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Question Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 4:52 pm

I know a lot of people out here have problems and probably a lot worst than this. But I guess im in search for someone who maybe has been through this.. and knows exactly what Im feeling. I met this boy 2 years ago and we've been friends since and we became very close since summer and we've been hanging out alot and we pretty much became bestfriends. He got a girlfriend and didnt tell me about it til i confronted him about 2 weeks after and he admitted to having feelings for me and thats why he didnt tell me so i was honest and told him i liked him too. well nothing happened and he`s still with her and this was in the beginning of feb. and im still upset and cry over this.. i dont understand

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lbwhite89 answered Sunday April 8 2007, 5:29 pm:
This is a really tough, complicated situation...but we all go through it.

Perhaps he has feelings for both of you. If so, it's perfectly understandable why he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend. Maybe he's confused and doesn't know what to do about the situation.

Just talk to him about it and ask if he still has feelings for you and if he does, why is he still with someone else? Speak to him about how it makes you feel and hopefully you'll get it resolved.

Just a bit of advice for you though: if he tries to get involved with you (dating, kissing, anything) while he's still with this other girl, DON'T do it. Whether you know the girl or not, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your boyfriend straying from you like that with another girl. Don't let him lead her on either...and definitely don't let him lead you on, which is exactly what he's doing by telling you he likes you and then not doing anything about it or even talking about it.

Hope I helped.

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