Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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XSugarPieX77
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how can i get my limewire music to go to my itunes after downloading w/out having to go through && dragging the songs??
--thnx♥
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mine went automatically when i installed the itunes cd that you get with your ipod. otherwise i dont think there is another way besides creating a playlist on limewire, saving that playlist, then opening it in itunes. sorry
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okay well i just got invisalign yesturday and it totally kills. i keep getting canker sores, and every time i take them out to eat my teeth are so sore its hard to eat. does anyone have them and this happened to them after first getting them? is it just because im not used to it? oh..and if anyone knows about any medicines that will help with mouth pain..that could help too. thanks soo much! =] (link)
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well since they are just like braces its going to hurt. thats the sacrafice you have to make for straight teeth. oh and trust me you can kiss with braces so im sure it'll be no problem kissing with invisalign. you wont be able to tell the difference. it took me about a week and a half to get used to my braces. just take some advil or tylenol or whatever you take for any other pains.
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I saw on the news that there was a missle launched or something and that one is planned to hit the United States. I think it was from Japan? Im really scared right now. Does anyone know what this is? Also, if it ever does hit, what would happen to us? (link)
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they're short range missles from north korea and they will not hit the US. they're only test missles and they are planned to land in the japan sea. i was worried too but it seems that everything will be ok and there's nothing to worry about.
modelkate11
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I was watching the Tyra Banks show today and its about Teen Sex. They talked about something called Flyer parties but Ive never heard of that ever..what is it? (link)
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yeah i saw the show too. basically its a party where anybody can come and have sex with anybody. its pretty sick but w/e
modelkate11
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I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on (link)
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this is a strange question. apparently you like to feel as if someone is controlling you. are you insecure and not sure what your goals are and need someone to direct you. maybe you just like a woman with power. im not really sure.
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I'm going into highschool this year and I'm starting to really think of what I want to be. Problem is, I have no idea what I want in life. I'm into traveling, working with/entertaining people, current events, writting, basically anything having to do with learning new things and meeting new people. I want to have a good, steady income but I don't care about being rich. Any ideas of professions that would fit me?
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work on a cruise ship doing a comedy gig or something. you would write your own material, joke about current events, entertain people, and meet tons of new people. unless you get seasick then forget the whole cruiseship idea.
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My brothers gay..
Its not that bad.. i mean.. hes not really girlie.. hes 18 and still lives with us tho (he graduated).. his boyfriends come over all the time.. and im ok with that.. its not too weird.. but when i talk about it with people.. its hard.. and almost like.. embaressing to say hes GAY.. but i know that there is nothing ot really be embarresed about? help?! (link)
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its not anyone's right or business to judge your brother's decisions. i've heard recently that 1 in 10 people are gay. its not a rare thing anymore. be proud of your brother for the person he is and not his preferences. when you tell people that your brother is gay just think of the person he is, the brother you know, not what people think of him.
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Does anyone know of any cool ideas for decorating an attic; or any websites to help me out. Theres two rooms; so i want the first room to be like a living room with a TV and stuff; and the second one to be my bedroom. Im thinking of doing brightly colored walls and i have white furniture already. The walls are like slanted down if you know what i mean. Ill Rate. Thankss. :]] (link)
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i love attic rooms. light lime green would look good with white and so would orange. get a nice area rug thats warm and fuzzy. lol. make your mark on the space. make it unique and your own. you can either make your bedroom tie in to the design of the living room area or make it completely different. padded headboards are really nice. you can find them in JCPENNY or you can make your own. if you have any specific questions on the rooms then leave a msg in my inbox
modelkate11
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I haven't had my period for about 4 or 5 months!!But i'm not pregnant so why havent I had my period?Some say it's cause my weight but why is it? (link)
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it would be easier for me to help you if i knew your age and weight. if you're in your teens then your period is going to be irregular. you're not the only one who this has happened to. if you're light weight or underweight then that also slows down your period and im not sure why this is. just dont worry about it. i've known people that have gone almost a year without their period. i know you're worrying about it and if you continuously dont get it then try a gynocologist(sp?).
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ok i have a question on my vagina.
im 13 years old and i have my period and everything. also i am a virgin
is it normal for my vagina whole to be small and for it to hurt when i put a tampon in?? (link)
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the first few times you put in a tampon it's going to hurt a little. you're only 13 and you're supposed to be small anyway.
modelkate11
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i am planning to get a car soon. most likely used because it will be my first car and i want one that doesnt use a lot of gas any advice?? gas in california is 3.08 right now (link)
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the new 2006 honda civic is an excelent car with great gas mileage, but dont get the hybrid b/c they aren't rated really well and they're not as good as everyone says they are. i love my dad's new civic. and it was rated the best new car for safety
modelkate11
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Okk. is a honda considered a "cute" car? cause i think there cute and very reliable...and im really not sure which one to get the accord. or the civic. and then theres all sorts of types..hybrid coupe sedan etc. anyone know a car that would be good for a 16 year old. my mom is gonna sign for me to get a car cause she believes i can make the payments for it and now i dont know what to get!?!? help please. i think i like the accords but im not sure.. (link)
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get the civic. my dad got one about 3 weeks ago and is absolutely in love with it. its really nice and comfy and modern. dont get the hybrid cuz they dont have a good rating. i want his honda when i get my license.lol. i dont know how much it is but my dad got it loaded and it was about 21,000 but he got a lot of stuff in it (navigation, and some stuff with the motor that idk the name of)
so yeah deffinately get the civic, its cute and stylish and gets good gas mileage
modelkate11
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well ok-i wanted to know-im a 32A and im 13-but i was flat chested in the beginning of the year-is this a good rate for growing? also--i got padded 32As,so if i go swimming in a bathing suit,would people notice the difference between my bra padded and just my swimsuit wich isnt?i never wore the padded bras in public yet,so should i wait till it gets to school time? much help is appreciated-thank you :) :) :) (link)
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a bathing suit kinda sucks it in anyway so it'll look normal. i have padded bras too and when i go to a bathing suit its smaller than if i hadnt worn a bra at all so it doesnt matter, all my friends dont care anyway wut i look like, besides..they all wear padded bras anyway. lol ok so yeah it doesnt matter.
