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I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. He is always very sweet and considerate of me. He has made it clear that he really likes me alot and I like him too.

He sounds really outgoing on the phone, but then at school he is so nervous, he can barely talk to me. My friends and I get the feeling that he thinks I'm really popular and experienced which actually, I'm not. So on instant messenger he kept saying, "Were going to make on on Monday and school" and he always calls me "babe" on the phone or computer. But then at school, he is so nervous around me.

So, is he a jerk, or just one really nervous insecure kid?

he is not a jerk...jsut reallly shy..he is just warming up a bit...if you give it a bit...he will eventuallly be fine..

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There is this guy that probably use to like me cause he kept talking to my best friend about me and he told her that he really likes me. I thought it was kinda weird since he is like the really popular jock and I'm not that great looking at all. I assume that he probably got over it since itz been a while. why is it that the guys that flirt with a lot of girls don't really make a move on the girl that they actually like?

because guys love to flirt with girls...it is just how they are..but tehy also can be shy when it comes to the one girl they actually like more than just a person to flirt with, so they will be shy, and afraid that maybe you dont like him back, and they dont want to be rejected, so i ean if you liked him, you couldve started talking to him, and he probabl wouldve asked you out or someting, but guys can be shy, and afraid of rejection..

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ok, i really like this girl at school and shes the only girl ive like at my new school. i told a couple of my best friends that i liked her and it slowly spread throughout the class to her. her friend asked if i am going to ask her out or not and im really not sure because she has been known to dump boys after 2 days(thats the record for her) some of her friends said that shes interested in me but i dont want to get my heart broken like i did with my last girlfriend. should i take this chance

hey hun, you should deffinately just take a chance, because maybe you will just be the one she does start to go out with for a while, you never know...because if you dont ask her out..then you will probably regret it..and that wouldnt be good...and hearts do get broken in life...thats just how life is...so if you really like her then you will take a chance...and if she breaks up with you after two days...then she is just a bitch..and you can do waaaaaay better than her...jsut know that...any girl who breaks up wit a boy after 2 days, is just a stupid bitch,because what reasong does she ahve to break up with them, because they looked ugly in a pair of jeans? that is just stupid...wel just take a chance...
good luck!

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What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start.

ok well some girls can be prett nasty and bitchy sometims, and date guys for looks...and that is all..but there are also some girls who really dont care and date for personality...but you cant always tell wich girl is wich...so basically the first thing you need to do is TALK to her...i dont know if you get nervous by talking to girls or not..if you do you should try to find out he sn or like her myspace or something..and start talking through that...then maybe when you feel comfortabe enough....you can start talking to her in person...but if you are not shy or ne thing then you should deffinately just go up to her and just like start a conversation..mabye like "o hey i just noticed that we have never really met..so i just wanted to introduce myself.." and then mabye talk about some more stuff..or just like everyday say hey to her or like wats up or how are you...and overtime you will probably start a friendly relationship....and things will start to build up from that...like you can start flirting wiht her..and maybe express feelings of starting to like her...like giving her hugs, or comforting her when she is sad, being a shoulder for her to cry on..because girls love it when i guy is willing to listen to them, and be there for them when they are sad, or to offer some advice, and then when you feel you are ready..you can ask her out...
well i hope i helped...good luck!

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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink?

t-shirt with a hoodie, sweatshirt, or coat over it..and then jeans, and gloves, and a scarf

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ok i have been dating this guy for awhile now and i care for him alot but i dont think a relationship is what i want from him anymore.hes to CLINGY and SENSITIVE.he always wants to just talk to me or just hang out with me alone.he never wants to talk with me and my friends we always have to be alone.i noticed i never have time for my friends anymore and im always going to be late.i have already tried to break up with him twice but he just cried and i felt guilty so i took him back now ive had it and we got into a fight about my friends a couple days ago and now im just avoiding him because i know when i do talk to him hell cry...help me what do i do?!?!?1

i went through that same thing...and hun, you need to get out of it, it made me so depressed, and i lost all of my friends and he lost all of his friends, he really hurt me...you need to break up with him, and trust me i know it is hard, and when he cries, you have to just say i am sorry but this is what i need, and you are just going to have to deal with him crying, because you need to care about how you feel, and not how he feels, because bad things come out of relationships like that....you really need to get out of your relationship before it turns into something worse than it already is...now i dont know if this is his fist serious relationship or what..but it usually is when guys are like that...but he just needs to get over it...and he will and he will move on....but right now instead of feeling guilty when he cries, you need to be strong and realize that what you are doing is going to benefit both of you....because it will...

good luck...

