I dont know if i should keep the friends i have right now. All they do is complain about their lives and critize other people and when i complain about my life they are all like im sorry i cant do anything about that. And they are rude like it doesnt even matter to them! One of them never even calls me and shes my BEST FRIEND. she never trys at all, like she always tells me that she never ever askes people to hang out. but i told her she needs to ask me because im her best friend. so i just wanted to see what she would do. and now my other best friend is all like calling her all the time and now they are best friends and they always leave me out. we always have history of alot of drama so this time i really want to make our friendship work. OH YEAHH our other friend went to mexico for the whole summer and all she does is gossips about her... and she gossips about my other best friend too so i bet she gossips about me too. and thats the whole reason we got in a big fight last time because she said I gossip to much! but now i try to hold back and shes being a huge hypercryte. Im moving from San antonio to houston and i dont no if its worth being friends with all of them anymore. i feel like ive matured so much and i dont want to be in a little group of gossip anymore, i want to change for the better and just be alot more independent. do you think i should just not be friends with them or what?
Hey.
These people do not sound like good friends.
If they don't care about you or call you then don't both with them because you know you can find nicer and better people to hang out with!
And gossiping about other friends of theres isn't a very nice thing to do because why be friends with someone if you gossip about them in a bad way.
I think you should stop being friends with these people because they might end up getting you into some sort of trouble!
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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat?
Heyy
Well my friends used to do this and i think that they just want the compliments.
Because we used to all talk about what shirt sizes and what Jean sizes we were they used to always say "Oh im a 10 but at jay jays im a size 8" Then everyone was like oh my gosh that is soo skinny and she's like well thats just way i am.
They always change there minds because somedayz the'll want compliments but other days the'll be up them selfs about how skinny they are.
SORRY ITS SO LONG
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i masturbate 2-3 times a week ;; but it only last for a few minutes. is this normal? if not what can i do to make the pleasure last longer?
Yes it is normal.
You want yourself to have a orgasm for it to feel good.
To finger yourself longer you should rub the top inside bit of your vagina and when you feel like your horny or really into it start fingering yourself and if the moment goes away start fingering with one hand and with the other hand start feeling the top inside of your vagina.
Go on to solotouch.com
- click enter.
- say your over 18 even if your not.
- click on masterbation lounge.
- then look at the videos on the right hand side!
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im a girl i masturbate and i feel no pleaseure in it. how do i make it feel real good?!
Heyy..
You could rub the top of your vagina but sort of inside but at the top but im not sure what it's called.
You could find some objects around the house!
Go on to www.solotouch.com
- click on enter.
- then im over 18 even if your not.
- the click on masterbation lounge.
- Look at the videos on the right side of the page and watch the very first video choice as there is 3 differnet ones to look at!!
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when i masturbate i hit an orgasm, and i keep going and whatever and i never wanna stop but then like after 3 minutes, i just like stop masturbating sit up and go online.. is that normal?
Hey..
Yes it is normal to have a orgasm and not wanting to stop as it is very tempting.
Stopping after 3 minutes and going to do something else is normal.
Next time you could try going for longer and then you can try using some objects that will get you more into it!
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So no! I don't have a guy in my life and I'm not about to screw any old guy. So how do I y'know plesure myself without buying expensive sex toys? I really need to know.
Heyy
You could try fingering yourself or find objects around the house to help you out but don't use anything sharp.
Find something circular and start from small objects and then find some bigger ones when your confident.
You can use a electric tooth brush but put a comdom or something over it..yes this one sounds weird but some people like it.
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ok. I have this friend and we have been friends forever... and I got invited to my friends sweet 16. and she in the past has had drinking problems and has done drugs. but at this time she was clean. well my best friend didn't want me to go to the party, she was scared I wold drink or do drugs (which there weren't any XD) I even told her that there were parents at the party. But she called my mom and told her about the party and how she didn't want me to go because of her suspicion of drugs and alcohol. So no basically my mom doesnt want me to hang around the girl at all. because being the idiot she is my friend used names. and so now my mom things that my other friend ( who I really love) is a druggie and drinks alcohol.. and im really mad at my best friend. she should trust me more. I feel that its not her place to do things like that and "look out" for me. I understand that she was trying to help which is why I dont' want to be mean to her. but im really pissed that she would go behind my back and ruin things like that for me... so Im really pissed off and were now fighting.. any ideas on what I should say to her??
Heyy
I think you should tell her ...
" Hey, i know where fighting but can we please talk without fighting because our friendship is important to me." and she will say ok hopefully and then you say ..
" As a friend we should trust each-other and have support in each other, but at the moment im not feeling the trust. We have been friends for a long time now and you need to think before you say stuff next time because you really hurt my feelings how you told my parents that this girl had drugs and alcohol at her party when there actually parent supervision. Can we please put it behind us and get along because i miss being friends with you...and if we are friends again can you please not say anything with out making sure it's true next time"
--sorry this is long--
But she should understand after this how imprtant your friendship is to you!
Do not apologize as it was her fault for telling your mum false accusations but this is just so she can understand what a friendship means and how much it means to BOTH of you!
