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sooo ok dont judge me because im asking this. im completely normal, i just love my boyfriend so much. weve been dating for 2 years and he suffers from schitzophrenia and he refuses to take medication because he hates the way it makes him feel. i feel so horrible 4 him because he is in so much pain and its just getting so much worse. i know he doesnt want to live anymore. yesterday he asked me to kill him and at first i didnt think he was serious but we talked for a while and he said it was the only way or he would do it himself. i dont want him to go to hell for committing suicide so i told him i would kill him so id go to hell instead. i havnt decided if im going to kill myself yet because my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do that. but i dont know if i could deal with the fact i killed the boy im in love with. but what happens if a 16 year old kills another 16 year old who asked her to do it? jail? death penalty? psychiatric center forever? im not crazy im just putting the one i love out of his misery because i cant stand him being in pain any longer. id rather be in pain for him. just wanna know what would happen. dont try to do all that talking out of it and stuff either. wont work. thanks (link)
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you asked me to not try and talk you out of it..well i wont to a point. is this truly love?to kiill the one you love?dont you think that he has schitzophrenia for a purpose?maybe thats his task in life is to be able to get through life with a disability. think about this for one moment. im sure you believe in God from the sounds of you saying you believe in hell and heaven. youll both go to hell because its just like he killed himself because hes asked you to do it and in result you killed him so you took part in the sin. hes talked you into killing him isnt that scuicide??r u sure hes not getting you to kill him just so its easier on himself? Dont think that your saving a life because your taking it away. you dont get to play God here. you dont have a right to take away someones life.
God is ultimately in charge or life, he gives it and takes it away, and we arent the 1st 2 decide when it should begin and end.God knows what hes doing, and evertyhing is done for a purpose
as hard as this is he has done this for a reason, and it will work out!
the solution is definately not killing him!!
there is hope!
In the bible Jeremiah 29 v 11
says that God has given us a future and a hope dont ever forget that!please dont.
Do you understand that hes throwing away all that you both shared. why would he want to die over spending the rest of his life with you?you love eachother then why does he want to leave you?think about this.
Youll be committing murder and thats probibly 25years in jail or life sentence, you cant argue to the court and say he wnated to die because theres no proof of it even if you tried because the the only person that would be able to help you would have been murdered!Dont become a criminal. dont try play the god role because that never works out right. He says he doesnt want you to kill yourself and go to hell but in the end you will because you killed someone else.
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My 16 year old son began using drugs about a year ago. After several groundings, I told him to either follow the rules or he would have to go live with his father (what I assumed to be the ultimate punishment...and that he would be back and ready to follow my rules withing a few days.) He has now been living with his father for two months and will not speak to me because I "kicked him out." I miss him. His father and I do not speak so I don't know if he's getting the help he needs. What should I do? (link)
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what you did was not wrong!in my perspective you did the right thing...my dad sent my brother to prison for a week because he thought it would help him with the addiction...my advice to you is go down and find your son. make a trip to see him and dont leave until youve sorted things out. i mean hes only 16 and probibly thinks being cool is the most important thing in life but when he grows up hel realise that what you were doing is only because you love him. i thank you for being a good mother because i am soo against drug use and i know you know that it can ruin lives. go to his fathers house, sit outside until he answers the door if you have to and just pour your hurt out to your son. tell him how you feel and tell him hoe much you love him etc i dont see it any other way. goodluck :)
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so im trying to loose weight so im planin on eating otmeal and spechal k for a hole week nothing eles whats your thoughts you think i loose weight? (link)
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nothing else???oh man your not going to stick to that at all...and nope that wont help you loose wieght because those are breakfast foods. special K has alot of carbs in them so if you have that for dinner it will make you gain weight..dont do it. you need to have a variety of foods in your meal..eat tuna or salmon for lunch and have special K and oatmeal for breaky then have something light for dinner like maybe more tune...if you eat tuna for a whole week i gaurantee youll loose weight
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Anybody know of some good books? I'm seventeen and a girl and I like romance books and stuff like that but I hate books about popularity and stuff like that. (link)
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Sharing Sam- my favourite book ever its a twisted romance cant tell you much about it of itll give it away but it made me cry and its a book i never wanted to put down. its waaay better than twilight read it 1st!!
