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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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Ok Well For My Schools Cheerleading Team Our Uniform Tops Are Short , And They Show Past Our Belly Buttons, And I Dont Rillie Wnat To Show Off My Tummy.How Could I Loose 20 Pounds Buy Mothers Day ? And Also I Am Very Pale, And Everyone Else On My Team Is Very Taned , What Could I Do To Get A Tan So I Dont Stand Out So Much , And Look Like Im Very Ill All The Time?

hey, well for loosing weight i think that you should go to the local ymca. there is plently pf excercising equipment there, a running track, and muscle building classes. as for tanning, there are a few options. a) bed/booth tanning, b) spray tanning, or c) tanning lotions. if your looking for a drastic change, try bed or booth tanning. you might burn at first, so check with the clerk for how long you should go before you do that. a little change would be spray tanning. now spray tanning can be amazing, depending on where you go. sometimes it will make you complelty orange, so thats something youll have to chance. if you want to try the tanning lotion, its the same as the spray tanning. you could get totally orange. i would use a trusted brand if your gonna go for that.

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/sort/?cgnbr=OSSUNTANZZZ&rfnbr=3391

there are some tanning lotions [self tanners] and bronzers.

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what are some good quotes about being like young and crazy or living life to the fullest or always having fun(that arent too cheezy) that i could put on my myspace? or quotes about being young? thanks

hey, try http://www.wittyprofiles.com another site is http://www.xanga.com on xanga you have to look for the word blogrings and click it. in the space provided, type in quotes.

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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out?

hey, well you shouldnt care of what people think. you need to be true to yourself and if the truth is that you like him and want to be with him, than so be it. just tell them all teh good qualities that he has and that if they were really your friends they would want what is best for you.

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14/f
So, I'm getting a haircut on Friday. I really want something new and different, but not TOO different, know what I mean? I want to look good, not weird. This is what my hair is now: dirty blonde( I hate saying my hair is 'dirty' but that's really the best way to describe it) usually straightened, about 3 inches past my shoulders, with chinlength pieces framing my face, as in bangs from fifth grade that never totally grew out. Totally boring, right? So, basically, I want you guys to give me some new, exciting styles that aren't too weird. Oh, and no extensions, my mom would never let me. As for length, I want it shoulder-length or longer, because I like good ponytails. Oh, one more thing that might help: I have an oval-shaped face. If you can find pictures of the style you describe, that would be great, but words work too. Thanks in advance!

hey, why not go for a perm. those are always fun and flirty. also get some blonde highlights, to make your hair blonder. as for your little long pieced bangs, those have to go. since they wont grow out, cut them into side bangs.

http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&q=side%20bangs&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&um=1&sa=N&tab=wi

anyone of those is fine.

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how do i make a suggestion to the aol / aim people for aim mail? i went to aim.com / aol.com but i couldn't find a feedback page or something! please send me to the actual site, dont just say "go to this... then this..." i get really confused. thanks!

hey, they have aim mail. when i sign on it tells me how many messages that i have. once you chose a screen name, that becomes your emial adress. say your screen name was "iloveyouxo" your email adress would be iloveyouxo@aim.com if that doesnt work for you, go to http://www.downloads.com and download the newest aim.

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Ok, Well About 2 Months Ago I Started Cutting Myself(Dont Wory I Stoped 4 Good) And I Told My Friend, And Then The Next Day She Comes To School And Shes All Like Look I Cut Myself Too. We All Know Shes Doing It 4 Attention But We Cant Get Her To Stop, And She Dose It Non Stop And Rillie Badly,She Always Tells Us Shes Gonna Stop But She Never Dose And She Keeps On Doing It, And Its All Up Her Arms. And To Top This Of She Has And Eating Disorder, I Dont Know What To Do. She Went To The Docter About The Eating Disorder , But She Wont Tell her Dad. I Dont Know What To Do Cuz Its Getting Rillie Bad =[

hey, well if she wont tell her father, you have to. woudlnt you feel awful if something bad happened to her and you didnt tell anyone or do something to help her. i think so.

