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what do i say now ??
HOW IN THE WORLD DO I JUST SAY YES?? okay well, i actually have two questions. first off, there is this guy i like, and i didnt start likeing him until recently. I am 15/f and i have never had a bf, not that i havent been asked i just never really had an interest in the guys that ask me, till now. this boy has asked me out several times but i have said no and he said SAID keep waiting for me. i really like him, and i know if i dont say yes soon that he will probably move on. My question is how do i stop being so afraid of having a bf? i cant help but be afriad and i dont know why. and my seccond question is after you have been texting for a while and have nothing else to say, WHAT IN THE WORLD DO YOU TALK ABOUT????! WE'VE BEEN TEXTIONG FOR A WHILE AND NOW ITS LIKE A ROUTINE:
HEY
HEY
WAT R YOU DOING?
NM WBU?
ME EITHER.
COOL
YA
SO HOW HAS YOUR DAY BEEN
GOOD WBU?
SAME HERE
help please, i think he'll think i am boring if this goes on. and we have already covered the basics, u know what is your fav. music and all that stuff. oh, and we also dont go the the same scho
ol but we see eachother on the weekends alot. he is my bffs cousin and she even thinks i should go out with him. plaease im beggin ya, HELP ME!!!
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
1. you like him a lot, correct? Next time he asks you out, think; Do I really like him? Is he worth going out with? If it's a yes to both of those questions, just make yourself say yes. You can always answer "yes" over a text message if that's easier for you. or you could tell him you really like him, but just don't know if you're ready for a relationship yet.
2. get into detail with your questions,
"how was your day?"
"good."
"oh, good. what made your day good?"
OR
"what are you up to this weekend?"
OR
"What are your favorite sports?"
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Okay, first question first. If you like this guy, you don't want to pass up on the opportunity of dating him. You're just scared of what you don't know. Since you haven't been in a relationship yet, you don't know what to expect. It's completely reasonable. But at some point, you're going to have to leap before you look and just go for it. Make sure that he realizes that you haven't been in a relationship yet so this is difficult for you. Tell him that you will date him, but you'd like to take things slow and just ease into it.
Second question:
A lot of people run into this problem with texting because you can do it all the time. Naturally, you're going to run out of things to say when you text often. Try playing a game of 20 questions. He asks a question, you answer, you ask a question, then he answers.
Also, any movies you see, books you read, shows your watching, situations you get into with your friends, fights with your parents, arguments with siblings, tell him a bit about them. Once you open up and are willing to tell him what is going on with you, he will do the same and tell you more about situations he's in.
And one more thing; when he says what are you doing/what's up/what are you up to, don't answer with nm. That is an absolute conversation stopper. Really tell him what you're doing. If you're watching tv, tell him what show. If you're listening to music, tell him what band/singer. If you're shopping, tell him you're shopping and the store you're at. If you're eating, tell him what you're eating.
Same goes for when he asks how you're day is going. Don't just say good. Be honest. Say, 'It's going alright. I was in a little bit of a bad mood this morning, but it's getting better." or "It's been okay. I was tired and had to wake up early, but I feel wide awake now." Or whatever is relative to how your day has been.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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