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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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how do you get the picture url?? i went on myspacegens.com and it asks me for that, b/c tried to put a pic of my friend up on my myspace.

write click on the pic
press properties
find where it says url and highlight it , copy it and then paste the url


and the person that gave the first answer is wrong, thats for "html" codes

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i really miss my friend. the thing is that since we've stopped talking (like, TWO MONTHS TOPS) she's gotten really popular. she's always with people. so i'm afraid to text or call her in case she's with soebody. if i finally do work up the courage to call her, what should i say? we didn't really get into a fight, just some stuff happened and she was weird around me so we stopped making contact.

you're just growing apart and it is natural and i felt like this once too but in my opnion let go, why is she so popular anyway, and if she did care she would come up to you and hung with you but she dosnt.Talk to her if you want, and ask to go shopping ,but in my opnion i know i would waste my time with a friend who forgets me and acts weird around me.Hang around with other people who arent as popular and WANT to hang with.But i might be wrong so if you really want this weight lifted off your shoudlers, go talk to her and forget the others and just ask her if you want to go out somewhere together.

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Bear with me, I'm very clueless.
There is this song called "bounce".. I'm pretty sure. It's about 2 or 3 years old and it goes somewhat like this.
Bounce bounce, bounce bounce
boogie woogie to the bigalow beat
keep it movin dont refuse it just feel the music here
bounce bounce, bounce bounce
boogie woogie to the bigalow beat
get busy do you feel the funk with me
im runnin do u wanna run with me
theres another verse here I forget
bounce bounce, bounce bounce
boogie woogie to the bigalow beat *I'm not sure they say that last line again.*
and this is all I can remember
I know my lyrics are way off, but if you know which song it is you'll hopefully get it.
I think it's by a spanish group because they say "hasta la manyonez" or see you in the morning, or tomorrow in spanish *I know I'm really bad at this sorry*
It's a video and there are a lot of people dancing in it. If you could tell me the name of this group and the name of the song that would be awesome.
Thanks!


It's by Fatty Koo

http://www.completealbumlyrics.com/lyric/126715/FATTY+KOO+-+Bounce.html



http://youtube.com/watch?v=th3MSzBp1HE

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ok... 1 of my best friends is a guy and he asked me to have sex and give him a blow job and everything he knows i got a boyfriend and he said he didn't care nd that he would kick his ass i don't want to and he does he is having hes friends follow me and stolk me fir a long time it is getting crippy should i jusst give up or should i fight strong

he is NO best friend.

Tell your boyfriend and be with someone at all times.Talk to your so called best friend and tell him your going to go to the police if he dosnt stop it.Dont give up that just horrible, thats like...rape.

Tell your boyfriend and have your phone on you at all times, make sure there is credit.

If you havnt got a "rape" emergancy alarm go get one.They are incredibly important.

You really really need to tell your boyfriend - he'll be SO SO protective and tell this best friend to get loss...fight strong and dont give in.

ps: it might be an idea if you go to school/work get someone to go home with you or something.
Tell your parents as well

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I'm 14/f

I have a really small chest and I wear the bras that like don't have bra cups and I wan't to know what the smallest size cup bra you can get. Because i think i'm growing out of the ones i have now but i'm not sure if the cup bras will be to big on me.

28a/2aa

i wear them and I'm nearly 14.

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my little sister {like a sister} is 11 and said she wants to have sex with a guy who is sixteen and is willing to pay her i told her no but she did anyway she is no pregnet and still is having sex she is always been very pretty and a sweet girl but then she started doing drugs like oxy cotten, midol{doesn't need it yet}coke, weed ect. when is enough enough

Ok First off.


She might just be lying to you about all this stff, unless you've seen it foryou self..

Talk to her and tell her stop and if she dosnt your going to tell her mum and get that boy arressted...but

you should still tell her parents and get him in prison, how dirty and filthy this is...she is 11 years of age.......

Talk to the 11 yr old...and just anyway...make her booklet on what sex and drugs could do to you and write a little note how upset you are and give it to her...maybe it will make her think about what she is doing.go to her parents and talk to her before they go shouting and raving.
enough is enough....

and if she still dosnt care...it will come back to her and she'll end up pregant and he just wont care.

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Odd question, what are some recently popular shoes (ones that can be worn every day/with jeans.)?

Dolly shoes are just extemeley popular.
And elf/ankle boots.