--and once again sorry its so long--
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Okay, so I got a haircut and decided to get actual forhead covering bangs. The stylist did it well but the bangs were really poofy. I asked her about it but she just said my hair had natural "body". What can I do to make my bangs more... "whispy"?
Go into a hairdressing place or a chemist and see if you can find any products for your problem.
You can also try straightening your hair!
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i am writing a song, about a girl i am going out with, what are some good ways to write a song accompanied by a guitar? what are som chords that would sound good with that mood of song?
i think you should simply stick with
- D, G, A, Em
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I've never babysat before and today I am babysitting 2 boys.
One is almost 11
And the other is almost 9
Any ideas to keep them entertained for about 4 hours?
Thanks.
Heyy
Some options:
-Game of monopoly
-Let them bake something altogether
-Watch some t.v
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I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I are still pretty young (37 and 33); we have two kids and WE HARDLY EVER HAVE SEX. Lately it's been once every three weeks. I know we are still attracted to each other and I know we are both faithful, it's just that being parents totally sucks all the energy from us. Any advice?
Maybe get someone to baby sit for a while one of there nana's..
Then you guys could have a night to yourself.
- Send your kids on a holdiday camp for a couple of nights.
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okay my parents keep looking at my pictures on my desktop and they always find something wrong and get all mad at me so is there anything online that i can upload my pictures from my camera onto and then delete my pictures on my desktop
pleasee help anything will do
yes you could go onto
www.piczo.com
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I just turned 13 and well my bf is a little older than me. We have already made out. But I was wondering how far you think that we should go... considering my age.
Thanks.
Heyy
Well im also 13 and have had 15 year old boyfriends...
Go as far as you think you should go but just make sure you are comfortable with what you are doing and your not getting presured into anything..
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Ok I'm 16 and a female. It's summer and all i can do is think about this one boy. Does anybody know what i could do? I really like him and im not really sure if he likes me back. He's usually at my bus stop and lives on the street right behind me! Please Help!!! Thank You All!!!
Heyy
Talk to him at the bus stop just say "Hey, whose class are you in?" even if you know just ask anyway..then you will get into a conversation about school and then hopefully it will change. Do not ask for his number straight away because you don't want to freak him out saying "What's your number so i can text you" ok .. just make a simple conversation and when you see him just say "hey".. Then swap numbers..You will become friends hopefully..
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Ok so i need answers here! Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and i was wearing a skirt and his penis was out. I was kinda giving him a lap dance and my underwear was wet from what im thinking was myself. Im not sure if he came or not but what are the chances im pregnant? he fingered me before too but b4 there was any contact with his penis and im kinda hurting now cause i think he went deep. PLEASE HELP!And tell me can the sperm (if he even came) travel through my underwear and into me? Could i be pregnant and what can i do? Thanks in advance
Heyy
I think it's unlikely that you will bbe pregnant but if you are worried still take a pregnancy test.
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is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=)
Heyy
No it doesn't make you easy or slutty. If you like the guy then yes go for it!!
If you do this all the time though then just be aware what people may say about you.
But if you don't theres no need to think or ask if your slutty.
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ok. so. i feel like a little chubby, so ive been trying to lose some weight. not THAT much, just 5-10 pounds.
in january, i decided i needed to lose 5 pounds. but i didnt have time to lose it quickly, so i did it slow.
around april i had lost 5-6 pounds.
the only thing is; ive been trying to lose more and im stuck.
i try not to eat much. and when i do eat-its all healthy food, like cottage cheese, blueberries, soup, and slimfast bars. i excersice about a half hour everyday ..sometimes every other day.
any tips?
it seriously would be greatly appriciated.
oh. and idk if this helps any but-
im 15, 5'2, 98 pounds.
Hey there...
There are a couple of options you could try:
- Going to the gym.
- Running once in the morning and once in the afternoon.
- Doing some sort of sport.
- Swimming back and forth doing lengths.
- You can try looking up on the enternet some good exercises and balanced diet to go on.
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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14.
Hey..
All girls want boyfriends, and 50% of these peoples parents won't let them..
Don't sneak a boyfriend behind there back.. I think you sit down and talk to then about it.
Don't say "But everyone else is aloud on"..it doesn't work...
But I think if you sit and talk to them about it maybe they will understand ...and they should understand how important it is for a girl to get a boyfriend and go through the stages of boyfriends and learning how to handle the different situations in a releationship..
Hope I helped.
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what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl?
because i think guys think it is easier to talk about things that him and the boys talk about..maybe his life or some problems he may have... sometimes he may be interested in her or one of her freinds or maybe he just wants a friend and wants a change with hanging out with guys all the time.
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All this summer, i had ok fun, but I want excitment! Adventure, not help the old lady cross the street adventrue, but amazing adventure. I've tried to stur things up a bit in my town, which is known to hold most of Van Buren, MI's drug dealers, malesters, and murderers. I mean come on! All I"m asking for is a little danger, adventure and maybe something to make me known for something GOOD in my town cuz all I'm known for is the-girl-who-writes-books-too-much. I love to write, but more adventure will help with this! Any advice to bring up the volume in my town will seriously help! :D
ok ... so you write books why not write a book about someone who does lots of funny and adventureous things and then be that girl and do all the stuff she does ... or maybe read a book like it and do things that the person does
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