My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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Well, me and my boy have been together for awhile now and I reallyREALLY want to give him a blowjob. The thing is I have no idea HOW to give one. Or how to make it pleasureable for him.So any tips? : ] I'll rate. (link)
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The person below me posted some really good points but the best thing to do is just ask him what he likes. If he wants it done right...he'll tell you. Communication is really important with things like oral sex...or sex in general. Just take cues from him on what feels good and let him know he can give you advice while you're down there.
Have fun!
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How do i know when i am cumming? Or having an orgasim (link)
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If you have an orgasm...you'll just KNOW, trust me.
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alright so i was just wondering if you havent started your period yet is it still okay to have sex. Is it still possible that you could get pregnant? thanks (link)
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The person below me is right...but if you're not old enough to get your period, you shouldn't be having sex.
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my boyfriend wears too much cologne but i don't know how to tell him! i do NOT want to come straight out and tell him "you wear too much" he just needs to know somehow. how can i let him know that? (link)
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Making a joke about it like the others said is a really good idea...especially if your boyfriend isn't sensitive about stuff like that. Here's another idea:
If you're ever with him and he doesn't have on cologne or right after he gets out of the shower or something...comment on how you like his natural scent. If he's paying attention, he'll probably get the hint.
For example, he just gets out of the shower (no cologne)...wrap your arms around him and say "Mm, I love the way you smell like this" into his ear. It could also initiate a heavy make-out session if you do it right. ;)
Hope that helps!
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Ok well i want to go easter show this thursday and im 14 turning 15 lols and i really want to go but my parents wont let me there to scared to let me go with my bestfriend tey think soem will happen tome ii told them gimie the phone nuthing will haoen just clal me and check up no any advice on ehat ii can say to them please (link)
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In order to get your parents' trust is to earn you. You have to show them that you're responsible and can handle certain situations.
My parents are a little strict with certain things if I'm going to be around older guys, so I know what you mean about this.
Another idea is to talk to your parents and let them know that you're smart and you know not to act stupid or make wrong decisions. You're young, but not young enough to not know how to behave at a dance.
Hope that helps!
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My only strengths in school are English and History. So for college, which is two years away, I suppose I'd go with an English major. My worry though, is what exactly can I do with that. I don't want to be constrained to just writing articles all the time.
What else can be done with an English major? (link)
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In my high school they make us choose majors as Freshman and we have to fill certain requirements in order to graduate. I chose English because at the time I wanted to be a writer. After I figured out that I can't write well to save my life, I decided I wasn't going to pursue that major in college. However, I did a lot of research on what one can do with an English major, and this is what I got out of it:
-Teacher
-Journalist
-Author
-Reporter
-Editor/Proofreader
There are, I'm sure a few other things, but I do know that an English major will help you with a lot of different majors, but if you're looking for jobs with good money after college, consider minoring in something else that could help you get a job.
Oh, and just because you're only good at English and History in school doesn't mean you can't do well in college with other things. Just think about what you can imagine yourself doing in life, go to collegeboard.com and research careers and majors that go with that career. That website can be SO helpful when planning for college and beyond.
I hope that helps!
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Does doing taebo help with your abdominals? (link)
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Taebo is a wonderful workout. It gets your heart rate up without making you feel like you're going to die and it works every part of your body imaginable. Billy Blanks is a genius.
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15/f
I have heard about those sunless spray on tans available in tanning salons. The type where you are misted with the solution (not a bottled take-home kind). I was wondering, do they work well? Are some kinds better than others? What do you wear?
Thanks, any information is appreciated! =) (link)
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I am getting a Mystic Tan on Friday for my prom and I went on the website to watch the instruction video. The person below me is right, but if you do a Mystic Tan you'd go in there completely naked. The bronzer can stain clothes.
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my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!! (link)
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The chance that she is pregnant given the fact that you didn't cum in her and she is on birth control is very small. However, she should buy a few pregnancy tests and do it a couple times over the next few weeks.
Like I said, the chance is small, but it's still there. If you were in the middle of having sex, even if you didn't ejaculate inside her, your pre-cum probably got inside her and that contains sperm too. Also, the day her period stopped probably isn't the best time to have sex because of the chance of the condom breaking. If she didn't take her birth control yesterday (like if she was on the placebo week before today), there's a chance of pregnancy.
I hope everything works out!
