my girlfriend thinks she would look bsd in a bikini because her boobs are size 34b but she is realy hot in one so is 34b a good boob size for a 13 year old girl
Yeah, that's bigger than a lot of girls have at thirteen. I'm sure she would look fine.
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Ok, this is a little odd to be posting, but I would like opinions and don't really have people I trust to ask without it causing extreme weirdness. Just a warning: it may get long and rambling. I have a lot of thoughts regarding this, and they get jumbled up.
I've been married 10 years (I'm 30/female). At the start of our relationship, he was very open about sex. We enjoyed playing with other people (spanking, teasing, toys, but not intercourse), but that changed over time. It seemed gradual at first. We didn't involve others, but we still had our games. Now, that has pretty much disappeared (unless you count a swat here and there). I miss it. I miss the involvement with others, the sexual sociability. I've met a couple people who swing, and I would really enjoy that. My husband and I love each other very much and have a lot of trust for each other. The adventure and fun just have gone away.
I try to talk to him about it, but it always feels weird, like it may be uncomfortable for him. But it could just be me feeling weird bringing it up after all this time. How can I talk to him about it and rekindle his interest? There is a local swing club I would like to go to so we can mingle with other couples and see how the lifestyle works for them, see if it is really right for us. If I could get him to go with me, that would be great. But he just isn't a club kind of person, swing or otherwise.
I am also afraid that he will think I want this because he isn't enough. That isn't it. I'm just an outgoing woman who enjoys variety, and I want to share it with him.
Sometimes, it occurs to me that I may never convince him to even consider it. Really, if he considers it, we check it out, and he doesn't feel comfortable, that is fine with me. I'd just like him to know that it is something I want to explore, and to know he'd consider it for me. When I think that he won't even do that, I start thinking about seeking out experiences on my own. I don't want to sneak around. His involvement is important. I just don't know how to tell him without it being weird.
And it isn't that I need more sex. It is about experiences. I think he would benefit as well. And I love the thought of him with another woman with my consent. I don't know why. I just do.
So, how can I tell him that I want this? What can I do to encourage him to just go with me to this club one time and see how it works for other people?
It would seem I could just say all I put here, but I can't. I can't seem to figure out the right timing or words to let him know how I really feel about it. I feel like I haven't even expressed it right here and I come across as a needy slut or something. That really isn't it. It is just a part of our life that I miss, want back, and want to expand on.
How would you go about this?
Honestly, I don't think you sound like a needy slut at all. I think exactly what you put here, minus the part about wanting to seek experiences on your own if he doesn't want to with you, is perfect to tell him.
You've covered absolutely everything in your question. You've covered why you want to do it, where this want is coming from, and you've even said that you're okay with not doing it as long as he goes to the club ONE time with you to check it out.
Every question I was going to ask was answered as I read on. I think you should tell your husband that you loved that part of your sex life when you first were together. Tell him that you miss that. Make sure you tell him that it is NOT because he's not enough for you. Explain it exactly as you did here.
Tell him that you just want him to go to this swing club with him one time. Tell him that you understand that he doesn't like clubs, but this is just something you want him to do for you one time. Let him know that if he goes there and does not enjoy it, you won't ask to bring him back.
I think it's great that you're ready and willing to be understanding and compromise with him on this. It's good that you understand that not everyone has the same sexual taste as you, and that you don't want to force that on your husband.
Just make sure that if he doesn't want to do it, you don't go find these adventures on your own. If he's not willing to do the full swing thing, ask him if he would be willing to do what you did at the beginning of your relationship. Not full intercourse with others, but the spanking, teasing, toys, etc..
Now you just have to find out when to tell him this. That will be your hardest part. I can tell you've put some thought into this, so when you really fully tell him what you want, it's going to be difficult to get out. Pick a time when you're both relaxed and calm. Perhaps the next time you're in bed, before you have sex, you could bring it up. Say, "We should do what we used to do..." and just elaborate from there. Or after you have sex, when you're laying together and cuddling say, "Wow. That was great. You know what else would be fun? ..." and go about it that way.
Either way, you need to tell him fully how you feel and what you've got in mind. You don't want to let yourself get to the point where you would rather cheat than just talk to him about it. I know you've mentioned it, but you really need to sit him down and tell him what's up. You never know, he might be willing to do this for you. If he was willing to fool around with others, it shows that his mind is open enough to at least approach him about this.
Good luck!
