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i only had my new ipod nano for 3 days and it froze..i did absolutly nothing to it.... !!..i was searching through music and it stopped moving im pissed. wtf ! HELP ME PLEASE!?!?!

i read in appl that its totally normal , the same happens to me some times ...but not really often its like when a computer freezez it doesn't mean it has something wrong XD sometimes

Diane

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Well i tell him i dont like it when he talks to her.. He gets mad when im hanging out w/ guys i dont even like. I was in the car w/ my sister, this girl,her brother, and her ex. and my boyfriend called and asked wat i was doing and i told him i was in the car driving. and he asked who w/ and i told him and he just was like i hate that fag ur w/ and stuff like that. and he hates all my guy friends. And he tells me that he might lose me when i feel like im losing him!!! Idk what to do

ooohhh totally! understand you mi bf is the same --' he hate all my guy friends (which some of them are gay :S he even gets jealous of them wich i think its really really stupid) and if i get mad about some of his friends he act like theres nothing to be mad about ¬¬ ...i just decided to stop telling him when im for example talking to my gay friend :S cause i know im not doing anything wrong ,,so do the same thing to him get him jealous or make a deal if there's someone he really dont want you to talk to tell him you'll stop talking to him if he stop talking to her =) ...and you decide if you really stop talking to the other person or not but make him believe you do lol well that's one idea and what did he says about how would he feel if you do the same to him?

Diane

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Hey everyone! Idk if this is in the right category or not, but w/e. So, here is the story. I've had my video iPod since last year.I had the old iTunes, and kept getting pop-ups and stuff from apple, saying that the new iTunes (iTunes 7) was better and stuff. And I have a video iPod so if I got the new one, I would be able to buy and download the games and movies. So one day I got another annoying pop-up saying that the new iTunes 7 was available and so I just decided to download it. When I it was done downloading and everything I pluged my iPod in and it did what it usually did on the old iTunes. Well, now I've figured out that it is a lot different! I can't figure out how to delete songs off of my iPod. And everytime I plug my iPod in, it is always trying to download pics and I don't want pics on my iPod. I need some HELP!!!!! Thanks everyone! I hope I worded it right and explained whats wrong here. Thanks!!

choose the option to use your ipod AS A HARD DRIVE then you have to manually drag songs and stuff to the library and you can put notes, change the image displayed at each song and save the lyrics and stuff

Diane

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idk if any of you know who hyori is, but if you google that name i'm sure you can find some pictures. i think she is absolutely gorgeous. but idk how to get a face as skinny as hers or a body like hers. does anyone have any tips? i always seem to lose my boobs when i exercise before i lose fat anywhere else (my stomach) any tips would be helpful thanksss.

shes a korean pop singer


-Diane

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13/F. There is this boy that is in 2 of my classes. I bearlly noticed him like 2 weeks ago, and he is really cute. I know or I think I know that he likes me, but he hangs out with this girl all the time and I know she likes him, in my opinion shes isn't really all that cute. I want to tell him I like him, cause I if I did then he might ask me out. But before I do are these kinda signs that he like me?: he always comes and tells me i smell good, he always wants me to sit on his lap, he passes me notes during class, and always hugs me and holds hands with me in the hallway. Another thing is that the girl he hangs out with is kind of my friend but lately has been calling me and boyfriend stealer, when they aren't even together. So what do you think? Should I tell him or not?

tell him that you don't need to know cause if he doesn't like you then it must be unconfortable to hug you all the time sit you on his lap etc..also make him knows that you like him with indirect things that might be so obvious and ask him whats going on with this girl are they dating or somethig?? ask him but really carefully cause some guys get scared when they know you have a crush on them xD
hope it helped

Diane

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how do i put videos on my ipod?