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As ashamed as I am too say this, The last time I picked up a book and read the entire thing was 8 years ago.
My question is does anyone know a really good book? Something that isn't a century long lol..
I saw someone suggest "Speak" on another post it sounded very interesting and I will look into that one. However, I like books about reality, Drama, Real life storys not so much romance novels but survival storys or something that someone went through in life. Also if anyone could suggest some really good books related to Anxiety and Depression would be fantastic!
P.S. I have already read all the David Pelzer books.
Thanks! (link)
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I was soo going to suggest the david pelzar books!ok your like me i like sad stories true stories stories i can really relate to and feel for...these are really good boooks,
Sharing sam(reallly good book, short but its one i couldnt put down!)
My sisters keeper(great)
lovely bones(havent read it yet but herd its amazing)
Bastard out of carolina (kina like a child called it)
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i have been trying time and time again to loose weight but it just never works. I am 17 and am pretty big, i have tried walking, pilates and yoga but i dont seem to loose any weight. I dont really have an eating plan, i find it hard to go on them, what if i was to go on one what would i eat?! i really want to be accepted in the community and not looked at differently. i dont seem to have a fast metabolism, how does one raise that? and i know that not eating is NOT the answer so i am prepared to be healthy and loose it the right way. is there any tricks to loosing weight? from celebrities? Any suggestions will be taken on board and will help me :) (link)
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It about proportions. like eating healthy but at the same time eating less. change your diet to eating brown bread (cut down on the bread too as it can make you bloated) and have salmon with lettuce and tomatoes etc..always go for the wholemeal choice because it takes longer to burn so youll feel fuller longer. cut down on all fizzies even diet!because that doesnt help. eat wholemeal pasta for snacks have fruits etc dont eat bananas because that will make you gain weight..mmm what else, its all about making a healthy choice and not eating out so much as well as eatting less...for exercise do squats and lunges theyr sooo great for loosing weight. even though your not moving as much they still get the heart puming and get you toned..PS theres alot of healthy eatting plans online just google them but my advice sums it up pretty much
goodluck
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aright so me and my boyfriends one year anniversary is coming up at the end of the month and i have NO idea what to get him. i've already gotten him a picture frame for christmas and a crap load of clothes, along with a key chain for his graduation. i want it to be something really special but i'm drawing a blank with ideas. any suggestions? thank you!!! (link)
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What i did is got my bf an ID tag bracelet and got it ingraved "ill always love you" and my name on the other side...He really liked it and never took it off... this is what im talking about
http://www.silver--bracelets.com/images/sterling-silver-mans-id-tag-bracelet.gif
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Ok, so my dad called me yesterday and told me he proposed to his girlfriend of a year and I think most kids would be happy but I'm not. This is his FIFTH wife. I think she's cool and all but I know he's gonna end up cheating on her and divorcing her and putting all his kids through this stuff again. What should I do? I tried talking to him about my feelings but he just got mad. Please help me! (link)
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Heeeyy ohh man it must be soo streessful going through all of this!!
Theres nothing you can do except be happy for him. I mean youve tried to approach him and all he does is retaliate and get angry.
What id do is not try and talk him out of getting married but just be like hey dad im really happy for you. i dont want anyone getting hurt so please think really carefully about this before you do anything because i dont want to go through the same hting for the fifth time please. i love you and this is why im telling you this. like make it out as if your being positve about the whole situation and just looking out for him that way he cant argue with that
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So I was raped like a year and a half ago... well the last thing the guy said was if you tell anybody you dont want to know whats gonna happen. Well I ended up telling someone which got me nowhere. I havent had a nightmare about is for a while now and today I woke up and shaking and crying for a dream that he came and got me. He made me call my mom when I had a gun pointed to my head and tell her I love her and I am sorry we wont be able to see each other anymore. Well my mom called the cops and someone ended up stopping him before he shot me.... right before i woke up he said... I will be back. Im so scared and depressed and I thought I moved on? What does this mean? (link)
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OMG what an animal!i am soo sooo soooo sorry that you were put through that!..the person below did some good research and that could be the reason of your dream.
