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Hey,
I met this guy the other night, we were all hanging out at my friends apartment. Anyway, I met this guy and we were talking the whole night. I walked to my friends apartment because it was only like 3 blocks away from where I live. As I was telling everyone I was leaving the guy I was talking to said he was walking me back because he didn't think it was right/safe for me to walk back by myself at 2:00 in the morning. (which I thought was very nice of him considering we just met) So once we got back to my place we just started talking and we were talking for about 2 hours. Like really communicating and just talking about a lot of stuff. I felt like we had an instant connection. He asked if he could have my number and I gave it to him. He also asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said that I didn't, and he said "well why not?" and I laughed and said "I don't know." Then he just smiled. As he was getting ready to leave, we hugged goodbye. About 10-20 minutes later I get a text and it was him saying that he was home and that he had a good time tonight and it was nice meeting me. I said that I had a good time too and that it was nice meeting him as well.
Anyway, he friended me on facebook, and it said "in a relationship with (girls name). And now I don't know what to do. I don't want to break him and his girlfriend up because that's is NOT right. But I feel like we had a connection that could lead somewhere.
I really don't know what I'm asking. Haha, I guess I just don't know why he was asking if I was in a relationship/for my number if he has a girlfriend.
I'd rather not have you say he is a player because he wasn't trying to get in my pants or do anything like that.
oh also, when we were talking whenever my hair would fall infront of my face he would brush it out of my face and just smile and he would just do cute things like that.
And I'm 19 by the way and he is 18. If you needed that info. Also, if this is of any importance: yes it was a party, yes there was alcohol. I was not drinking and he had like a drink or two.
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heeey dont worry i was not thinking he was a player. are you sure that girl wasnt his best friend?
He may have broken up with his girlfriend but non of them wanted to make the first move and change their status to single.
I mean if he asked you if you had a boyfriend then its obvious he likes you alot and its a hint he wants to be with you. he wouldnt of friended you on fb if there was a chance he had a gf because that would risk his gf finding out.
Im sure he felt he had an instant connection with you because he texted you like 10mins later!he must of thought about you the whole way home..awwww cute!
well theres nothing you can do except txt him, open up a converstation and ask him the same question he asked you..does he have a gf? then ask him why if he says no. i wouldnt ask him about the fb status too soon unless your in an indepth conversation with him. just casually pop the question. maybe be like soo whos "name of the girl in his fb satus"
Just take it easy im sure theres an explanation for the status it may not mean hes still with her..
im here if you have anything else to ask hope this helped
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