it depends...if you want to buy the videos (which i don't recommended if you can geet them free)...okay so..downloaded videos like videos from ares limewire and those stuff that are free are in a format called mpeg3 and ipod obly admits mp4 i had the same problem..its suppose that Itunes converts them ..but it convert it with no sound! ...so better get WINAVI its a video converter ..you cn get it from ares..winave..then look for the winavi serial if you don't find it i can give it to you ...then its so easy to download them ...then ...put your ipod as a hard drive..and when you have the video just drag it =) good luck

Diane

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okay so me and my bf really want to have sex. we are both virgins, so i was wondering is there anyway i can get something from him if he hasnt had sex and if he wears a condom wats the chance of me getting pregnat?

doble condom its the WORSE thing you can do ...condoms are only 70% safe, obviously the pill its better it has 97 to 98% of not getting pregnant of course that's what the stadistics show

Diane

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I'm 14/f, and I was on this pill for a year that made me lose my appetite. My doctor finally took me off of it...but now, my stomach has completely shrunk, because when you don't eat, your stomach shrinks. I can barely eat half of a hamburger without being so full, I want to throw up. I am *NOT* anorexic. I've gone from 88 pounds to 81 pounds. My doctor keeps telling me just to "eat more" but I can't just "eat more", or I'll get sick!

How do I gain weight and my appetite back?

eat small portions of things that make you gain weight like crazy..for example things that contain cheese shrimps cakes etc or buy this things called ensure...which are a suplemental thing my bro is soo skinny he was 16 and eat very little portions ...and you eat your portion of food..and drink that it's has a lot of calories but its still healthy an they flavors like chocolate strawberry and stuff now he's way much heavier than how he was if you don't know what im talking about is this or other kind of suplements like the ones selled in GNC

http://ensure.com/images/products/buy_ensure1.jpg
hope i helped =)


Diane

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I didn't know what category to put this in.
Hope that's k.


What's a good/free photo editor??

Thanks =)

download it from Ares or limewire or things like that where you can download free music ..ares have a lot of softwares =) look for photoshop or something ...download it ..and then look for ..photoshop serial ...and then it will be like if you had bought it =) and its a very good editor

Diane

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I wasn't sure what category to put this in so sorry if this makes people mad I just wasn't sure. Well I (f/16) have been writing poetry and short stories for a few years and have gotten special recognition and first place titles in local contests. Well I want to see if maybe some of my work can get published and I don't know where to begin.

go to a book printer or to a publishing thing i dno't know the right word of it ...there has to be some of it near where you live...in boooks you can read were where they printed and published by

Diane

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i don't know what to do anymore. I go to this really really small school, there's only about 75 girls in the whole grade. It's an all-girls school. I've been to this school since I was in second grade. But, hate the school with a passion. I am not asking for much. I just want to transfer to a school that's cheaper. Well, atleast not for my mom, because I am on scholorship here. But, I don't even really think this school is a real school. It is like a pretend school. Personally, I have not learned anything and the teachers, since we have laptops at school, spend their time shopping online, and leave us, the students, to just do work. However, I can't do work if someone does not teach me the material. The school that I want to go to is also all-girls. Like, there are these four schools that all related. They are two all girl schools, and two all boy schools, so we kind of mingle with each other. But, my mom isn't giving into the idea of me transfering. She says that the people are still going to be pains no matter where I go. However, what she doesn't understand is that it is not the people. It is the institution, where I am not learning. Some people would think that it would be a dream not to have real class, but I don't think so, because I am being tested and expected to know all of this information that is not being taught to me. I have even tried explaining this to my mother, but she still doesn't nudge. Sometimes she gets really mad, and she says that I'm not even finishing the school year at my school, and I get all exited, and then she doesn't do anything. i don't want to bring it up to her anymore. My only other options are to get expelled by either doing something against the rules, which is out of the question, and failing myself out of school, which is also out of the question. No other schools would want me if I got kicked out of school for these reasons. My other option is to talk to the headmistress and tell her not to give me financial aid, which is the only way I can stay there. However, I don't want to hurt my mother, and I am a little nervous about doing that, but I have to work quickly. The enterance exam is soon, and most private schools in miami don't accept seniors. So, I have to apply as a junior. I am not sure about this school, but I just want to apply right away. All I want is a chance to try this. But, I want to find a way that I can show my mom, without actually having to talk to her about school, because I don't want to upset her anymore

have you tried telling the principal or headmaster about those teachers that doesn't give their class?? and get some other people to complain about it too

