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getting over
i know i keep asking this question but i cant help it. it just hurts so much. i told my best frind i liked him. he was so flirty and everthing he led me on. and then when he found out that i thought he felt the same way about me he told me that he doesnt want a girlfriend. and when i directly asked him if he liked me he said no. but that was last month so much has happened since. when someone asked if i still liked him i said no rite in front of him. im not sure if he cared or not. but he still always flirts with me to the point where other people tell him not to. they think that he is hurting me by doing so. also there is another girl that likes him. she is in our group of friends. he knows about her liking him. i have never seen him flirt with her though. he will always flirt with me in public. he tells me he loves me but im sure he doesnt mean in a romantic kind of way. i value our friendship so much. he makes me so happy. m not sure what i should do at this point. i know he doesnt want commitment. i know he doesnt like anyone. i know he sees me as his sister rather than a girlfriend because he doesnt want a gf. but i cant help wondering if he would date me if he wasnt afraid of commitment. should i tell him that i like him or should i just try to get over him? he has no idea i still like him because i was trying to play hard to get, though im not sure that worked either. please anyone. im tired of thinking about him sooo much and then knowing that he will never like me.
thanx
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I'm in the exact same situation. I mean, this question sounds like I could have written it! So I'll tell you what I keep telling myself. Give it time! Try ignoring him sometimes and pretending you're not interested. Guys hate it when they don't get attention. But... don't totally run away... that would probably be too hard anyway! But make him miss you. Give him reasons to think about you. It'll keep his interest. Be mysterious. Play mind games. Don't treat him like a brother or like family. Treat him like he's the one in love with you. lol... idk... I'm just throwing out random ideas. Good luck though! I mean it! I feel for ya!
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one word for u ... KISS him. see what his reaction is!
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hey, alright well you have to do what you think is best for you. if you can handle being just strictly on that friends only status, then go for it. if you cant handle it and just keep on wanting him, than i dont think that its the best for you. i think if thats the case that its just better to stay away from him all together. yes, its going to be hard to do and hard for you to get over, but youll be so much happier in the long run. you dont want to continue teasing yourself.
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