Adding to their advice i think that this dream is wwhat you subconsciencely feel within yourself. you have all this fear bottled in you and all this anger. you wnat to do soemthing and give him what he deserves for what that sick F**** did to you but angain you want to consider your safety first. this is all bottled up inside you so the way your getting rid of this angry and fear is through your dreams.
The reason why your depressed is because that dream felt so real that it had a physical and mental impact on you.
you should see a school counsellor and just talk to him about. befor eyou talk to him just ask him that you want this to stay strictly confedential etc and ofcourse he will keep it that way. It will really help even though you think it wont. you need to let all this sadness, anxiety, fear you need to let it all out.
my question to you is. i know you cant go back intime and retrieve your dignity or stop the rape but what would you do today to protect that girl inside you that was torminted and traumatised from going through anything like that again?how will you protect her today and for the future?
Dont ever think your alone because even a stranger can care for you...im here if you need anything
Hey just updating this...you should add me or email me because from what i gathered from your feedback sounds to me like you have alot more to say. itll be good getting it out.. this is my email
sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
its your choice but i am here for you and you can trust me even if you feel you cant trust anyone else i assure you, you can trust me :)
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Hi there,
Read the second answer from the bottom. It points out the REALLY obvious lies pretty well.
The simple fact of the matter is that he wants a paternity test to prove if he is the father, and she took the child and hid to avoid doing what the law said she has to do.
He can prove in court that there was never an injunction/restraining order against him along with a host of other things that don't add up.
She says that the police and her lawyer say they can't do anything about his site being online and this is completely untrue. I have worked with law enforcement when people have posted questions here that they shouldn't have, and there is ALWAYS something she can do... if any of it were true.
Basically it is like math... the facts simply don't add up. At all. Not even a little. She plays the victim card and tries to rally people to her cause. Most people saw through her garbage, but there are some here who obviously didn't watch the news story where she parades her daughter around like a freak and she put her on the front page of the biggest paper where she lives and made her out to be a little whore.
THEN she gets on here and says he is compromising her safety. How stupid can someone be to believe anything she says after that, right?
Also that sight went up in the wee hours of the morning where she lives, and yet she says the girl is in her room again crying because of this site being up? None of it makes any sense.
Trust me, if she had any case at all... she would be in court. The courts typically favor the mom anyway, so why isn't she there? Simple: Any lawyer at all could have the girl awarded to the father as sole parent simply because the mother has already ruined the child's life with her need to be in the spotlight with that news and TV business.
One of the things about being on this site... you learn quickly to spot BS or you end up giving really bad advice to people.
Hope that answers it all.
DN. (link)
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wow thats osme really good points you bring up!man your good hehe but yeah i didnt read the second part, never read the father wanted a paternity test!
thank youu soo much for clearing that up
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okay i have been married for two years but have been with my husband for four. we have one daughter together and three kids from past marriages (i have one and he has two.) last week i found a message on facebook from him to a girl that was pretty sexually flirtatious. i was furious and he owned up to the e-mail and swore he was sorry and did it in spite over an arguement we had about trust the night before. I am still furious and even though he has apologized a million times, i cant get over it. the girl never read the e-mail and we have banned her from our facebook. can you give me any ideas on how to cope with this? i dont want to leave him over a dumb e-mail...it would devastate our kids! I just want this to pass and go on with our lives, but how do i do that??
thanks
Holly (link)
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well before this issue passes you have to want it to pass you have to truly believe in his apology and truly believe that he didnt mean it. if you still have douts then you theres no point in saying you forgive him because deep down you dont. he sounds like hes really sorry but are you prepared to forgive him?
what id do is talk to him and tell him that he needs to show you how much he cares for you and how much he wants to be forgiven. tell him that you need to know that hes not playing games with you and that he wont ever do it again.
the easiest thing in the end is to just let it go because we re all human and we all make mistakes thats why we were given the ability to forgive..soo breath in the good air and let the bad air out and just know that you make mistakes too..hope this helped
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Hi advicenators,
I'm hoping that someone will read this and know something about what I'm suffering from. I went to the doctor, but didn't get a diagnoses but if anyone on here has had this please please please recommend or suggest something! Any info is great!