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I want to tan this summer. I want try not get burnt and yet wear sunsreen. I have very very ight skin and burn easy. but thing is i put aloe on if i get burnt then next day my skin same color. anyway I was wondering. how long should stay out in the sun and how many mins. plus what time of day be better.
Thanks

hey, well burning just to get tan is dangerous. i did that before and the results were painful. i developed a "sun blister".

http://img.cba.mit.edu/browse/060406_MITRC_practice/DSCF1091_amy_blister.jpg

that thing on her foot is what i had on my shoulder. it was very painful and i couldnt sleep well for days, because to lay on it hurt. you need to tan the right way. wear sunblock with a pretty good spf. dont wear tanning oil. it attracts the sun way to much. go out there at about 12 noon. take breaks in between to avoid sunburns. some alternatives would be to spray tanning, bed tanning, or tanning lotion. if you want more information about either of those three things, leave me a message and i would definately like to help you.

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I am 4'11. and wish I was 5.2 how I get taller

hey, haha this question is so stupid. you cant be taller. the only thing thats going to help you is time. time might not even do the trick. wear high shoes. thats all you can do.

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ok so i have been stretching more often for the last few days but im not as flexible as i used to be. well cheerleading tryouts r coming up and i dont know how to do a back hand spring or toe touch or anything all i know how to do is cartwheels do u know any website or have any advise on ways i can learn those and to get a little skinnier i forgot to mention im a tiny bit over wight please and thankyou in advance

xoxo meganlynn

hey, well why not enroll in some tumbling classes? you should look in the phonebook or on google for a location near you. as for getting fit, eat healthy and join a gym.

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heyy im fifteen and i was just wondering what do most guys look for in a girl? I know that every guy is different but it cant be THAT different.

like girls want a guys whos nice, funny, and not messed up.

i dont really understand what guys want and its annoying haha. Personality? or Face?

This is Me: brown hair, grayish eyes, like 3/4 asian, not fat not skinny. and
my personality: i laugh a lot(at a lot of stupid things...), to say the truth i can make fun of people but in a funny way (who doesn't),i can be serious and im not stupid, i might be lacking the fact that i can be sweet,im sometimes sarcastic, i get nervous easily.

i like this guy, and im just wondering what guys look for in a girl. Ditzy girls? funny girls? nice people? Immature girls?
slutty ones? pretty ones? sexy ones?

THanks

hey, this question is way to hard to answer because it varies so much. guys want different things. what they want depends on there personality. dont change for anyone or any guy. stay true to yourself and eventually you will find a guy that will love every little detail about you. it may take some time. it could happen next year or five years from now. just wait it out.

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i know i keep asking this question but i cant help it. it just hurts so much. i told my best frind i liked him. he was so flirty and everthing he led me on. and then when he found out that i thought he felt the same way about me he told me that he doesnt want a girlfriend. and when i directly asked him if he liked me he said no. but that was last month so much has happened since. when someone asked if i still liked him i said no rite in front of him. im not sure if he cared or not. but he still always flirts with me to the point where other people tell him not to. they think that he is hurting me by doing so. also there is another girl that likes him. she is in our group of friends. he knows about her liking him. i have never seen him flirt with her though. he will always flirt with me in public. he tells me he loves me but im sure he doesnt mean in a romantic kind of way. i value our friendship so much. he makes me so happy. m not sure what i should do at this point. i know he doesnt want commitment. i know he doesnt like anyone. i know he sees me as his sister rather than a girlfriend because he doesnt want a gf. but i cant help wondering if he would date me if he wasnt afraid of commitment. should i tell him that i like him or should i just try to get over him? he has no idea i still like him because i was trying to play hard to get, though im not sure that worked either. please anyone. im tired of thinking about him sooo much and then knowing that he will never like me.

thanx

hey, alright well you have to do what you think is best for you. if you can handle being just strictly on that friends only status, then go for it. if you cant handle it and just keep on wanting him, than i dont think that its the best for you. i think if thats the case that its just better to stay away from him all together. yes, its going to be hard to do and hard for you to get over, but youll be so much happier in the long run. you dont want to continue teasing yourself.