Darby(:
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I hear this a lot.. but, what does "Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder" mean?
Anything would be great. Thanks. =]
That means only 'God' or the Creator can determine beauty. You shouldn't judge people because the only one capable of judgment is the Creator.
EDIT:
The person above clearly got this one right. When people have said it to me, they had always geared it toward something religious, haha. They probably just tied it in with not worrying how people judge you because only God can judge you or something. I never use phrases like that because I rarely know what they really mean.
Here are a couple of sites I went to that explained further(;
http://www.helium.com/items/614341-reflections-on-the-meaning-of-beauty-as-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder
http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/59100.html
http://www.usingenglish.com/reference/idioms/beauty+is+in+the+eye+of+the+beholder.html
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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Im a 13 yr old guy and im also a skater. i am pretty popular in my grade and get invited to lotss of parties. im friends with all the popular girls and make everyone luagh all the time. Iv never had a girlfriend though. and the only girl that ever likes me is this ugly girl who like stalks me at school. i also have not so straight teeth and have just got braces 4 mnths ago. I really havent been called "hot" by any girls. just "cool and funny" i have nice hair that is always neaat. i really need some tips.
Honestly, you just need to be yourself. As a girl, I can tell you that trying extremely hard to be 'attractive' is automatic unattractiveness. Ask any girl, they'll tell you the same thing.
The same way you wouldn't want a girl trying extremely hard and not being true to herself to impress you. It's just not attractive.
Once you get your braces off, you'll have straight, pretty teeth. So don't worry about not laughing at jokes. No one's going to notice your teeth when they know you have braces on.
What you wear doesn't have anything to do with your level of attractiveness. I know a lot of people that wear name brand clothes that I would never even considering dating because they lack personality.
It's good that you're funny and get invited to parties and things of the sort. That means people like to be around you. That's a great start. Don't be alarmed because you haven't had a girlfriend and no girls have called you hot. You're only thirteen. It'll happen, don't worry.
To visually look attractive, just take care of yourself! Shower frequently, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, wash your face with cleanser, keep your hair neat, and don't acquire any nasty habits. Don't chew with your mouth open or burp on purpose or anything like that.
Most importantly, don't look down upon people. One thing that is absolutely not attractive to me is when people make fun of other people. Don't make fun of the 'ugly' girl that 'stalks' you at school.
Be nice and friendly to people.
Darby(:
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16/f
at age 16 i had sex with my best friend (he was my first) & we weren't dating. hes very sexually active but hes gay, but will pretty much do it with anyone good looking. one month later after we did it a couple more times he asked me out. (me not thinking i said yes) and we dated a week before he broke up with me because he thought of me more as a sister. we agreed not to do anything anymore to save my feelings. we only kissed one more time on new years and once or twice he kissed me on the check. its 7 months since we first did it and i've realized im in love with him. but the problem is we are hardly friends anymore, he has this sarcastic rude sense of humore that hurts my feelings and yet i still love him. he really hurts me sometimes and he makes joke about how when we did it it was so awful.hes gay but im in love with him. what do i do, i know i need to forget about him but i dont know how. (please dont go all "hes not gay if he...." its kinda irrelevant" thank you so much!
This guy does sound like a complete jerk. You deserve someone that wants to be with you, not some lowlife that can't make up his mind about anything. He doesn't need to be making jokes about how the sex you two had was awful. He just sounds like a little punk and you're right; you need to move on! Completely break off contact with him. Luckily, summer is coming up, so if you go to the same school, you may not see him again until autumn.
That's a perfect chance for you to open yourself up to new relationships. Hang out with your girl friends. Have a few sleepovers and girl nights. Go to the skating rink, the pool, the mall, the theatre. Anything that occupies your time will be less time you can think about this loser.
Don't text him. Don't call him. Don't respond to him. The only way to truly get over it is to break off contact completely, at least until you're over the love you have for him.
After a while, you'll notice yourself thinking about him less and less. You won't even understand what you saw in him sooner or later. It will take time and effort, but you can do it.
Keep your eyes open for opportunities to meet new guys, and don't be afraid to date a little, even though you still love this guy. You don't have to commit to anything serious. But hanging out and talking to new people will only do you good at this point.
Good luck!
Darby(:
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Ok so i know this boy, and he is a real gentleman. I was asking all my guyfriends if they have ever made-out with a girl before, and my crush said no. I'm not sure if he likes me or not, but when we were playfully disagreeing on something he leaned in really close to my face and looked me in the eyes. I played back and leaned in too. Im not sure if he wants to kiss me or not, but i dont want to make the move and freak him out. What should i do?!