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Ok, so I've been playing Sims 2 for nintendo DS for a little bit now and i finally beat the robot and all that stuff. Then the credits came on and I kept playing again. The problem is though, I haven't gotten any major "missions" so to speak. I know there have to be more though. How do I get these? Is there something I have to do or some place I have to go? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!! :)

you should try looking at a players guide on the internet

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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas?

probably a gift certificate to his favorite store, or if she knows what music he likes she could get him a cd or make one for him

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14/f I like this guy...alot and we're friends. We see each other and talk a lot but my question is if I should tell him or not because from past experiences when someone found out i liked them they stopped talking to me...I'm just starting to be friends again with one of my best friends from two years ago so I dont want this to happen again what should i do?
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hey hun, you should deffinatley just tell him , cus you will regret it if you dont...

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I would like to get a nice stomach. Not asking for rock hard abs but something impressive. The thing is i need at home ideas. I dont have access to equipment. Also i have a slight heart problem so runnings kinda hard on me but i can still do it. Any ideas?

crunches and situps

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I've just started to make love with my boyfriend, and I have a vague recollection from my sex education classes at school that when you become sexually active you should have a check-up, examination etc. Is this the case? Thanks!

yes, that is probably a good idea when you start to be sexually active

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Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap?

lotion...it really helps!!!!

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Which seasons of 7th heaven are out on DVD so far?

one and two

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okay so I have lots of blackheads on my nose and now i see some on my chin...is there anything i can buy at walmart (that is NON expensive) that will effectively get rid of them? prefferably something that either works right away or that works quicker than like 3 weeks..Thanks for any help!

deffinately biore...it is cheap and it actually works, so you should give that a try

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There's this kid that i think it super hott and he has an amazing vocie and a totally awesome personality. my friends think hes ugly though.
he has like jet black hair and see-through blue eyes.
how could you say that's not hott?
anyways.
what should i do?

well i am not quite sure what you are asking but i lll try and answer it...s if you are wondering about what to do about ur friends, well it doesnt really matter what they think , if you really like him than that should be all that really matters...but if you are talking about what you should do to get him to like you, first you need to talk to him, i dont know if you already do, but maybe try a little flirting and then maybe he will start flirting back and you can go from there, so i hope i helpdd!!

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Which you think is better Cathloic high schools or Public high schools and explain your reason why because i don't know if i want to go to a public high school because iam attending to a cathloic high school.

It all depentds on the schools, you really cant generalize and say that all public schools are better or that all catholic schools are better, education wise it tends to be catholic schools that tend to offer a better education but public schools do too....i go to an all girls catholic school, and realy i love it, the education is great, and their is not problem without the boys, but i mean it really depends on what you are looking to get out of the school, if you want to go to college, colleges tend to look higher upon students who graduated from a private school, but socially public school may be better, but really just depends on the school,
hope i helpded

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Oh Jesus. The other night I did some stuff that was kind of close to cheating on my boyfriend at a concert. He found out and got really mad. At first he was mad because I was denying it. Finally I couldn't help it and told him what I did. And he cried and took it real bad. Now he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll cheat on him. How do I get his trust back?

well first of all you should probably make a promise to yourself that you are never going to do something like that again, and then it will take a while but you need to show that you want his trust back and show that you know that you made a mistake, so it may take a while but slowly he will start to trust you more, but i mean you cant blame him for not trusting you, so really just be patient and eventually he will come to trust you

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ok this might sound nasty but my cat is lickin my other cats butts..is this normal...

it is totally normal! i have three cats and they do it all the time!

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I just started dating this guy a little while ago, and I like him, but it's so hard to talk to him. He's really sweet and I really do like him, but we can't ever have a conversation without awkward silences. Should I continue to go out with him and hope things get better, or should I just break up with him? Thanks.

hey hun, well you guys just started dating it might just be you guys are a little nervous and you just arent totaly comfortable yes, so you should just wait a little bit and see how things go...maybe later he will turn into somebody you can really talk to...or you could tell him that you wish he was a little more open...or you could just find a bunch of convo starters and maybe he will open up more...
good luck

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Hey .. thanx if you help me out! me and my b/f are ready to go to the next step but i have alot of discharge and i dont knwo if thats normal and if thats what he will be expecting! plz help! thanx!!!

hey hun, that is perfectly normal

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