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my bestfriend


Question Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 1:56 am

ok... 1 of my best friends is a guy and he asked me to have sex and give him a blow job and everything he knows i got a boyfriend and he said he didn't care nd that he would kick his ass i don't want to and he does he is having hes friends follow me and stolk me fir a long time it is getting crippy should i jusst give up or should i fight strong

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mrpokie answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 12:31 am:
get your boyfriend involved. get your boyfriends friends involved. threaten with police. if he keeps it up tell the school. the pure humiliation of people pointing at you and saying 'thats the kid who keeps trying to do it with (your name)' would suck pretty bad. theres numorous things to do. just make sure you have some sort of protection with you (well condoms i guess lol but by protection i mean a phone to call someone or a sharpened pencil to use in case of assault.. pencils/pens are good b/c they hurt like crap and they arent suspicious or forbidden)

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TruleyMe answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 9:35 pm:
talk to your boyfriend if you honestly dont want to then your boyfriend should have no problem... the two of you can work it out together and your boyfriend can fight strong with you

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lookitslorin answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 11:23 am:
FIGHT STRONG GIRL. If he is a real "friend" he would NEVER ask you to do these things. & having his friends stalk you is very creepy. Tell your boyfriend everything. He deserves to know. Then, tell your "so-called-friend" to stop, that you aren't friends anymore, & he needs to lay off. If that dosen't work, you know you can always go to an adult figure.

Hope I helped. :)

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feel_the_burn answered Sunday April 1 2007, 4:24 pm:
you should tell that "friend" of yours, that you dont want to and that you have a boyfriend

hes probably just wanting you to be a "friend with benefits"

he sounds like an ass, so i would just completely stop talking to him

fight strong, dont give in to his peer pressure for doing stuff you dont want

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crissx33 answered Sunday April 1 2007, 3:20 pm:
ok he obviously is not a good friend. leave him. and tell your boyfriend right away. maybe he could help or do something. hes a jerk. and if you do do it. it could be considered rape becuase you didnt want to do it. just tell someone or your boyfriend

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mariahwannabe answered Sunday April 1 2007, 12:41 pm:
he is NO best friend.

Tell your boyfriend and be with someone at all times.Talk to your so called best friend and tell him your going to go to the police if he dosnt stop it.Dont give up that just horrible, thats like...rape.

Tell your boyfriend and have your phone on you at all times, make sure there is credit.

If you havnt got a "rape" emergancy alarm go get one.They are incredibly important.

You really really need to tell your boyfriend - he'll be SO SO protective and tell this best friend to get loss...fight strong and dont give in.

ps: it might be an idea if you go to school/work get someone to go home with you or something.
Tell your parents as well

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DeadMemories answered Sunday April 1 2007, 12:35 pm:
This guy sounds like more of a "player" than a best friend. If he doesn't leave you alone you can file a lawsuit against him. You also need to tell your parents or like YG said, call the police.

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karenR answered Sunday April 1 2007, 11:32 am:
He isn't one of your best friends or he wouldn't be doing this to you. If he continues tell your parents
and have them call the police. They will set him straight in a hurry. :)

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