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Q: I have been with my boyfriend for three months but I fancied him as soon as I first talked to him. We have gone as far as kissing (with tongues) and he has felt my breasts and stuff. Him and I both want to start doing other things like dry sex and fingering but I'm really worried about him fingering me. Should I shave? Would he be freaked out if there is hair down there? Any advice would be good. Thank you.
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Actually, it depends on the guy. Some guys like when nothing is there and some don't mind when there is. If your comfortable with shaving down there that would be the safest bet would be to shave. Make sure before you shave that you cut the hair short and then do it. Never dry shave though. Hope I helped. Good luck with your boyfriend.
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Q: Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?
Thnx in Advance!
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I would either wear like something close to your skin color, either lighter or darker one shade. Or if you even wanted to make your eyes stand out you could wear light pink or light blue or white. Something sparkly maybe.
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Q: i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this?
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I know how people can make you feel bad. But you shouldn't have broken up with him because of it...don't even listen to what people think. Yes I think you should definitly tell him that you regret breaking up with him and you miss him a lot, I don't think I would add the loser part lol. Maybe you guys will hook up again. Good luck! Hope I helped.
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Q: Hi. Ok, I have this little problem! See, I really like this guy & all but he's throwin me mixed signals! Like.. I've only known him for like 4 months & we became good friends fast. I was the first one to go and talk to him & he's new at our school this year. All my friends were to chicken to go & talk to him because they were like, "He's soo hot what if I say something stupid?" Ok.. well, I'm an outgoing person so that was easy for me! Anyways.. he'll say stuff like, Stephanie's gay!, so the whole class hears it but I dont care because I'm not gay & he's just kidding & he's always asking me about my boyfriends and how far I've gone with a guy. When I dont talk to him at all, he gets all sad like, "You broke my heart", but then he starts laughin. I dunno if he likes me likes me or if we're just good friends. What do you think?
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Aww. Well it does seem like he has some interest in you. He might just be kind of trying to figure out if you like him. He wouldn't say that stuff randomly just for no reason so it kind of seems to me that he does like you and maybe just isn't sure. I would just throw him some signals that maybe your interested too, but you don't know if he is either. Hope I helped and good luck!
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Q: I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!
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~lost lover~
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Hey sweetie. I'm sorry what's going on with your life right now. I know things can get really sucky. I definitely think your friend shouldn't have done that to you, ecspecially since she knew you liked him a lot. But I know, people do that sometimes it has happened to me before. But, about the cutting. I had to go to a psychiatrist for doing the same thing over basically the same things you did. People found out and told other people and then they made me go. I know cutting seems like the only thing to relieve your pain, I thought it was too. But seriously it isn't. Please don't do that to yourself there's other ways to relieve that pain. And I know some people will say your dumb and stuff for cutting, but they haven't been in our position so they don't know. Maybe when you get really upset you could like punch a pillow or something, that's what they told me to do. Or like scream into something and just scream. I used to just scream and punch things and I would be hysterically crying and then I would go to sleep. It actually helped. Or you could throw things, I wouldn't recommend it but it does help a whole lot. Babe I hope I helped and good luck.
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Q: Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross
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Hey sweetie! I know it sucks when it seems like your the only one without a boyfriend. I don't have a boyfriend either and I act like myself. Just be outgoing and keep yourself open and friendly so guys know that you're avalible. If you have one certain person in mind or even a few people, make sure there not single for one and another thing, just try to get to know them. Not in the stalking way lol but talk to them more...maybe get their number or screen name and then they might be interested. Hope I helped, and good luck.
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Q: kay..i have had a crush on john for a couple of months. then on monday, he asked me out!! i was so happy!! everyone was talking about it!! i know that he smokes weed and pot,( he told me b/4 we were going out) but i still like him..... and when he gets drug tested for his athletics, if he fails it, everyone will think i am desperate. but i really like him.
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Hey babe. I'm really happy for you :-). I love when things like that happen. I wouldn't worry about what people think at all. If you really like him stay with him because you never know, you have liked him for a while...this could be the only chance you get. If it really starts to bother you if people talk about you just be upfront and honest and make sure John knows that you are honest about it. Hope I helped and good luck with John.
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Q: im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
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Hey sweetie. I'm glad that you let go, I'm trying to do that at the moment too maybe you could help me later on what to do with that lol. Well anyways back to your questions. Well you told him you don't like him like that anymore and he doesn't believe you? Huh? Yeah he thinks that your always going to be there when he wants you to, when you have in the past. You can't do anything really except talk to him and you did that. Eventually he will get it, he may be a little upset but he does have to realize that you aren't always going to be there. And to get the new guys to stop liking you? Well just don't act to interested, you can still be friends with them but just don't give off the vibe that you want to go out with them. Don't shut yourself off completely because someone you really like may come along. I think you should be happy your getting new friends. Change is always good. I know the feeling of loosing old friends isn't good but maybe they are drifting away because they think you don't have time for them because you are with new people. Try to find time for everyone. Hope I helped.
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Q: Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you.
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I know that's a hard thing to do. Sorry sweetie. Just tell him that your friend only likes him as a friend right now and tell him that he should no so he doesn't think she's leading him on. I think you should tell him because he does have the right to know. So tell him that she may act like it sometimes but she acts like that to people she likes as a friend and really respects. Hope I helped.
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Q: hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do?