Last night, I was sitting and my right lower back started aching. For 5 hours straight I was in excrutaiting pain. I went to the ER but they said it would take about 4 hours before a doctor would see me, so I left. After I came home (about 5 hours into the pain) it finally eased SLIGHTLY and I threw up, after that I was fine.
I've had the same pain before, but it was in my lower left abdomen. It's not ovaries, or cysts and I'm clean, not sexually active or anything. For this pain I recieved an ultrasound but nothing was found wrong. The pain usually lasts 5-6 hours and it's the second time it's happened.
Any ideas?! Please&thank you (link)
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im not a doctor either but i had reallllly bad back pain once and it eased up after a day. like nothing helped me but my mum said i may have poped a muscle or a cold breeze may have hit my lower back causing it to become painful...are you on your period?because that could trigger lower back pain. see a doctor and in the mean time keep your back covered and warm
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Hey,
I met this guy the other night, we were all hanging out at my friends apartment. Anyway, I met this guy and we were talking the whole night. I walked to my friends apartment because it was only like 3 blocks away from where I live. As I was telling everyone I was leaving the guy I was talking to said he was walking me back because he didn't think it was right/safe for me to walk back by myself at 2:00 in the morning. (which I thought was very nice of him considering we just met) So once we got back to my place we just started talking and we were talking for about 2 hours. Like really communicating and just talking about a lot of stuff. I felt like we had an instant connection. He asked if he could have my number and I gave it to him. He also asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said that I didn't, and he said "well why not?" and I laughed and said "I don't know." Then he just smiled. As he was getting ready to leave, we hugged goodbye. About 10-20 minutes later I get a text and it was him saying that he was home and that he had a good time tonight and it was nice meeting me. I said that I had a good time too and that it was nice meeting him as well.
Anyway, he friended me on facebook, and it said "in a relationship with (girls name). And now I don't know what to do. I don't want to break him and his girlfriend up because that's is NOT right. But I feel like we had a connection that could lead somewhere.
I really don't know what I'm asking. Haha, I guess I just don't know why he was asking if I was in a relationship/for my number if he has a girlfriend.
I'd rather not have you say he is a player because he wasn't trying to get in my pants or do anything like that.
oh also, when we were talking whenever my hair would fall infront of my face he would brush it out of my face and just smile and he would just do cute things like that.
And I'm 19 by the way and he is 18. If you needed that info. Also, if this is of any importance: yes it was a party, yes there was alcohol. I was not drinking and he had like a drink or two. (link)
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heeey dont worry i was not thinking he was a player. are you sure that girl wasnt his best friend?
He may have broken up with his girlfriend but non of them wanted to make the first move and change their status to single.
I mean if he asked you if you had a boyfriend then its obvious he likes you alot and its a hint he wants to be with you. he wouldnt of friended you on fb if there was a chance he had a gf because that would risk his gf finding out.
Im sure he felt he had an instant connection with you because he texted you like 10mins later!he must of thought about you the whole way home..awwww cute!
well theres nothing you can do except txt him, open up a converstation and ask him the same question he asked you..does he have a gf? then ask him why if he says no. i wouldnt ask him about the fb status too soon unless your in an indepth conversation with him. just casually pop the question. maybe be like soo whos "name of the girl in his fb satus"
Just take it easy im sure theres an explanation for the status it may not mean hes still with her..
im here if you have anything else to ask hope this helped
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and there is this guy. Well, actually 2 guys One is super nice, and I think he likes me, but I've only known him for about a week. The other guy I've known for a while longer (about a year) and I'm pretty sure he likes me as well. These 2 guys have known each other for a long time, and they never got along. I don't want to ruin my friendship with either of them... but there is a dance coming up at school, and I want to know what to do if they both ask me out. (I kinda like both of them, by the way). What should I do? (link)
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the girl below me said some good advice and if you still cant make up your mind id go for the one youv known longer that way you can trust him and know that hes not wearing a mask because one week is not long enough to know someone and trust them
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my boyfriend and i were carless and got pregnant, we were planning on keeping it but due to complications with the baby its heart stopped and we had to have an abortion.