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ok im a 14 year old, but i get scared at night and i can barely sleep alone in my room, or take a shower without someone in the next room with the door open... does anyone know someone like me, and what should i do to get over it? and do you think i ever WILL get over it?

hey, i used to be like that too. what i did was put on the radio while i went into the shower. that way i could sing and keep my mind off of being scared. as for going to bed at night, a night light is always an option. leaving the door open while you sleep is an idea. leaving on a radio or a tv always helps too.

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How can I stop being so paranoid? I care too much about the motives of others, and if they're talking about me, etc. I'm so paranoid when I like guys, too, and it messes with my head and distorts everything.
Please help, I'm desperate and miserable.

hey, heres a link i think would help you.

http://www.depression-guide.com/paranoia.htm

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For your pictures, how do you get one below the other? Like, if I wanted to take an icon from photobucket and put it underneath my first picture, how do I do that?

hey, you copy the picture code from photobucket and put it where you would put a saying under the picture on myspace : ].

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16/f. I'm still in love with my ex. We broke up at the beginning of June. The break-up wasn't entirly my fault, but I do take a lot of the blame. And I know that if we were to get back together, I would change so much and I would work so hard at it and try to make it last. One problem: the day we broke up he got a girlfriend and they are still together. And she is one of my friends, kind of. But I love him so much, and I want to tell him. I just don't know how to tell him, if I do. I don't know what to say or anything. And he is my best friend and I would hate to lose him if I do tell him. We have gone through a lot in the past and we are fine, it's just right now I don't know. I don't want to lose him. But this is driving me crazy, I just don't know what to do.

hey, well i totally disagree with the advice below. i think that if you guys are basically best friends, you wouldnt want to ruin that by telling him. that would be putting him in a position to chose who he likes. im guessing he would pick his girlfriend. then he would get into the situation of not wanting to hurt you. i would wait it out. if hes still with his girlfriend now, then they must have something special. most of all, you love this guy. when you love someone, you want the best for them and want them to be happy. im pretty sure that he must be happy with his relationship with his girlfriend if hes still with her. if there relationship is ended, than you can tell him how you feel. also the same day you broke up with him, he got a new girlfriend? whats up with that? it seems like he was waiting for the breakup to be with her. you should look into that if your going to get back into a relationship with him.

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i need a dress but i don't wanna spend a lot but it has to be really cute. and by a lot i mean 120-150. does anyone know some good stores i can look at online?

hey, well knowing your style would have really helped.

http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&Page=all

if your a fashionista, those dresses are the best way to go.

http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewInCat.asp?catid=110

pick a cateogory on those dresses. those ones are pretty much girly, but theres probably something there for everyone.

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I have a really bad toothache. Its been going on and off for about a month. I went to the dentist and the guy said it was because of my braces, I KNOW ITS NOT. The guy wasnt even my regular dentist. But anyways, is there anyways to get rid of it without having to take medicine or use anbesol or stuff like that?

hey, i believe that they sell tooth ache medicine at like cvs, walgreens, etc. im pretty sure that you can just buy it without a prescription.

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I have this friend hes like my best buddy we have the greatest time together(well that how i feel it) umm i feel great around him, when he hugs me i just dont wanna let go of him... I think i like him..but i think its wrong to like him because he has a gf which is my friend also (well we talk sometimes)..but yeah i feel bad...oh yeah and i get jeaulous when i see them together but i know its wrong to feel that way...but i cant help it.. he once told me he felt attracted to me (like 2 weeks ago actually).. but i dont know if he was being serious...i dont know what to do.. should I keep liking him,tell him about my feelings, forget about him or what should I do??? please help me!!

hey, well since he has a girlfriend right now, i would lay low. you wouldnt want to interfer with anything even if he claims to like you. its just ride and disrespectful to talk to someone [in a liking way] who has a girlfriend. once hes free and single, you can make a move and flirt as much as you want. if you want flirting tips for then, go to http://www.links2love.com

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I love this song.

"die slowy" by hit the lights.
but i cant find it anywhere to download.
but its on myspace.

can someone please help?
ive tried limewire.

hey, try http://www.musicplaylist.net

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Does anyone on this site have synesthesia? I need to write about it and i want to ask someone with it a few questions.

hey, you could always google it.

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