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well.. i wanna cut my hair but try to keep it in a medium length because my hair is down my back. i have layers and i still want layers. how does V-shaped layers would look like?? what else would look like? pictures please.
here's my pic:
http://i19.tinypic.com/29zr6hg.png
p.s.does anyone watch the search for the next pussycat dolls..anyone has seen melissa r..i really like her hair && how would that look like, if anyone has pics of her hairstyle please post it up.
thanks. =] (link)
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I think the V Shaped layers would look great on you. I also think sweepy bangs would look great too...like get your front layers shorter.
Oh, and here's Melissa R: http://tinyurl.com/2u4yjs
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13/f
On tuesday, which is a couple days away, my friend is having a mixed boys and girls sleepover with like 15 people and we are going to try to pull an all nighter cos we're staying in her caravan and there's hardly enough room for us to all sleep in there.
I am crap at staying awake, so I would like some tips on how to do it.
I thought maybe it would be best if I got lots of sleep so I wouldn't be tired on tuesday but then I thought that I would get into that routine and my body clock would tell me to go to sleep early tuesday night, so maybe I should start going to bed later? Or maybe I should just go to sleep the usual time?
There is going to be alcohol there, how much should I drink? It's a depressant so If I drink lots will it make me more tired?
And I would like to know how I can get into a normal routine after tuesday night.
So if you have any tips on how to stay awake then please tell me, and answer the questions above please. Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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I suppose you could just get a really good night sleep the night before. And also before you go to the sleepover thing, drink coffee or coke or anything with caffeine to keep you alert.
As for how much you should drink...you're 13, you shouldn't be drinking at all. But I'm not naive enough to think you're going to listen to that advice...but if you get drunk you'll act...drunk (aka like an idiot...but everyone else will be acting that way too so whatever) and then you'll mellow out. And you could get sick, so try not to drink too much, you probably wouldn't make it the whole night unless you were puking or just feeling like crap. Alcohol affects everyone differently, so it all depends on how your body deals with it.
It shouldn't be hard getting back into your routine...if you stay up all day Wednesday and go to sleep at a regular time that night (or a couple hours earlier) and set your alarm to wake up at the time you normally do...you should be fine. If you get tired the next day just take a little nap or something to catch up on your sleep.
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hey :] 14/f
we're having a dance soon in like may and i was wondering if there are any sites that teach you how to dance. i can shake my a*s and do a lot of hot things, but i wanna learn more. so if there are any good sites please give the links :]
thanks (link)
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Not sure if this is the type of think you're looking for, but it's all I could find.
http://www.learntodance.com/online-dance-lessons.htm
You can view free dance lessons of things like ballroom dancing (for slow dances) and different types of stances and all that. You could combine some moves into your own thing...that'd be pretty awesome.
http://www.pfunkonline.com/dance-lessons/hiphop-dancing-tips.html
There's some hip-hop dance lessons and demonstrations...for fast dancing.
Hope that helps!
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I know a lot of people out here have problems and probably a lot worst than this. But I guess im in search for someone who maybe has been through this.. and knows exactly what Im feeling. I met this boy 2 years ago and we've been friends since and we became very close since summer and we've been hanging out alot and we pretty much became bestfriends. He got a girlfriend and didnt tell me about it til i confronted him about 2 weeks after and he admitted to having feelings for me and thats why he didnt tell me so i was honest and told him i liked him too. well nothing happened and he`s still with her and this was in the beginning of feb. and im still upset and cry over this.. i dont understand (link)
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This is a really tough, complicated situation...but we all go through it.
Perhaps he has feelings for both of you. If so, it's perfectly understandable why he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend. Maybe he's confused and doesn't know what to do about the situation.
Just talk to him about it and ask if he still has feelings for you and if he does, why is he still with someone else? Speak to him about how it makes you feel and hopefully you'll get it resolved.
Just a bit of advice for you though: if he tries to get involved with you (dating, kissing, anything) while he's still with this other girl, DON'T do it. Whether you know the girl or not, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your boyfriend straying from you like that with another girl. Don't let him lead her on either...and definitely don't let him lead you on, which is exactly what he's doing by telling you he likes you and then not doing anything about it or even talking about it.
Hope I helped.
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okay i always forget what the lyrics to lady marmalade mean so can someone help me out?
thanks in advance!
-ash (link)
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It's about prostitution. Like a New Orleans style song. I haven't seen the movie...but that's what I got out of the song when I just listened to it.