He totally wants to kiss you. He just hasn't made a bold move because he's never made out with a girl and is having the same feelings you're having. You're both not wanting to make a first move in order to keep from freaking each other out. You should make a comment about how you really wanted to kiss him when he was so close to you. Just a passive, playful remark. I guarantee you he'll say he wanted to kiss you too. Then next time you're together, you'll both be able to make a move together without any awkwardness (:
Darby
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so me and one of my good friends have been talking for about and things are going great. he lives about 3 hours away from me is the only down side. he came down to see me friday and stayed the night and left saturday and everything was great. We stayed up all night talking, cuddling, and kissing. I loved it. When he left i asked if we were still "talking" and he said yeah. I asked him why later and he said he wants to wait until summer so he has time. My friends tell me that they think hes a player and i dont know why. Hes really nice to me and treats me good. Do I listen to them or just go with what i think?
Ask your friends what makes them think he's a player? If they can't come up with any good reasons, go with your gut instinct. They haven't spent time with him or talked to him like you have, so only you would really know. Your friends might just be concerned because of the distance and the fact that you won't be able to keep your eyes on him 24/7. But who says you need to? If he's sweet, honest, and true to you that's all that matters!
Darby(:
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Hi!! 131/2 ( Might be long... sorry)
Well, I like this guy he is very adorable,lol he is a short lil guy. Well, I like him. Well, people were asking people out for me and I was one of them. Well..he acted like he liked me..well my friend Cody is one of his friends..and he asked him out for me and he said yes..than word got around and he said no. Well, I gave up on that because I thought he was just playing with me, but just lately he's been looking at me a lot..and I've been smiling at him. I found him on My space and he added me and he gave me his number.I texted him and stuff. So..do you think he likes me? I do...but on his My Space it says he is in a relationship but I thought he was interested in me...because ..before he added me..my friend Tanner asked me if I liked Joey and I said yes a lil bit..and I blushed..than I heard him telling someone this..but I don't know who. I asked Tanner at lunch why he asked...he stuttered a little bit and said "Uhhhh..no reason". Than he acted real weird about it... so I have no idea whats going on ...plus that same day I brought pictures of me when I was young for a life skills project...my friends kept saying how cute I looked...and my friend Jess showed Tanner and he said " Awww!! Emily your so cute!!" I blushed..than the rest of the day he stared at me...and stuff..so who likes me here?? Tanner or Joey?? OR BOTH??
Thanks for litening!
:)
I'm sorry but this is really confusing. I'm not sure if Joey is the guy in the beginning that is adorable and short or what. But I'll do my best to give some advice.
It sounds like Joey might like you if he's the one that gave you his number on MySpace and you've been texting each other. You should ask him if he has a girlfriend though since his website says he's in a relationship. If he is in a relationship, you'll have to move on or wait until he's single.
Just because Tanner said that you're cute in baby pictures doesn't mean he likes you. The best thing to do is ask these guys what's up. It will save you the confusion if you just handle it directly. Ask them if they like you and see how they respond. Don't waste time wondering what's going on.
Darby(:
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I absoloutly LOVE music more than anything! Piano is my favorite hobbie, but I seem to have got caught up with other things and I worry way too much and music is what I depend on...but everyday I listen to it. but I want to PLAY it. Is there anyway I can focus on ONLY my music?
I agree with the answer below me, you don't want to play piano ALL the time and only think about that. But it's great that you want to start playing again.
My favorite hobby is writing and I feel the same way about it. If I don't do it often, I start feeling like I need to focus ONLY on writing. The best thing to do is get into the routine of doing. However, as you know, music and writing are both artistic things and they CANNOT be forced. If you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood and you have to leave it at that for the time being.
Try to get into the habit of practicing everyday. Whether it's for 3 hours or 20 minutes, you'll at least have it on your mind and practice a little bit everyday.
Soon it will just be like eating or showering. It will be something you naturally do because you want to.
Darby(:
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female,16
ok me again :]
I have decided that I have wasted the last few years wasting my time drooling over this one guy. If something else was meant to happen by now it would have right. I have realised I HAVE to get over him cos it's stopping me from fully giving my 100% to any other guys. so,can anyone help ?
thanks
If it's been a few years and nothing's happened, it definitely probably won't. You've made a good decision to try and move forward with your life. Now, you just have to commit to it. Take some time to spend with your girl friends. Go places like skating rinks, bowling alleys, the mall, laser tag, or miniature golfing where you can have fun with your friends AND potentially meet guys. You'll be so much happier when you're completely over this guy and can give all of your love to a guy that wants to give all of his love back.
