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I have questions about what i can do to make myself look more attractive


Question Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 9:40 pm

Im a 13 yr old guy and im also a skater. i am pretty popular in my grade and get invited to lotss of parties. im friends with all the popular girls and make everyone luagh all the time. Iv never had a girlfriend though. and the only girl that ever likes me is this ugly girl who like stalks me at school. i also have not so straight teeth and have just got braces 4 mnths ago. I really havent been called "hot" by any girls. just "cool and funny" i have nice hair that is always neaat. i really need some tips.

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Additional info, added Sunday May 17 2009, 9:46 pm:
i also play basketball and wear nikes and gym shorts while wearing them. but when i wear skate shoes i wear skinny jeans usually and plaid shorts sometimes. i get embarrased( especally asound girls) while luaghing really hard at something and having my teeth show. i can act " gay " as a joke sometimes but iv stopped that. pleaseee help..

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Darby answered Monday May 18 2009, 12:55 am:
Honestly, you just need to be yourself. As a girl, I can tell you that trying extremely hard to be 'attractive' is automatic unattractiveness. Ask any girl, they'll tell you the same thing.

The same way you wouldn't want a girl trying extremely hard and not being true to herself to impress you. It's just not attractive.

Once you get your braces off, you'll have straight, pretty teeth. So don't worry about not laughing at jokes. No one's going to notice your teeth when they know you have braces on.

What you wear doesn't have anything to do with your level of attractiveness. I know a lot of people that wear name brand clothes that I would never even considering dating because they lack personality.

It's good that you're funny and get invited to parties and things of the sort. That means people like to be around you. That's a great start. Don't be alarmed because you haven't had a girlfriend and no girls have called you hot. You're only thirteen. It'll happen, don't worry.

To visually look attractive, just take care of yourself! Shower frequently, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, wash your face with cleanser, keep your hair neat, and don't acquire any nasty habits. Don't chew with your mouth open or burp on purpose or anything like that.

Most importantly, don't look down upon people. One thing that is absolutely not attractive to me is when people make fun of other people. Don't make fun of the 'ugly' girl that 'stalks' you at school.
Be nice and friendly to people.


Darby(:

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Roxy07 answered Monday May 18 2009, 12:05 am:
Mate, your only young. You've got a long way to go yet.

Looking more attractive to others isn't always just about your apperance. It's mainly about your personality (believe it or not)

They way you parade yourself around like your a "top bloke" doesn't come off as very attractive... At all!!!

Guy's who are stuck up and worry about their apperance and ego is repulsive! Wearing named brand clothes has nothing to do with attractiveness.. it's just materials!!

Obviously you sound like you are quiet a confident person. I'm not saying that's a bad thing BUT being over confident and feeling like your better then others is disgusting. This girl you call ugly... She has feelings too you know!!

It's not nice to call people ugly, did you ever think that maybe no one calls you hot because they think you are ugly??? See, not nice is it??

Apperances: Just be tidy with yourself, Look after your skin and hair and dress nicely (makes a big difference) also wear a nice smelling deoderant or aftershave, not too much though as your not suppose to smell it on yourself.

Put a colour through your hair perhaps. Don't be self conscious of your teeth, they wont be like that forever so there is not point trying to hide them because it's impossible!!

AND.... Be nice to people. Especially the kind who are not so confident!! Oh.. and acting "gay" i'm glad you've stopped because it is extremely immature and not funny!!!

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