Diane

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Anyone who's playing ragnarok?
What server is the best to start in?

i play it ! this one its a good server www.faithro.com of course better download the low rate one =)

Diane

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well i like this guy and he liked me back once but the day he finally got the courage to talk to me i was sorta mean cause i had i big fight with this other guy and i just didn't trust anyone that moment and was really pissed of. so yeah then he went to a different school not far away from my school but he left cause he hated it there and just wasn't happy. but sometimes he comes to visit so hat would be the chance to talk to him right? well yeah but i just don't have the courage. last time he sorta smiled but then looked away and when school was over and he was on his way to the bus he wanted to turn around but then he saw that i looked at him and then he just kept on moving.
so what can i do to get the courage to talk to him. i dont wanna bring up the whole conversation we had once cause i know that would make it worse. and the other problem is that his best friend is always hanging around him and is trying to keep me from talking to him. what should i do?
and about his friends...well he has a lot of friends in my school and they always hang together and everytime they see me they always grin at me look me and then look at eachother. espacialy his best friend. like everytime when school didn't start yet and i walk into the school they always stand near the door and then as soon as i get in one of them says something and then the rest turns around and look at me. that is so freaking me out lately. i feel so stupid when these 5 guys look at me like that.

so what does the weird behavior of the guy i like his friends mean
and what can i do to get the courage to talk t him without bringing up the old lame conversation we had cause then things would really get worse trust me you don't know this guy =D

i have a few ideas of what can it be ...maybe they looked at you in that way because you "rejected" this guy by the lame conversation you had ...it you have a friend that you really care about won't you dislike the girl that rejected him? unfair but truth ...or maybe they looked at you because this guy didn't like you that seriously guys can be sooo mean and make pranks about liking some people and make them believe they do but they really don't i don't know if you get this idea
and just talk to him like if it was another person don't think too much about the issue if he likes you great if he doesn't there's plenty of guys out there =) and also its not like your going to plan all the things youll say to him because then youll get used to it :S and some of the best things in a relationship its that you can talk about anything! and conversation never ends =) take kare

hope i helped let me know what happened =)


* another thing you can do its to ignore him maybe because he knows you like him and he likes yu he'll have all the time he wants to get the chance to talk you ...when he notice that your not interested anymore because he didn't came closer then hell try to get you back most of guys love attention and some of them wants you to like them even if they don't like you :S its kind of a pride thing :S



Diane

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My ex. boyfriend is getting married in 3 weeks...what do I do? I still have feelings for him but i do not know how to tell him. And i think this is a really bad time to tell him how i feel. But if i dont tell him, i know ill regret it for the rest of my life. And to top it off, he invited to the wedding because he considers me a great friend.What do i do?

you should totally tell him before the wedding but also get the idea that if he's getting married it means that he really thinks that this person is the one :S and also if you where the other girl ..you would be so happy by someone trying to steal your wedding lol but tell him and see how he reacts maybe you'll be lucky =) hope i helped



Diane

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Ok so everything was going well with me and my boyfriend. But then out of the blue he said it was over. I was so sad. He didn't even want to give me a reason. I am so depressed. We were together for 10 months. I really don't know what went wrong. Well anyway I need help to make him feel bad. I don't go to his same school. So that's a problem. I want him to feel bad the way he made me feel bad. I also want to find out if he still likes me or if he ever did. But I can't ask him that. Any ideas?. Please help. Aslo if it helps I'm 14 f. Thankyou so much!