Try to keep yourself occupied and if you still talk to this guy, distance yourself from him. The less you talk to or see him, the less you will think about him. Eventually, you'll notice that you've gone a week, a month, and more without even thinking about him. When you do think about the huge crush you had on him for so long, you'll wonder why you even liked him for so long in the first place.
Good luck (:
Darby
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well im 15 and love everythign about make up and was wondering if there was a school that just teaches you about make up and maybe hair too, but not a school everyday, like something to do AFTER real school. is there a such thing? and i live in massachusetts
It sounds like you should go to beauty school. Your school probably offers a program junior and senior year where you can take half of the day off and go to beauty school for college credit. Most high schools offer programs like that to upperclassmen. Talk to your principal or guidance counselor about it.
Darby(:
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how long can food stay in the fridge?
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Food is good in the fridge until after the expiration date on the package.
Darby
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i was at a party last night, i drank too much. which resulted in me throwing up all over the place. i was throwing up all night, when i went to sleep around 5 am i didnt throw up, i woke up feeling as if i was going to throw up. my friends said to have something to eat. i did. i had home fries at a diner. i got home about 45 mins later and i threw that up. i went to sleep. i just woke up and i threw up again...
i need some help but i dont know what to do,i cant tell my parents that i am hung over.. they would kill me.
Drink a lot of water, no caffeine. If you have honey at your house, take a teaspoon full of it (it absorbs alcohol) Also, take a couple Sudafed (they're for sinus headaches). If you don't have Sudafed, take Excedrin or Advil. Then, take a shower and lay down on your bed with a hot, wet rag on your forehead or the back of your neck. And try to eat a banana (they help your digestive system) or try eating something greasy. Like McDonalds or Burger King.
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okay so june is coming up..and im completely busy! i have my sister getting married june 26th my senior prom june 5th and my graduation on june 10th.The problem? i wanted to get my highlights done before everything but im afraid if i get them done before prom that they'll grow out by the time of my sisters wedding plus i wanted to get my haircut before everything as well but its right now a little past my shoulders and i wanted my hair kinda long for prom cause i was going to get an updo im soo stressed! so my question is what special occasion do you think i should get my haircut and highlighted? i cant decided or do you think my highlights wont grow out if i do it befoer prom? thanks in advance!
Your highlights shouldn't grow out in less than a month. If you want your hair long for prom though, maybe you should wait to get it cut and highlighted. Unless you want to get it highlighted and not cut before prom, then get it cut before the wedding. But that seems kind of complicated. There are still updos you can do with short hair though!
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/N/f/asianhair19.JPG
http://hairstyleschat.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/updos-for-short-hair.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/5/h/g/prom25.JPG
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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I really need help on deciding how to wear my hair and make up for prom!
Here's my dress:
http://www.scalausa.com/p-504-scala-19876.aspx
This is me:
http://tinypic.com/r/wi7rkk/5 (i'm the one on the left)
http://tinypic.com/r/15comf8/5 (i'm the one on the right)
My hair is really long and I can basically do anything with it, but I want an updo. Any ideas?? Thanks! :)
First of all, your dress is really pretty!
Okay, so updos, I have some pictures:
The first few would look really cute because your hair is so long. If it can curl well, these would be cute:
http://www.hairstyleschat.com/images/prom-hairstyles-for-long-hair.jpg
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/taylor-swift-updo.jpg
http://hairstylespicturescuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/updos-sedu-prom-hairstyles-pictures-photos-cuts.jpg
And here are a couple for straight hair:
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/5/a/g/prom18.JPG
http://www.mariva.com/images/sallys-updo.jpg
If you like one of these or find another you like, just print it off and bring it to your hair stylist.
Now, makeup:
You should do your makeup like this:
http://www.blogcdn.com/www.stylelist.com/blog/media/2009/03/jouer-cosmetics.jpg
With subtle colors because they would make your eyes pop and not overdue your look because your dress is so bright.
