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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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is it true that your boobs will grow if you give a guy head and he busts and you swallow? my friend told me that it is but i dont know.

answers please (:

nope, sorry not true

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ok i'm going to six flags *st louis* friday with my girlfriend, a mutual friend of ours, and my twin brother.


it's not like i want to ditch the two others (i really don't want to leave our friend with my brother if you know what i mean. . . ) but i want to get some privacy (at least from them) at one or two points during the day. . .


how can i do so without just ditching them?


thanks in advance for any help

make sure you sit next to her on the rides..
that will get you to be able to talk to her for at least a few minutes before the ride actually starts. or you could go on a ride that the other two wont go on and you will get to wait in line with her for awhile. if you guys are going to go eat lunch.. maybe decide that you two arent hungry and want to keep going on rides for a little while and your brother and friend can go eat lunch.

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I'm considering getting a pet bird this summer- I used to have a couple of parakeets as a kid. But are there other breeds that are nice to keep as pets? I heard that cockatiels are very nice.. I don't want a big bird, like a parrot but something pretty small that is friendly and that I can hold and play with.

canary?

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Ok so me and my bf go to seperate schools starting tomorrow long story but he switched. We live 20 minutes away so I'm sure I'll see him Saturday. I want to do something really cute or a lot of cute things for him tomorrow and the next couple days. I don't drive quite yet so I can't get to him. I need a ton of really cute ideas involving texting, myspace messaging, and aol instant messangers. Just throw some cute ideas at me of stuff I could say/do to make him really know I care. Anything that pops into your head will be so greatly appreciated!!
THANK YOU

send him a list of 100 reasons why you love him =]

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I really need as much answers as possible.

To start off, I'm 16 Female and I have HIV. It got transmitted to me from my mom at birth, so it wasnt my fault what so ever!! So I've been dating this guy for a while now and I told him i have this HUGE secret, which i will tell him when im ready and in the beginning of our relationship, I tested the waters to see How he would handle the HIV situation. So I asked him, "what would you do if I had HIV?" and He replied "I'd still love you, and i would still have sex with you." So, I was SO relieved to hear that, I was happy that he would accept me and we'd still have a relationship without worry! And that was about 2 months ago!! Then last night I asked him Again what he'd do, and he replied "well, if we were getting married then yeah I would have sex with you, but if we werent getting married, then no i wouldnt have sex with you " SO i was SO upset! and said how low that was, because his answer was completetly different before, and i also told him that
"if he wouldnt accept me if i had HIV then he wouldnt accept my "secret" " because IT IS my Secret! but he doesnt know what my secret is. so then he said "well if it was some girl i didnt know and didnt love then no i wouldnt have sex with her but if it was you then I would." so I DONT KNOW WHAT I DO! should I tell him now and get it over with??!! Tell me answers!! HELP! and please dont say that i shouldnt have sex!! BECAUSE I DONT NEED THAT ANSWER!! I've made up my mind that i do want to have sex with him.

I really hope this makes sense!

you really need to tell him. its not fair that you arent. i would make sure that you tell him that it was transmitted to you at birth.. just so he knows that you didnt just get it from having sex with some other guy.

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I asked a question earlier about txting plans with verizon, and i got a lot of good answers. i have looked on the site and stuff, and i know that i want the plan that has like 500 txts for like 5 dollars or something like that, but i dont know how to get it. weve had our phones for about 5 months now, and i dont know how to get it! can i get it online? do i need to go to the store? if i can order it online, a link would be helpful. Thanks.

I rate too.!!

you probably have to go to the store. or get your parents to call.

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Would you consider this flirting?

I was sitting at the computer today in school playing a game, and a guy i know said he wanted to try the game to help me out, so he put his hand on the mouse while my hand was already on it. And guided my hand around while leaning over me. After that he kind of touched my arm and started talking to me.

Was he flirting with me? He's kind of a player usually, but he was being really nice to me.

yeah he was. but you say hes a player.. so dont feel too special because he probably does that to a lot of other girls too. just be careful.

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I just recently (2 weeks ago?) lost my virginity,
and now I've been noticing my..er.. smell.. more. (16/f btw) is that normal?