But dolly shoes are to die for

boots
http://www.asos.com/Bow-Ankle-Boot/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=128857&cid=1432

dolly shoes
http://www.asos.com/Curl-Ballet-Pump/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=140303&cid=1434

Converses

http://www.converse.com/index.asp?bhcp=1

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Am I skinny yet?

http://i12.tinypic.com/4dvpqtz.jpg

you are too skinny....i think you are annorexic, go seek some mediucal help because its unhealthy and unnactractive...............that is not nice.

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I love dancing especially hip-hop.. but i'd really like to find an online video that teaches me the steps to some really good songs (goodies by ciara?) but i cant find it does anyone know where i could find a "step by Step video"?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=rtZi7zlnDeA

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hey everyone! please recomend your favorite song. i need a new myspace song seeing as the old got deleted. umm songs with lyrics dealing with heartbreak would be best. rock or pop would also be good. thanx

heartbreaker - mariah carey
we ride - rhianna
me myelf and i - beyonce
I'ma do it right - 3lw (SOOOO GOOOOOOOOD)

http://youtube.com/watch?v=663Qo1cJIFo

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where can i find a shirt someone like this???

http://www.haydenpanettierepictures.com/gallery/1/hayden-panettiere-148

Some similar ones

http://www.warehouse.co.uk/pws/ProductDetails.ice;jsessionid=7828D16EAB074B89F5429DAB20848A5A.WareHouseAS2?ProductID=3393

http://www.asos.com/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=148719&cid=-1

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ok, well, i hate the way i look
my face is too chubby, my eyes are too small, and im pretty much just ugly
i dont thik any guy would ever go out with me, becuase i am not exactly skinny, but im not fat
i dont know what i could do to make me more attractive
like, i parted my hair different one day, and i guess it helped, but i still dont know
what should i do?

Who ever said that all guys only like small skinny girls, test shows anyway men like bigger woman than skinny with no meat.

But if it is making you unhappy, cut back on what you wat,drink some water.

To widen the eyes use some eyeliner,

starighten/curl your hair
maybe
plaits
french plaits
bunches
just a headband.

Theres so much you can do.
Go for it

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13,female,australian: At school i have a normal amount of friends and they are all good to me. I am making friends with some of the other kids in my grade and they are nice to me too. i usually sit with them because my other friends dont save me a seat, and i dont think they like me hanging out with the other kids. the other kids are natasha, talisha and a couple of boys (robert, jake and michael [i have a crush on michael]) during class everyone will be talking on my table and i will say something, but no one will hear me, so i say it again and no one answers. It really annoys me. Once i walked up to them and said hi but they didnt answer, so i said hi and they didnt answer again, so i said bye and walked away, i looked back and they didnt seem to notice me and they kept talking. I was pretty sad about that so i was acting sad all day (i didnt mean to) then natasha askted me what was wrong. I said nothing because i didnt want to tell her. she really confuses me, first she will act like i dont exist, next she will be talking and listening to me. I cant talk to anyone about this so i had to tell someone. please answer my question: what should i do to make them notice me more?

Get tough.Get some backbone and ask your friends why are they ignoring you.But if you think they're just lying to you...forget them and get on with your life.Dont let them hold you back.Take up some actvities with your other mates and go out with them and have a great time.But your friends are probs upset because your spending time with other people which is ok.Your other mates dont like them.And that is their problem.But i guarentee at the end of the day...once you've talked to them and go on with what your doing, you'll be the noticed,comfortable happy one with your mates like rob,jake,mich.And if you'd really like to take your minds off things confinde in someone like micheal, so you can become closer and be happier because your with someone you like.

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My brother is graduating college in a little while. He's 22 turning 23 this year. & my parents asked me for suggestions as to what to get him, as a graduation gift. Any suggestions?
PS. not a car.
Thank you in advance

First make him a photoalbum from when he first started his life till now to show him how much he has grown up and how proud you are of him.

Get him so special aftershave and a nice keyring.
Any Rings or books or jewellery he likes?
Make.Get him a cd too.

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15 f
Ok you guys might think I'm crazy but...
I have a huge crush on zac efron. Yes the celebrity. He's so hott. Its like I can't control myself. I have so many posters of him. I find myself thinking a lot about him. Like I even have dreams about him. And no I'm not crazy. I have a boyfriend and sometimes I wish I was kissing zac. Its crazy right?. What's wrong with me. Also, you know that new video vanessa hudgens has with zac efron called say ok. I got really jelous. I just want to meet him so badly. What should I do?. Do you think vanessa and zac will go out or like eachother?. I can't stop thinking about him. Its like if I've meet him before. I don't know. help please.
Also, is there anyway I can meet him? And do you know any good acting agencies around newyork like queens or manhattan. Thanks in advance.
Ps I'm not crazy I swear!

