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My friend snuck around behind my back and told my parents th
ok. I have this friend and we have been friends forever... and I got invited to my friends sweet 16. and she in the past has had drinking problems and has done drugs. but at this time she was clean. well my best friend didn't want me to go to the party, she was scared I wold drink or do drugs (which there weren't any XD) I even told her that there were parents at the party. But she called my mom and told her about the party and how she didn't want me to go because of her suspicion of drugs and alcohol. So no basically my mom doesnt want me to hang around the girl at all. because being the idiot she is my friend used names. and so now my mom things that my other friend ( who I really love) is a druggie and drinks alcohol.. and im really mad at my best friend. she should trust me more. I feel that its not her place to do things like that and "look out" for me. I understand that she was trying to help which is why I dont' want to be mean to her. but im really pissed that she would go behind my back and ruin things like that for me... so Im really pissed off and were now fighting.. any ideas on what I should say to her??
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I think you should tell her ...
" Hey, i know where fighting but can we please talk without fighting because our friendship is important to me." and she will say ok hopefully and then you say ..
" As a friend we should trust each-other and have support in each other, but at the moment im not feeling the trust. We have been friends for a long time now and you need to think before you say stuff next time because you really hurt my feelings how you told my parents that this girl had drugs and alcohol at her party when there actually parent supervision. Can we please put it behind us and get along because i miss being friends with you...and if we are friends again can you please not say anything with out making sure it's true next time"
--sorry this is long--
But she should understand after this how imprtant your friendship is to you!
Do not apologize as it was her fault for telling your mum false accusations but this is just so she can understand what a friendship means and how much it means to BOTH of you!
--and once again sorry its so long--
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tell her its your life, and you are able to make your own decision. It was none of her business to go behind your back and do that, especially since she jeapordized your relationship with your other friend, and becasue in the first place she was wrong about the drugs and alchol.
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you should say to her exactly what you just said to us.
You think its messed up that she did what she did.
She is not your mom, she is your friend so tell her to treat you like that.
And tell her just because you hang around a person that does drugs doesnt mean your going to do it. If she doesnt trust you as a friend then she isnt really a good friend then.
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