Also, when my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes he doesnt actually go inside me? Is that something that he'll just figure out how to do on his own or should I help out?

well if he isnt actually going inside you.. then its not sex. you should probably help him out a little and show him like where it is.. hah

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my boyfriend always looks at porn and whenever i go over he has pictures of naked girls on his computer and hes always watching it on t.v and it gorses me out. and hes only 14. hes like i wish you looked like that it makes me feel bad about myself. but i love him. what should i do?

omg that is really mean! you should dump him. no girl deserves to be treated like that

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i know the basics on how to give a handjob,just like up and down, but like where does the girl sit/lye when she's doing it?like i dont want to get into an awkward situation when im giving my boyf one!and i know this sounds stupid but do you actually have to take his pants off??

you can both sit on a couch/chair/bed.. he could like kneel and you could sit in front of him.. it doesnt really matter. no you dont have to take his pants off. you can just stick your hand in his pants.. or you can just pull "it" out of his pants.

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I've been told that semen is alive for half an hour to 4 hours.

But all over this site, people have said that semen dies ONCE it hits air?

What is true?
Back it up with reliable sources please & thanks.

semen does die once it hits the air
and it only stays alive a certain amount of hours once it like gets inside of you

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13/f
ok my friend is having a party, and she needs ideas on what things to do. there is no pool, only 12 people are gonna be there. no spin the bottle. and nothing you have to buy.
can someone please give me sum ideas. thx

truth or dare
you could go outside..
and play like capture the
flag or something like that

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alright well one of my good guy friends named mike, well hes going out with this girl jamie. jamie is really flat - she almost has nothing up there. soo, we were talking about like diong stuff you know. and he said

"i'd rather go down her pants then fell her up there. you can guess why." is it because she's flat? or a different reason? i got kinda confused.

yeah he probably meant that she was flat so there was nothing there to feel.

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13/f -- Could someone give me links to cute dresses at places like, JCPenny, Macy's, etc (American Eagle and stuff to if they are good enough) for my 8th grade semi-formal? Actually everyone calls it the formals but I think its semi formal. I don't to go over board. Plus, I dont want any dresses lower than my knee. Thanks!

-Light brown hair, roughly 2 inches past shoulder
-Brown eyes
-Pretty light skin but not albino
-5'2
-100lbs (YES no disagreement on GAINING weight lol)
-Pretty skinny
-34A
-Bangs on the left side of my face, just past my eyes (not side-swept bangs)

Thats just info to help me find a good dress for me. I can't put a pic on here, but if I had one I would. If you need more info to determine a good dress I'll be more than happy. Thank you so much in advance, and every answer will be rated.

first of all, you dont need to gain weight

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=243342&CategoryID=18109&LinkType=EverGreen

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=243346&CategoryID=21542&LinkType=EverGreen

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=234710&CategoryID=22176

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I had unprotected sex on Friday night. Two days later on Sunday I started my period. Can I still be pregnant?

yeah its possible, but its not very likely.

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When you have sex for the first time do you bleed? and if you do, does it get on the sheets, and how much do you usually bleed?

Thanks Ya'll

usually, but it depends on the girl.

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i recently gave my guy a hand job. afterwards and during it he kept asking how i liked the size. honestly its just average size and i told him it was fine and that i liked it, blah blah blah. i really dont care how big it is, thats not a big deal to me but he wont stop asking about it. how can i help him feel comfortable about being just average and by average i mean about 7inches which is good for us being only 15 almost 16, if i really cared what size it was and if i was that shallow then i wouldn't be doing things with him.

yeah my boyfriend does that too. if he asks again tell him hes 'perfect'... that always works. =]

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so when you give a handjob..does your hand need to be wet? will it hurt them if its dry? and if it does need to be wet what should you do to get it that way, because it would be kind of weird to just get up and put on lotion or something, woiuldnt it?

no your hand doesnt need to be wet. honestly, its just as easy to do as when your hand is wet.

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how come guys think it's 'hot' when 2 girls make out?

because guys are stupid. they think its "hot" when two hot girls make out. i guess they like thinking about and watching how girls make out. but they dont really realize that the girls dont want to make out with them.. b/c theyre lesbian. guys are just stupid. end of story. =]

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Has anyone ever used a scar cream/medicine called Topical Sillicone Gel before?

When do you put it on and what do you need to see before you stop using it?

My aunt used it and her finger was almost cut in half and there's absolutely no scar at all! My sister has this huge cut on her head so I think she needs to use it and my aunt gave it for me but I forgot when to put it on (when it heals? when it's scabing?)

you could call your aunt and ask her. lol
or ask your mom.. she probably knows.

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