Many girls are the same as you....and it's ok to have this crush but at the end of the day..there are very small chances of you meeting him....think about all those girls that love him too.And Vanessa And Zac are not going out and to tell you the truth .....ashley and zac are getting a bit over friendly....you are obessing over him.And I think you need to crontoll your feelings...take a day off , take the posters down , get rid of any sign of him, stay in your room for a whole day and relax.The only way you could meet him is auditiong for high school musical 2 or being at a interview signing or something..there are millions of people with the same dream as you and not to sound rude, the chancs of you meeting with him is not that big.Dont get into agencies just go to little drama clubs and aution for stuff.Its like love really..if your spending all your time searching for fame and trying to meet him, you'll never find the chance.Just do little actvity and things will come your ways.But girl you need to get over him your way to obessive and lets face with dont KNOW them the only way to know them is to be there friend, and that guys that you see in pictures is not the person whos alone with his mates or ashley....I think you should make a photoalbum of him , and one your family,bf and you,and just take all the posters down and just put them in a photo album.Write in a journal what your feeling about life and zac then flick through the pages and see for yourself how crazy the crush is.

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Well, a lot of my friends in real life are the type of people that take a picture of everything and stick it on their MySpaces. So obviously they take a lot of their friends.

And in every pic I'm either smiling or poking my tongue out and that gets quite boring after a while. What are some cool/funny/entertaining camera poses I can do?

Ok I love posing soo

You can

Dont look at the camera look up somewhere else and pull and innocent face.


Put your finger by the corner of your lip and grin cheekily.

Open your mouth really wide and be shocked

Put both hands like in the film oliver when he asks for more, turn them a bit outwards and put it under your chin

Do peace signs,or make a "gun" with one finger and put it under your chin..

Or do the gun thing back to back with your mates.

Cheekily put your hands on your cheeks and be like "oh noooo".

Theres a lot of things to do


http://www.noolmusic.com/blogs/Girls_Women_Females_Chicks_Babes_Hotties_-_Pretty_Girl_Poses.shtml

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PLEASE give me an example of a metaphor that's easy to illustrate. It's for a project due tomorrow, and even though I've looked it up on Yahoo I still can't find a good one. Thanks!

tina duh is wrong she did a simile!!

A metaphor is like

My brother is a pig

or

The world is a human chain


Just do something like

My personalitity is fire (because i get angry all the time)

you could draw the words that describe the anger and put it in the fire (draw a fire)

or draw fire as your hair.

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k, im in 9th grade and i have to wake my 8 year old brother up for school and he never gets up when i tell him to. what can i do to make him get up the first or atleast the second time i tell him too?

get him an alarm
be strict and make a consquence
if he dont care
pour water
or wake him up bang on a pot
or just gently
put some music on
15mins
before he wakesup so he is half awake.

Make him a hot drink and put it by his bed too.

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ok,i have two bestfriends Aimee and Vanessa, the thing is both of them live in gigogantic houses,both parents togehter,money,everything that i dont well ok i have the looks and attitude but the thing is i always get jealous.its not good for me to feel this way but its hard not to.I dont want to jeapordise our friendships because their lives are better,but what do i do? i dont want to feel this way!!

Hey.It is ok to feel like this.
and there is nothing i can say to acutally physcially stop you from feeling this but what i will say is

that your charectistics and your family are worth more than money,money cannot by anything like that.You,your family and friends are way better and are priceless.....and I'm sure that your friends think that your worth more than a lousy car or house....money is powerful but i bet their parents can't buy your personaltity or your looks.

Just because they have more things dosnt mean they have a better value of life than you i mean what would your rather

money or someone you can relate,love,trust or have fun with???Money cant do that stuff with you..............

you are unique and special and there is something about your that makes you different.That thing is something noone will ever take away from you and don't ever forget that your specialness is 100% more important that money and houses.

You go out there and you use your talents

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Ok so my school is having this medeival times thing and i was picked to be queen.

i REALLY need to find a blinged out dress[haha] you know...how the queen dresses? not TOO expensive because i`m only going to wear it once.
i also need a crown to go with it... [optionall]
THANKS!!!
i`m a raterr.

THANK YOU!!
PLEASE HELP ME.

Hey you dont need to bribe me with rates!!

Here you go :


http://www.sillyjokes.co.uk/dress-up/fancy/value-womens/medieval/index.html


http://www.jokingaround.co.uk/search.php?keywords=medieval+dress

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