break up with him because if he doesn't listen to you he doesn't respect you .
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I need help! I dont know what to put on my Babysitting flyer!!!!!!!!!! Can you help???? (link)
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Name
your age
fee you charge
phone number
hours you can work
age ranges you can babysit for
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Well normally I wear sports bras but lately I changed into a real padded bra. I didnt want it to be like I'm trying to make my boobs look bigger but now my friend who's older than me was like " Dang, you grew they almost look bigger than mine". It made me feel like I was trying to look older or sOmething but I'm not I actually don't want this. What do I do? (link)
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It does not matter what other people think of body as long as your happy with it. It would have helped if you would have put your age in your question .
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I go to a uniform school an on friday we are supposed to have a dress down day, which means we don't have to wear uniforms. We can pretty much wear anything but like spaghetti straps and really short shorts or skirts. I have a really complicated wardrobe though. It's not in style it's kinda like clothes a 8 or 9 year old would wear (mayb 10 or 9). I want to look good but I don't hav a lot of money to spend. Actually I would like to spend as less money as possible. I have this black frilly skirt and I have so many types of jeans capris, shorts, and pants. Shirts are kinda hard like I have some plain shirts and most of my shirts have some sort of design on it. I really want to look cute because... I don't know I just like to look good lol! Please help if you can! Thanks! (link)
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If you want to spend as less money as possible why don't you check out some thrift stores or yard sales sometimes you can find name brand clothes at thrift stores and yard sales at reasonable prices. If you have a black frilly skirt why don't you wear it with a black T?
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in the morning me and my boyfriend exchanged intercourse and i have completely forgot the pill the same day i needed to take it. I am a bit worried because it was over 12 hours of having sex. Could i be pregnant and id so is there an easy solution what to take? (link)
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you need to go to gynecologist to take a pregnancy test and then if your pregnant ask him or what you need to but in my opinion I don't believe in abortion but there is always the option of adoption.
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