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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u

i hate to break it to you.. but i don't think she likes you because if she would.. she would have at least looked at youu.. my thing is.. i think that she doesn't look at you because you stare at her and it makes her feel uncomfortable... because i don't think she likes you like that.. =/ sorry to break it to you babe

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Okay so me and this guy just started dating and I lack like all experience. Ive only kissed one guy and only once. And that would be him. And I just want to know how experienced he is but I don’t want to just come right out and ask him. How would any of you consider asking your boyfriend/girlfriend that. Or should I just not even ask?

i agree with the girl below me .. play the question game ;] just don't have that as your first question.. because then he'll know you did that only so you could know about it.. but chances are he's going to ask you it right backk.. so be prepared!

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When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks!

do it in person... because chances are they will forgive you more if you do it in person... because your saying it too their face which means your machore enough to understand what you did wrong.. saying it on the computer is what a pansy would do ;] give them a day to cool down so they can sleep on it ;]

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Do people not liike it when you`re sappy like, "i`m really s0rry, i knoe i was wrong" if they`re mad at you. do they look @ it as sucking up? i asked a question earlier on this site. i`ll rate for g0od answeres. &♥; day`na

honestly, it's not sucking up... it's just an apology, which shows that they are ready to sort out there differences and ready to start fresh... sucking up would be like OMG I"M SOOOO SORRY I'M SUCH AN *SSHOLE AND I DIDN'T MEAN IT! then like getting down and kissing their feet ;] so it's alright if you just say "i'm really sorry i know i was wrong"

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I am 15 years old. And I know that I shouldn't be worrying about this, but is it ok to expect to find a guy whose a virgin and wait with me until marriage? Or is that something that I likely won't find today? I'll rate, thank you.

yeahh you can find that.. =] theres usually a lot of clubs and stuff that is towards that kind of stuff ;] i SURE you can find that.. but it's not VERY VERY likely.. but i'm sure you could if you looked hard.

plus, if the guy that your with loves you he will most likely be able to wait.. like the saying "true love will wait" ;] good luck hun

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I used a tampon yesterday; and after inserting it, I flushed the cardboard applicater. ( The package said to do so) But today, the applicatior is in the toilet, unraveled, unbroken down, and the toiled won't flush. Am I not supposed to flush it? I really don't wanna tell my dad about this, hah but what should I do?

aw =[ lol i never flush anything.. expecially the cardboard applicater! did you try to plunge it ? that's what i would try to do.. and if not just tell your dad about it.. he can't get mad.. just tell him you had no knowledge of what was going on and it was an accident.. i doubt he woudl care! =]

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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl

she rather just doesn't want to have a boyfriend right now.. or she could have her eyes on someone else right now and want to wait for them to come around..

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Does anyone know any sites that are similar to Greatest Journal or Myspace?

www.xanga.com and www.livejournal.com =]

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i was wondering if anyone has used the veet bladeless razor set and if they have does it work and were u statisfied with it?

i used to .. it worked okay but it SMELLS! so badd and you will smell like it for like 2 days .. it's gross.. lol but it works =] i haven't tried nair but i'm guessing it should smell better then veet smells better ..

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i got this pink green and white tote bag at aeropastale, and i was just wondering if it would look retarted if i used it with clothes that didnt match it. does it matter ? i mean, its just a bag, right?
thanks xo*

not at all =] it is just a bag.. my bag/purse matches hardly anything either.. so yeahh its' alll goodd =]

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OMG i need to know like right now! im going to the fall out boy concert TONIGHT and i have no idea what i should wear.. its at the palace and i think im in seats not standing.. so any help would be great!!! thanks!!!!

t-shirt and jeans.. it's a rock band so be ready for mosh pits ;] .. you shoudl be in something very comfortable!

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Ok, my friend who doesnt have an account on here needs some help and wanted me to ask this for her. She cuts, and she really wants to stop, but she cant. I really want her to stop too, shes a GREAT person, but ya, please tell me so I can tell her, how does she stop?

you have to learn how to have self control.. and it looks like she doesn't.. so my thought is that she should deffinitly go talk to someone.. rather it be a guidance councler or teacher.. just some adult that can help her gain her self control hope everything works out hun =]

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I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do?

oh hunny... i'm sorry =/ i advise that you go see a psycologist so you can talk to someone about it and they can help you overcome your fears.. =[

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this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks

do not give up.. believe me.. because it happened to me tons of times and then i started to like them after they got done liking me.. but don't make a move like kiss her or antyhing or else she might push you away and then it could hurt your feelings ;]

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I'm dying my hair tomorrow, (permanent)blonde and I don't know if I should wash my hair tonight when I'm gonna shower/bath. I heard its better for the dye to sink/stay in oily hair then fresh dry. Is that true? I haven't washed it for 3 days. Thanks in advance. :-)

yeahh wash your hair =] it'll be alright for the dye tomorrow.. promise =]

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i have a chiwawa (i think u spell it like that) and shes 2 years only her vet told us she is readdy to have puppys what i dont kno is how many are those kinds of dogs are able to have like what is the most thanx

WILL GIVE 5's!!!

the most is 6 .. i looked it up =] so she'll prob. have around 2-5 healthy living puppies =]

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does money order and cashier's check mean a normal check?

money order i believe is like sending money in the mail.. and cashiers check is sending a normal check =]

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everyone says that if you've been dating over 5 months you should have sex. i've been dating my bf for 7. no i dont want to have sex right now at this age. but my mom says she hopes/wants me to have sex AFTER or WHEN im married. i dont know if i can wait that long. but i dont want my mom not to trust me and get mad at me. help!! please!

you should have sex when ever YOU think YOUR ready.. don't let what other people say your mom, friends, anyone, influence your life.. it's what you want to do.. if you have sex before your married it's not like your moms not going to trust you hun.. because i'm sure your mom didn't wait that long.. and if you truly want to have sex. and love the person that your with then you should go for it.. BUT!! talk to your mom about it first.. so she can at least put her input on it.. i'm sure she'll be alright with it.. as long as you let her know your going to do it

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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!!

it kinda sounds like that's all he wants from you.. you know =/ ugh. i hate when boys are like that.. my boyfriend said to me "make out with a girl in front of me" and "only if you dress like a hooker" i just laughed and told him it was against my religion... so you shoudl just try to let it roll off your shoulders and stick up for yourself.. and tell him your not ready to go any further.. and that your happy where the relationship is at right now.. =]

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...even if we give good advice people rate low if it's something they don't want to hear? Too bad we can't add a comment to their rating.

yeahh =/ lol but you could always maybe go back and edit your answer and hope they check it again =]

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