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how do i cope???
okay i have been married for two years but have been with my husband for four. we have one daughter together and three kids from past marriages (i have one and he has two.) last week i found a message on facebook from him to a girl that was pretty sexually flirtatious. i was furious and he owned up to the e-mail and swore he was sorry and did it in spite over an arguement we had about trust the night before. I am still furious and even though he has apologized a million times, i cant get over it. the girl never read the e-mail and we have banned her from our facebook. can you give me any ideas on how to cope with this? i dont want to leave him over a dumb e-mail...it would devastate our kids! I just want this to pass and go on with our lives, but how do i do that??
thanks
Holly
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well before this issue passes you have to want it to pass you have to truly believe in his apology and truly believe that he didnt mean it. if you still have douts then you theres no point in saying you forgive him because deep down you dont. he sounds like hes really sorry but are you prepared to forgive him?
what id do is talk to him and tell him that he needs to show you how much he cares for you and how much he wants to be forgiven. tell him that you need to know that hes not playing games with you and that he wont ever do it again.
the easiest thing in the end is to just let it go because we re all human and we all make mistakes thats why we were given the ability to forgive..soo breath in the good air and let the bad air out and just know that you make mistakes too..hope this helped
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