that was on june 11th ..
for the last four days i have been feeling like im pregnant, like mood swings, lower back pain, and when i take a bite of something it feels like i hate a whole pizza and then 20 minutes later it feels like i havent eaten in days.. that was my worst symptom when i was pregnant and it came back about 4 days ago, my boyfriend and i have been careful we use condoms everytime now except once.. we did the pull out method i have had my period since we did the pull out method.. i havent said anything to anyone because i dont think i could be pregnant again.. let alone its so soon? am i just being paranoid? (link)
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those are syptoms of pregnancy but you may not be pregnant and may have lead yourself to believe you are (just a possibility) but things could happen. was it a normal period?or was it a short period?because soemtimes when your pregnant you can bleed alittle smilar to to a period but usually happens with first pregnancies. But on the other hand my friend thought she was pregnant and had the same symptoms as you do and turned out to not be pregnant.
Just take the test but dont get your hopes up just incase.
goodluck hope it turns out the way you want it
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ok im a 16 and femaile...my bf is 15... im about a week and a half late for my period....we have been having unprotected sex but we didnt do it half as much as we usually do but im late and iv had stomach issues lately but i donno im freaking out could i be pregnant or is it my stomach problems screwing with it? im never 100% regular. i know the stomach issues arent caused by pregnancxy...iv had them for a couple months... i was tested last month and it came back negative but is it possible that this month i got knocked up? please help i dont really know what to do and dont have anyone here to talk to.... thanks..
**Sleepiesheep** (link)
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take another pregnancy test now.. it was too early the last time you took the test. you ment to take the test 10days after your missed period. take it now. if stomach issues are your only symptoms then its likely that your not pregnant but take the test!!!i could be wrong...im here for you if you need talk. Let me know how it goes, goodluckk
19/f/sia
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Okay, so there is this one guy and he likes me and I like him back and I heard he was going to ask me out! I'm really excited about it, but i don't know if i want to say yes because I think he only wants to use me for his pleasure! What should I do? (link)
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if he only wants you for pleasure then he is suing you..you have more than that to offer i mean i bet your beautiful funny creative etc choose a guy that notices all that and more..the pleasure thing will only get you hurt trust me
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hey so im in year 12 and in 2 months i'll be finished school. i have no idea what i want to do as a career when i leave.
but iv always been really good at writing poetry. iv been writing since i was 13 and now im 18 and i have 6 note books full of poems. everyone says im really talented and i want to pulish my poems in a book one day when i have the money.
what should i do? i thougt about being a journalist, but i really want to do something with my peoms because i am really pationate about it and love writing them. i dont think im that good with writing stories so i dont want to be an author or anything but im good at writing my opion and writing poems.
what should i do? take a writing corse? how can i get my poems noticed? i write them in a blog but thats about it. i dont know what to do...
ANY SUGGESTIONS? thanks xxx (link)
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I say get a degree that will help your career in getting your poems noticed. like for now keep your writing as a hobby and maybe go study Arts because poem writing comes under that or take a coarse in poem writing like look at the coarses they have inregards to peom writing...i think it would come under ARts
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nd then i cum and she swallows and shit could she get pregnant from tht (link)
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No she cant dont worry, adding to what the person below me said, the cum goes into her stomach and is broken down by the acids in the stomach.
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A company I work with is starting a magazine and each employee needs to have their own article/column. I need ideas for what kind of colums magazines have so I know what I should write about. Examples are fashion, sports, nutrition, gossip, product review, hair and make up, how to, advice, etc.... I need as many ideas as possible so give me ideas no matter how many I already have please!!! Thank you so much!! (link)
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maybe about the recession??
here in New Zealand we have alot of under staffed hospitals and new graduate doctors without jobs, is there anythign like that around your area like understaffed places but plenty of people applying for the job?
you can talk about teen generations changing.. how now adays everyone is into sex and drugs etc
How violence and murders have risen throughout the past years
is this helping at all?
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