maybe he's just tired of commitment that happens to a lot of people maybe there really is no reason why he broke up with you ...or maybe he found someone new :S..also you caan notice how much you mean to him if ...for example you broke up one day and in a litte few days he has a girlfriend or started dating again ...if he takes a long time to date other people it could be either he really doesn't want a relationship right now ,, or he thinks its too soon to start a new one and he needs to get over all that you guys went through...maybe it was something you did without intention for example jealousy being too jealous or getting angry really bad about anything...i think you should ask someone n his school or a friend in common you both have ...but obviously don't try with his best friends lol smeone in the middle :P

and i don't think its the best idea to make him feel bad but you can be in the same places that he will be with someone new XD even if he doesn't want you back..he'll feel bad weird and sad or just a friend so you won't get anyone hurt =) a friend that helped you with that XD good luck!


Diane

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thisnt a word this is someones name though.
it sounds like uh-tee i want to know how its spelled as in someones name not as a word used in conversation

mmm that sounds to me like caty or something lol im not sure i understand you though but i'll try emmmm where's the person from?? that might help to know his her name =)

Diane

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He told me 2 or 3 times he would stop talking to her but it seem like it doesnt work. I dont kno what im going to do. I love him alot and he says he loves me alot 2. But when i hear stuff that they both say. I dont kno who to beleive.

i totally undestand what your going through the same happened to me my bf really loved me a lot! and then i found out that he had this friend who used to say things like :" im soo ugly i fell very bad =(" so he would answwer something like nooo your pretty and get her selfesteem up high ¬¬ anyway maybe its just that your boyfriend doesn't think its wrong talking to her because she might like him but he might not be interested in her , but tell him to please stand in your position will he feel confortable if you talked alot with this guy that has a crush on you?? even if you dont feel the same way ..and talk to your friend tell her that you are really unconfortable with the situation...but i think making him feel the same way you do will work ..it always do ...also guys are really dumb in that kind of stuff they might think a girl only wants their friendship even if she's totally in love with him

tell him how would he feel if it was you who talked a lot to his friend that's in love with you

good luck i hope you get the idea im not really good @ typing since its not my native language lol take care =)

Diane

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Ok soo my best friend has two hot relatives. One..is a year younger and the other is 2 years older. Well i like the one 2 years older than me..he goes to college..and plays baseball for college. Its soo attractive to me. Like..i basically want to run over to him and just makeout! This is the first guy ive ever like..had these feelings for. Its not like "love" feelings more like i jsut wanna makeout with him. I dont like him..i jsut wanna makeout. Is this weird? cuz this feeling sure is weird

totally normall xD nothing weird about it !


Diane

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Ok im going out w/ his guy. We've been on and off for about 2 years now. Hes a junior and im a freshman. We both go to differnt schools and we hardly see each other. But i went to a football game w/ him and my friend came to hang out w/ me. And now she calls my man every day. And i keep telling her hes mine. And she doesnt lisen but me and my man barly talk anymore on the phone..

What the hell do i do???

does a guy really worth it to ruin a friendship ?? maybe hes interested in her also :S talk to both of them if he really loves you he would do anythng for you for example stop talking to her =) let me know what happened:P

Diane

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I want to hang out with my friends more but every time I ask. No one will answer if they want to hang out.

I tried asking people but they say they are busy or something because of school and that we would hang out sometime later. Sometimes we do but usually we don't.

So it's break and I would love to get out... but what do I do?

I've been asking people for 3 days already and nobody will answer me.

Is something wrong with me? I didn't think I need anything wrong..

They said they should start acting more like friends but it hasn't happened.

Should I just give up and spend my days alone..?

find other friends , i had a "friend" who always asks us out and to hang out but we didn't wanted to hang out with her so we hang out without her i know it sounds really mean but maybe your "friends" aren't what they suppose to be =( good luck

** find new friends that really wants to hang out with you and won't give you stupid excuses if they dont want your company some else will do it trust me =)

Diane

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