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Hey Laura. I'm sorry..I know how mean people can be and how they start rumors for whatever reason they do it. Eventually the will go away so just ignore them. If you hear people talking about it you could just act like it doesn't bother you (even though it does I know) and be like yeah so who did you hear that one from and make like it isn't that big of a deal. People just start rumors to get attention themselves and to get amusement off of the people they're about, if you act like it doesn't bother you then they won't be amused anymore and it should stop. If people ask you just tell them the truth about the rumors, don't lie though. Hope I helped.
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Q: hey...there this guy that lives down my street that im tryin to hook up w/ my friend...any tips for hookin up?also its hard to get in touch w/ him cuz hes nevr outside & hes hardly online when i am...what should I do?
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Make excuses to go to his house, like to borrow something for your mom or dad or something. Or just call him and talk to him on the phone and just try to get closer with him and find out if he's interested in your friend. Hope I helped
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Q: What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?
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Awww, that is really cute! Make her feel like she is really important. Tell her you love her and that she is beautiful. When your with her make it a habit of kissing her and holding her...that always makes me feel special. Just don't be overly clingy and obsessive lol. And most importantly...make sure you talk to her as often as you can! Hope I helped
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Q: lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie likes me anymore. hes like he likes u. and then he was like he just isnt good at talking with girls but i talked to him about it dont worry. so now i dont know what to do like if he likes me or not/ if he doesnt he shouldnt lead me on and like put his arm around me?
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Well if he is in your school you should just confront him because he can't like get out of that situation when you asked upfront. Because you really need to know so he needs to let you know if he likes you or not so you can try to make things work or move on.
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Q: Where can i buy a du rag??
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In the tube sock section in K-mart. Row B third shelf down...mmmmmmmm yummy
Or you could make one out of a towel
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Q: There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it?
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Drop hints. Like I really want a boyfriend right now and you could say yeah I like this guy I don't know what to do though I don't think he likes me. And talking on the phone with him always helps because your not as shy on the phone and random things could pop up. Good Luck.
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Q: Dear avice columnist,
there is this really hot guy that goes to my school.He is so nice to me.but he has this girlfriend that is really pretty nd he is head over heals for her.I mean lyk in LOVE LOVE LOVE with her.But the thing is that when ever we are watching a movie in science class he turns around and talks to me sits on me lays on me nd my heart skips a beat everytime he does.But I dont think that he really likes me because of this over girl. she is Rich,can do alot of flips and splits in cheer and is pretty,so I dont think that he does but that does not keep me from wondering well maybe he does but I dont know.
Thank you,
Does he like me
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Awww, I'm so sorry...I've been there before I know how your feeling. Maybe you should just see how the relationship is going, things can't last forever...if they seem like it's getting ruff or they're about to break up you should move in and kind of hint that your interested. Trying to break them up wouldn't be the best thing because this girl sounds kind of bitchy and she might get a little mad lol. He definitely shows some interest in you but he does really like his gf. Try and get closer with him...like talk to him more and get his number or screen name or something. Hope I helped.
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Q: i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do?
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Well if you don't want a bf at the time....don't lead him on to thinking that you do. I guess just tell him straight up, you don't want a boyfriend because of all the drama but that you really like him. When you do feel like you want a boyfriend let him know..although he might have moved on.
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Q: PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!
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Yeah, I have been in that situation before. Well I would just keep on talking to him and maybe just see how things go.
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Q: ok..most older sisters r mean to their younger sisters when they follow them around or sumthin annoyin like that. i try to stay away from my sister b/c all she duz is yell at me! and i really dont do nething!! i hate yelling at ppl so i dont want to yell at her back. ne advice on wut to do??
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Well, you could ignore her and he may quit it a little bit. I know when you get older you can get a little moody and your sister may just take it out on you because your the only one around. Or you could try to talk to her about it and tell her how she is hurting you. I hope I helped a little!
Much
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Q: the guy i like knows and i dont really like him its just a crush bc i dont kno him. my friend told him i like him (and the dude i like is best friends with my friend that told him). a couple days ago Max (thats his name the guy i like) checked me out and i thought it was a good sign. he was looking at me i found out, but today in math class he came in the door from the classroom next door and said "whos chloe?" and this gurl Beki pointed at me and he said "oh ok" and closed the door. i feel like im going to get rejected. what if max talks to me on tuesday and i turn bright red like i did last time? he'll think im a freak....help!
~Chloe*
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Awww, don't worry about it so much babe. It isn't a big deal. I know, i hate when the person I like knows and I don't really want them to because it isn't a big deal. You probably won't get rejected though because if he checked you out then that shows he has interest. Even if you do it'll be ok. If he talks to you don't worry about it just pretend like it's any other guy and he has no idea that you like him. Relax.
I hope I helped a little.
Much
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Hey guyz!! I'm Ryah-which is short for Mahryah but all my friends call me Ryah so you people can! :) lol Well I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school and I live in Maryland! I love to help people and I try as best as I can and I'm not rude and ignorant like some people on this site! So if anyone wants any help and don't want to post it for the public then send me a message and I'll try and help you! Love yahs!
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Gender: Female Location: MarYLaNd Occupation: SuBwAy BaBy! lol Age: 17 Member Since: October 10, 2004 Answers: 47 Last Update: May 31, 2005 Visitors: 3619
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