OR
http://static.squidoo.com/resize/squidoo_images/-1/draft_lens2383395module13517213photo_1232293841spring-2009-makeup.jpg
If you want something more dramatic.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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I'm not really sure what it is. I always think somethings wrong with me. I don't know if it's because I want something to be wrong with me, or because it'd explain some things or what. Why would I want something to be wrong with me if that's the case? I just don't understand it. The second I get a headache, start having pains, start coughing or anything I usualy look it up to see what it could be. Is anyone else like this? Well thanks in advance, take care.
It's called hypochondria and it's fairly common. Whether it's that you're scared something severe is wrong with you or whether you want the attention you would get if something was wrong with you, that's up to you to figure out from how you feel when you're acting like that.
Do you want to be sick so that people would have sympathy for you and talk to you and want you to feel better? OR Do you think it's something severe because you're scared that something is really wrong with you and you don't want to die/go to the hospital etc..
Here's a couple sites to check out:
Go to these two websites and take the tests there to find out if you may have hypochondria. Remember, this is not a diagnosis; it's just a test to see if it could be possible.
http://www.4degreez.com/misc/hypochondria_test.html
AND
http://en.nienteansia.it/tests/hypochondria-test.html
The next two sites are information about hypochondria if you think that may be it:
http://www.drugs.com/enc/hypochondria.html
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/9983.php
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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HOW IN THE WORLD DO I JUST SAY YES?? okay well, i actually have two questions. first off, there is this guy i like, and i didnt start likeing him until recently. I am 15/f and i have never had a bf, not that i havent been asked i just never really had an interest in the guys that ask me, till now. this boy has asked me out several times but i have said no and he said SAID keep waiting for me. i really like him, and i know if i dont say yes soon that he will probably move on. My question is how do i stop being so afraid of having a bf? i cant help but be afriad and i dont know why. and my seccond question is after you have been texting for a while and have nothing else to say, WHAT IN THE WORLD DO YOU TALK ABOUT????! WE'VE BEEN TEXTIONG FOR A WHILE AND NOW ITS LIKE A ROUTINE:
HEY
HEY
WAT R YOU DOING?
NM WBU?
ME EITHER.
COOL
YA
SO HOW HAS YOUR DAY BEEN
GOOD WBU?
SAME HERE
help please, i think he'll think i am boring if this goes on. and we have already covered the basics, u know what is your fav. music and all that stuff. oh, and we also dont go the the same scho
ol but we see eachother on the weekends alot. he is my bffs cousin and she even thinks i should go out with him. plaease im beggin ya, HELP ME!!!
Okay, first question first. If you like this guy, you don't want to pass up on the opportunity of dating him. You're just scared of what you don't know. Since you haven't been in a relationship yet, you don't know what to expect. It's completely reasonable. But at some point, you're going to have to leap before you look and just go for it. Make sure that he realizes that you haven't been in a relationship yet so this is difficult for you. Tell him that you will date him, but you'd like to take things slow and just ease into it.
Second question:
A lot of people run into this problem with texting because you can do it all the time. Naturally, you're going to run out of things to say when you text often. Try playing a game of 20 questions. He asks a question, you answer, you ask a question, then he answers.
Also, any movies you see, books you read, shows your watching, situations you get into with your friends, fights with your parents, arguments with siblings, tell him a bit about them. Once you open up and are willing to tell him what is going on with you, he will do the same and tell you more about situations he's in.
And one more thing; when he says what are you doing/what's up/what are you up to, don't answer with nm. That is an absolute conversation stopper. Really tell him what you're doing. If you're watching tv, tell him what show. If you're listening to music, tell him what band/singer. If you're shopping, tell him you're shopping and the store you're at. If you're eating, tell him what you're eating.
Same goes for when he asks how you're day is going. Don't just say good. Be honest. Say, 'It's going alright. I was in a little bit of a bad mood this morning, but it's getting better." or "It's been okay. I was tired and had to wake up early, but I feel wide awake now." Or whatever is relative to how your day has been.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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My wife and I have been married for almost 6 years. Recently she developed a friendship with a man at work. They became really close and while I was away for work, he came over to say goodbye to her cause he was going away for work also, and things happened. There was no sex, but pretty close. After he left they were in contact for about a week online. She actually said she fell in love with him. I discovered this and confronted her. After a lot of conversation, we both wanted to work things out. She told him she couldn't talk to him anymore and we began to talk about ways to fix it. Now my question is, its been a couple of weeks and I have changed completely. I have told her coutless times how much I love her and many other things to show my affection. She hasn't at all. She still loves him, and this hurts. She says she wants to make it work, but she got caught. She didn't wake up and realize she made a mistake. What should I do?
