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Hanging out ?
I want to hang out with my friends more but every time I ask. No one will answer if they want to hang out.
I tried asking people but they say they are busy or something because of school and that we would hang out sometime later. Sometimes we do but usually we don't.
So it's break and I would love to get out... but what do I do?
I've been asking people for 3 days already and nobody will answer me.
Is something wrong with me? I didn't think I need anything wrong..
They said they should start acting more like friends but it hasn't happened.
Should I just give up and spend my days alone..?
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Giving up is never the right decision. You should call them and tell them the problem like a good friend, andif they don't answer, then then just leave a message. there is no sok,ution to the problem if they are the ones that are busy. And for all you know, they could be busy all of the time, and its not your fault. If they are not trully acting like friends, then you must confront them personally, and if that doesn't work, then say to them that if they want to still be friends with you, then they must say something right now. But giving up is not the right solution to this. You must step forward and stand up for yourself in this situation. be the bigger person and confront them.
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Sorry to be blunt, but they may be trying to hint that they dont want to hang out with you. thats just an idea - it's not 100% sure. or, they might REALLY be busy with stuff, especially around the holidays and with school and everything. try hanging out with your other friends. since these friends always promise to hang out with you and never do, start getting involved with a new group of people. then, youll have someone to hang out with. also, if your old group starts to want to hang out with you, you'll always have someone to hang out with because now youll have 2 or more groups of people to hang with.
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Awww. Don't give up.
Be outgoing and get new friends. Talk to those 'friends' of yours in AIM and tell them anytime they could hang out, call you or something. If they call you back, they're real friends and they actually were busy, if they don't, well, either they forgot or they just don't want to hang with you.
Hang out with the ones that call back. Be friendly and fun so you'll be more wanted. Go to a lot of school dances to make new friends. Join clubs. Talk more. It really helps to make new friends that actually want to go out with you to places, like the movie theater or something.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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find other friends , i had a "friend" who always asks us out and to hang out but we didn't wanted to hang out with her so we hang out without her i know it sounds really mean but maybe your "friends" aren't what they suppose to be =( good luck
** find new friends that really wants to hang out with you and won't give you stupid excuses if they dont want your company some else will do it trust me =)
Diane
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Well then maybe they arnt really your friends. But sometimes people are really super busy and just dont have the time to hang. But if you kno their not busy then their probley not ur true friends.
I would drop them
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