"Gotta get that dough sista"
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How many calories do you lose a day just by everyday activities such as walking,Lifting grocery bags exc. (link)
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http://www.calorie-count.com/calories/calories-burned.php
That site is supposed to take your information and tell you about how many calories you burn a day. It told me 2000, so I don't know how accurate that is.
http://www.wvda.org/calcs/home.html
That site allows you to put what activity you did for how long and it tells you about how many calories was burned in that one activity.
http://www.omninerd.com/2007/03/29/coffeeshop/38
That site is pretty interesting...it lists everyday things and says how many calories are burned during that.
http://www.mailtribune.com/archive/2006/0321/life/stories/01life.htm
Finally...read that article. It might interest you.
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Okay... so, yesterday my boyfriend came over to my house for Easter and we were sitting on my couch watching TV and we were fooling around a bit [makeing out and he was playing with my boobs] and I was sorta rubbing him on the outside of his jeans, and he slipped my hand inside so that my hand was on his.. er..area.. and I had no idea what to do and was completely confused. I'm 14/f and I relle need help with this. I want to give him a handjob and maybe even a blowjob but I never have before.. he relle turns me on.. and I want to please him. but im not sure how.. help?? also, he wants to get inside my pants and finger me... I would let him, but i'm not that skinny and I dunno.... and if i do, should I shave?? do you shave everything off?? Advice please?? I'd relle appreicate it. and sorry about the spelling. (link)
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Ok, I like this question so I'm going to answer. Sorry if it's long:
You have to make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea of giving him head or a blow job before you do it....especially a blow job because it's not the easiest thing in the world. You are very young, so I'm not quite sure if you're ready for it.
As for HOW to give a blowjob/hand job...there are certain basics but mostly it depends on what that particular guy enjoys. The best thing to do is to ask him what he likes...he'll tell you if he wants it done right.
As for the fingering...don't worry about not being skinny. If he likes you as much as you seem to like him, he already knows what you look like and he doesn't care and likes you just the way you are.
As for grooming...it depends on what you're comfortable with. Some girls shave it all, some just trim it, and some leave a bit at the top and shave the rest (like a strip or upside down triangle). Just do what you think looks best. But if you plan to shave the whole thing, do some internet research before doing it. There are sites that tell you exactly how to do it for the best results and what the decision to shave it all entails.
Here's one for example: http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/pubichair.html
And another: http://ezinearticles.com/?Guide-to-Shaving-Pubic-Hair&id=62057
Hope I helped!
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hey,i was reading questions and stuff and found this cool site.It was like a site with masterbating stories for girls and guys and like now to do it better,like work on your tecniques and shit.anyways if anyone knows what this site is can yeah let me know? I remember it saying like "my masterbation" or something.
anyway thanks (link)
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www.mymasturbation.com/
I've been there, it's pretty cool. :)
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Are there any cool crafts I can do with wool or something cheap. Something really nice looking and pretty easy to make? Like a photo frame...basically something VERY creative and simple...Anything? (link)
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A few years ago I used to go to craft stores like Michael's or something and get ceramic knickknacks like animals, flowers, etc. and I painted them with ceramic paints. They turned out cute and it was pretty fun doing them.
You can also ask people at a craft store what kinds of things they think you could do that's creative and simple. For example, making dream catchers.
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okay this might seem like a stupid question but serouisly i have to wonder. haha
okay
Q1: if a tree falls and no ones around to hear it, does it make a sound?
for my answer that would be a yes because wiether [sp] you hear it or not its going to make a sound. anyone think differently and why.
Q2: what came first, the chicken or the egg?
for that one i would say the chicken because the chicken has to lay eggs. so if there was no chicken there could be no egg. so you couldnt start with just an egg. and besides i think it was the chicken since like.. the egg has to be taken care of inorder to live so.. the egg wouldnt be the first one. anyone agree/disagree. and whyy?
thaankss haha. i just wanted to know what you thought of these. =] chyeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. (link)
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Niiiice. haha.
Q1: Yes, of course.
Q2: It depends on if you believe God created all living creatures. If you do, the chicken came first. If you believe in evolution or that animals have always been here...then I'm not sure. I've never thought about it enough to have a good opinion.
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I need to know the different between clinical depression, anxiety, and severe stress. How can you tell if you really have a mental problem or if you're just really emotional? I know only a doctor can make the diagnosis, but I need to know so I don't have to waste my time going there if I'm feelings these things for no reason. (link)
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It definitely wouldn't be a waste of time to see a doctor about this. Even if it's nothing, it's good to see him or her to talk about any issues you could be having. A lot of teens experience REAL depression and anxiety...my best friend does and she saw her doctor about it even though she thought it was nothing. Now she's on medication and doing a lot better.
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