You two need to go to couple's therapy. It is completely wrong for her to have done what she did. You shouldn't take full blame for it and change completely, if she's not going to do anything to try and salvage the relationship. By going to couple's therapy, your counselor will be able to show you each what mistakes you have made and set up a plan that will get you through the rough times. Since you would both be openly talking to him/her, they would know more details than have been given to us. Plus, they're trained and educated to handle things exactly like this.
This is such a difficult situation because if she loves this other guy, she can't just snap her fingers and make that stop. This should have never happened. She never should have gotten close enough to another man to let that happen. But what's done is done. You need to let her know how you feel. Let her know that you're not seeing a change in her at all. And tell her that you want to go to therapy. This will show that you really do care about her and the relationship enough to get professional help.
If she refuses to go to couple's therapy or the therapy does not change her and she continues to be in love with this man, sadly enough, it's time to move on. You're going to have to pick up the pieces and give them to someone else that will treat you how you deserve to be treated. You shouldn't jump to the conclusion that you're going to have to get a divorce yet. Just know that if things don't change, it could be the only solution in the future.
Sorry this happened and good luck.
Darby(:
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so there is this guy, that long story short, i wanted for like 5 months, and then he broke up with his girlfriend for me. well. we aren't official because he cares what other people think and doesnt want them to say bad things about us. so its been like 1 week and 1/2 maybe 2 weeks since they broke up and i told him that i would wait but not forever. and like, on friday, i hung out with him, my best friend and her boyfriend at her boyfriend's house. It was reallly fun. we were goofing around outside for a little playing basketball. and then we went inside, chilled and hung out and talked. well. we were all talking on the couch when my best friend and her bofriend "leave the room" to go get "water" [they wanted me and the guy to be alone ahaha, smooth, not.] so we were sitting there on the couch, just talking, and his ex girflriend texts him, "hi" he was like, "guess who just texted me?" and i was like, "who?" and he didn't look very happy and was like, "just guess." and i was like "[insert ex's name here]" and he was like, "yeah." then closed his phone and im like, "are you gonna answer her, and he was like, "no.. i could tell her i cant talk now.." and i was like, "nah, its okay." and then we went back to talking and he started playing with my fingers and then we held hands and linked fingers and such. and i knew he wanted to kiss me, i coudl tell by his body language. but im not going to just kiss him when we're not together. that's not me. and im also afraid hes gonna compare me to his ex, because they made out and stuff, but i only kissed a guy once. and that was just a quick peck, so im insecure about him not liking me anymore because of that. but then i had to go and stuff, and when i left, my best friend and her boyfriend told me he was a little dissapointed but happy and he told my best friends boyfriend that he was going to "ask me out rather soon" we text everyday and he calls me baby and babycakes and sweet heart and cutiepie and says he misses me so much..
i just dont know what to think or do, im kinda stuck.. ahaha. so any help or comments are appreciated :] thank you.
im a 16f, sophomore and he is a 15m, sophomore.
It sounds like he likes you. He's just trying to take a little bit of time between relationships. He doesn't want to jump into another relationship right away. A week and a half or two weeks isn't long at all to wait between relationships. It's actually rather short. If he said he's going to ask you out soon, he will. It sounds like he's really into you, but still gets upset when his ex talks to him. Which isn't odd considering the fact that they just broke up. Give him a little bit of time and don't rush him to ask you out. He'll ask you out soon, like he said.
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I really want to move towns but my mum doesn't want to. i haven't exactally asked her but she seems happy here. but i hate it. i get bullied at school constantly and i don't think i can learn well here. any advice? 13/F P.S im from australia.
See if there's a different school in your district that you can go to. You might have to have your mother take you there and pick you up, but it would be better than going to a school you hate.
You should also talk to your mother about what specifically is going on at your school. Tell her who is picking on you and what they're doing. Have her call or go to the school and speak to the principal.
You could also go down and talk to him/her. Be very assertive. Say, "(Name of people) have been (whatever they've been doing) and I want it to stop." If you say something aggressively, he/she will be more likely to take care of it.
As far as the bullies go, if they're just saying things to you, try not to show them that it bothers you. You have to be aggressive back to people or you'll get picked on a lot in the world. If your bullies see that you are not going to stand for their crap and that they need to move on to someone else, they most likely will with a little bit of time. Just stay strong.
Darby
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