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i cant take the stress of living here!
14/f
okay heres the point. i want out of my house. its not that i dont want to live with my parents, its the fact that i cant take the stress of living with them anymore. they do a lot of things that bother me. and its making me want to hurt myself. i know your going to say talk to them. work things out. but everytime i try to talk to my parents and work things out they dont want to agree on any solution that works for all of us. a few weeks ago it got to the point were i overdosed on some medicine and was in the hospital for a couple days. and today i came so close to cutting myself because i cant take this anymore. they are supposed to be setting up councling for me but still have yet to do that. i cant take it anymore. and every single day i cry because i cant take the stress of living here anymore. :(
so does anyone know anyways i can get out of my house. maybe go live with a realitive or friend.
please please do NOT try and tell me to work things out with my parents. ive tried it. it did NOT work. and please dont tell me to wait it out. ive waited to long and i cant take it. please please please anyone help.
please and thank you.
-cuttechick24
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hey dear,
the thing is that you have to see it this way,usually when you see the bad things [or faults]about your parents,it seems like an endless list of things.this causes severe stress.it is called negative thinking.to break this endless cycle of thoughts,replace it with something positive.remember,they are the ones that took care of you ever since you were a helpless baby and child.people,i mean your parents,may have many things that they do,that you do not approve of.it only means you are sensitive and a fine person.dont take extreme steps,no matter what the situation in life is,or whom you feel is making you feel low.you are too precious for that.worship yourself.pray a lot more,this helps,because then you will have a direct hotline and bond with God.then you will be able to talk everything with God.tell Him,i want money,i want everything to be fine in the family,i want my parents to behave a particular way etc.believe me,god will make it work.
to get rid of stress,lie down and relax,breathe deeply.just try admiring life and the beauty around you.enjoying beauty,whether nature or man-made paintings,whatever,makes you feel good.you should feel happy,life truly is beautiful.the problem is when we give in to negativity.
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its looks like you are taking things on worrying alot this a a mentel ilness because if your over dosing and trying to cut your self being in a a place like a half way house or somthing or mentel hospital uutil you cool down because its meens your citafrinic and you need help if you are doing these thing because ones you start talkin to a counsler your parents have the power to put you in a clinc and if you tell your counsler whatyour doing to your self they will put you in one im not scaring you i just no you need to change you need to ask for meds that are going to help you from worring and mabe you do need to live with friends you gotta works these to help you or the whole world going to take control ok hope this helps ok.
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Listen, i am the same age as you AND the same gender and i recently went through the same exact thing that you are going through. I know exactly what you are going through, and i still feel that way at moments. I also know talking to unreasonable parents doesnt solve anything either. One thing got me through it. I know it will work for you if you try it and stay open minded. Don't hurt yourself, it is just putting more stress on you and your parents and making matters worse. I know it is hard, but you need to be strong. Call a relative. A friend. Maybe you can stay with them for a while. But if you really want to know what got ME through this, inbox me.
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