modelkate11
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me and my boyfriend are expecting a baby in february. we are obviously not married- but im wondering if when it comes, will it obtain my last name or his?- i was thnking itd have to be mine- since hes not really my spouse- but is there any way can request that it has his last name if needed? (link)
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i know people who had their mom's last name then when their mom got remarried got their step dad's name. so if you guys are planning on getting married then just make it the fathers name but if you're unsure of your future together then just make it ur last name and whatever you pick you can always change the last name anyway. oh yeah and congradulations on the baby.
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I wear a 00 in pants.
I'm going into 9th grade and would like to be a 0 by then. I'm 4'11 and 82lbs. (00's are still a little big on me)
So how much weight would I have to gain to fit in a 0. If your a zero what do you weight? (link)
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i didnt even know they made size 00. well anyway im a lot taller than you (5'6) so i was a 0 at appx. 92lbs but had to go to a larger size because they were too short. ok anyway, it depends on the clothing brand. i have jeans that are size 3 and too small and i have jeans that are a size 2 and fit just fine from 2 diff. stores. im 105lbs by the way. i know what you mean that you want to gain weight. i still do because im tiny and finding those special sizes is hard. hope i helped
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Im just going to get down to the point. What could be a creative way of asking her out face to face? What do girls like to be complimented on? What really really turns a girl on?
I want this from a females perspective mostly. Thanks. I rate 5's.
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tell her she looks gorgeous but dont tell her she's hot or sexy because its going to make her think that all you want is sex(and if it is then shame on you but i dont think thats the case)and it'll make her think that she'll get used. instead stare her in the eyes and say "would a gorgeous girl like you maybe ever want to go out with a guy like me?" and if she says yes then congradulations and if she says no...well i dont know what to do then,sorry. but let me know how it all works out cuz i really had to think for this one, its not everyday i have to figure out how to ask a girl out. lol
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Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only. (link)
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call her over when she's only with like one or 2 friends and say "hey, i just thought you might want to know, you look gorgeous today" or to start just try talking to her. you seem sweet so if she gets to know you then maybe she'll like you better. the way i see it, anyone can be good looking but a good personality is what really makes them attractive,so get to know her and let her get to know you. dont be afraid to open up as long as youre not telling her your whole life story cuz thats annoying. do you get what im tryin to say? i dont blame you if you didnt its 1:40 in the morning right now but i hope i helped anyway. let me know how it is
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Okay, well, this July, I'm babysitting a 10-11 year old girl named Maggie. She's a cute kid, but there is one problem. She's completely hyper all the time. She gets nervous alot and really easily.
I just wanted to know if ya'll had any ideas for fun, quiet, easy-clean up games that will keep her situated for a while.
This is a FULL day job, twice a week, $50 a day. I know that seems a lot, but trust me, she's worth it.
ANYTHING that would help me with this will help me because I really need the money.
Thanks a ton in advance.
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ok i babysit triplet boys (they're 2yrs old) so i know what ya mean by hyper. i also watch my bestfriends's eleven year old sister. kids love to go outside and make stuff. get some playdough. make little fake food or people. maybe find a good movie for rainy days when you cant go outside. when you can go outside, make up a game, so its interresting everytime you go outside. kids can be fun and with that kind of pay u should have fun. so i hope i helped. let me know
modelkate11
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tomorrow i am gunna babysit my two little cousins. i always babysit, no problem but usually 1 and older... the younngest was just born in jan-february and im not really nervous but i just want to know what im basically gunna have to do. will i have to hold her the whole time or.. i dont know im usually nervous when it comes to really young babies. (link)
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you can ask the parents if you can use the baby's carseat for the day/night, you can use it for a high chair or anything like that. babies sleep alot anyways but if she/he starts crying then get a small stuffed animal or something and entertain them and rock or hold them. and if they keep crying then call the parents just incase the baby might be getting sick or something. when it comes to food the parents will most likely tell you what they eat but if they dont then ask them and remember not to heat bottles in the microwave because it causes heat pockets in the bottle that could burn the baby so you put about two to three inches of water in a pot and put it on the stove with the bottle in it and dont forget to check it on your wrist so you know if its too hot. oh and this is very important..NEVER LET A BABY SLEEP ON ITS STOMACH. and dont let it sleep with a lot of blankets because it may sufficate itself. i know this sounds like a lot but it's almost second nature to know how to take care of a baby. just do what you think is right and dont forget to play with your other cousin too because im sure they would enjoy attention too. dont forget all of your important numbers like the parents cell numbers or the number to the place they're going and of couse 911 if anything major happens but dont worry you'll be fine. like i said it may sound like a lot to remember but its really pretty basic stuff so good luck and have fun!
let me know how it went
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Were Adam and Eve the first people on Earth? If so what about the cavemen? I thought they appeared first? I am confused. I mean, are the cavemen really the "people" in Darwin's theory of evolution? And so not supported by the bible...umm.. (link)
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well there was a frozen caveman found so we know they existed. and how the hell could we have come from dust. im really not tryin to be rude but come on. there might have been two of the modern human like species that could i guess be considered Adam and Eve.
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