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Sometimes you'll have bad and good days but someitmes there will be a mixture, but as you grow up you'll have some unforgetable memories that will always be with you... The friendships you make come and go, but as you look at all the flash backs there's always something about eachone you can't forget... You'll move on in life, parents will seperate and you'll feel pain the you didnt know even existed... You'll leave old friends and make new, leave ur house you lived in yer childhood and become something you didnt imagine, but now that you can see what its like, just remember nothing last's FOREVER-- thank you for listening to me!


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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
Ashton!! veryy cute name!


Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it? (link)
you are most likly just getting your period =) dont be sooo worried bout it! =) that or.. yea.. =P lol.. and if you still got more questions talk to your mom about it!


Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog? (link)
PET CO!


i need help, i feel like i am fat.. i am 13 years old and weigh about 140lbs.. all of my friends are skinny and i`m not satisfied with my weight and my appearance.. does anyone have any ways i can loose weight and ways i can loose 10-15 pounds within a month or so? (link)
Be happy with who you are!! maybe you will grow into it! and if you are really not happy.. start running in the mornings! just be active! be yourself***


I am a flyer on a cheerleading squad for the school.They make me twist out of mounts and i always get so nervous.I was dropped from a mount once and was rushed to the hospital and i got a concussion.How do i get confidence and feel confertable doing it? (link)
Trust the people you are with! that ALWAYS works for me.. like i barly go up wit ppl i dont know!! exspeically that kind of stuff.. start off with cradling for warm ups and then work up to that kind of stuff! it helps!


Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in. (link)
Okay get a night light.. put a clock a digital one, by yer bed like on a table and try to count to sixty on time wit the clock =P lol or raise yer arms over your head for a while and you'll fall asleep.. haha its weird but it works!!


how do u get pen off ur leg?? (link)
lol.. warm water and soap? lol


is it strange for a gurl to masterbate..i heard girls talkin one time and they sayd that it means your really desperate adn uncommon...is that true or is it normal? (link)
its COMPLELTLY normal!


Hey!I'm Casey(girl)and im 14.My friend is also 14 and she is in 6 month relationship with her b.f.They have had sex 8 times and whenever they are together they always do stuff(sex,BJ,makeout,HJ etc.)I sometimes start to think he is using her but then again they r in a serious relationship. Is that the way to go in a relationship? Do you think their realtionship will go far if thats all they do?If u have ne advice please write..thanx!;) (link)
If thats ALL they do.. maybe it wont go as far as you think... but hey.. as long as she is WILLININGLY doing it and hes not FORCING her to do it then.. i guess its okay for them to do it... its not always the way to go.. but it just depends how the girl / guy are and how long they have been going out =)


17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping?? (link)
dry humping


i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!?? (link)
She/He didnt take your place... talk to her... or him.. maybe she / he will understand or have him her over and hang out!


ok like what do i do to make a guy like me what turns them man an i don't wanna look like a slut so please help (link)
be yourself... and just wear pretty clothes.. pretty make up... and yea


i dont know what to do... i still like my ex .. like alot.. the second time we went out i broke up with him for someone else but i really didnt like thisother guy.. and so i regret it but he said he has to build up my trust again... but see hes moving to another town and not going to my high school and i really miss him now what should i do? should i call him and try to talk to him ? (link)
yeah u should.. and if hes moving far have a going away suprise party for him! show him how u still feel.. maybe it could help and he'd come up/down to see you


My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date? (link)
tell him hes a pervert and that yer not ready! n if he doesnt listen then SCREW HIM


i really like this one guy. but for some reason he is always mad at me. like the other day i apoligized for whatever i did (i dont even know what i did). and he apoligized too.. but then the next day he blocked me. and i didnt even talk to him at all that day. then that night he just calls me to talk. and doesnt really talk on the phone and just says yeah to w.e i say. is there something going on with him or what? what should i do? i think there might be something wrong with him bczu he sounded like depressed but idk. what do you think i should do? (link)
ask him whats wrong.. be there for him


theres this girl that i can not stand at all, and im in a group of 3 rite? and so we all used to not like her but wenever she was around my friend wiukd go and hang with her, and so i knew she liked her, but now its annoyin cuz shes always doin stuff with her wen she was supposed to do stuff with me and my other friend, and if she brings her a long i dont even want to go! thats how much i dont like this girl! well some1 PLZ help! ill rate good!!! (link)
Well if you really want to be friends with this other girl.. then maybe you should just try to be friends with the other one... it could make yer other friend happy =) .. but if u *really* cant stand her.. then u should tell her how you feel.. and tell her to grow up a little if shes immature.. but be nice about it!


well..there is this guy named Miguel...he likes me...we met through my sis. and well hes like a year older than me..he sounds really nice..and he thinks i am pretty...and he said he'll even transfer schools just to see me. he wants to go out, except the only problem is- i dont know him!! (link)
well meet him!! talk to him... it will help! thats really sweet of him to transfer schools.. deffinetly meet him =)


What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them... (link)
I think they could* work.. but i would recomend u guys both getting a webcam.. and talking a lot.. that always helps


I was going out with this kid for 7 months... sence august.. and sence january off and on.. and i like really love him and we finally broke up.. for good in march.. and it didnt bother me at first but now he doesnt talk to me at all and i really miss him and he was my first love and now he has a new girlfriend.. and he really cares about her i really really wanna be with him and he doesnt even kno how i feel and even if i tell him he still wouldnt like go out with me wut should i do? (link)
tell him neway!! dont bottle up yer feelings.. or they will explode at the wrong time!! tell him u miss talkin to him or start calling him again or talking to him or have a party and invite him!! that should break the ice again =)


I'm gonna redo my whole room and i need a magazine or somthing to get ideas from. I watch trading spaces but i need sum10 nore. Thanx bunches! (link)
Watch abc family around 4? or 3:30 on weekdays they have this show called knock first they do some really cool rooms




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