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here's two things i've been told about sex from my friends, and i'm not sure what's true and what's not:
-your vagina makes "farting" noises when having sex.
-there is the possibility of peeing on him.
true or false? =/
thanks! (link)
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Hi,
Your vagina can and does make a farting noise sometimes during sex. Why? Air is being pushed up into your vaginal canal and thrusting will cause
it to come back out. Guys are used to it so it's not that big a deal. When your friends told you about urinating during sex odds are they were talking about G-spot fluid which is like a litre of milk in a way that the female's vagina releases if her G-spot get hits and she is really, realy, really turned on. It looks like pee, doesn't smell like, and isn't pee. It's G-Spot fluid. Hope this helps you.
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I am lately itchy down there and it is really annoying. why am i itchy and what is wrong with me? Thanks in advance.
*Christie* (link)
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There is a chance that you may have an infection here. You should try to figure out if you have a yeast infection or not. Itching every now and then like the other girl mentioned is okay but the itching you are mentioning seems to be a constant thing and that's signs something needs to be tended to.
The itching you mentioned is around your labia. You should have your mother or you can do this on your own too book an appointment with a gynaecologist to tak a look and see what is going on with your reproductive system and what might be causing the itching.
You probably have an infection and need a prexcription cream for it. It would be a good idea to talk to an older female be it your mom, sister, aunt etc about this as well. As embarassing as it may be to you they've all dealt with it or know how to handle it. Feminine itching is pretty common and they will know whether you need a gynaecologist or an over the counter cream.
The other question I should ask you is if you use bubble bath or soaps with perfume in them? If so, this could be what is causing the irritation. I hope this helps you out. Let me know what develops as I'm sure you have something simple like a yeast infection that is easily treated.
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I mastrobate and I really want to stop. Any tips? (link)
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Masturbation as you know is normal. Is there ever too much masturbation for one person? Yes, but only if it's the only thing you are doing all day or you do not have a regular life or social life aside from it. If that's not the case then enjoy it as it's healthy, normal, pleasureable and okay.
I bet you masturbate at a norm al amount even up to 5 times daily. It's very common in guys and girls too. As long as nothing psychological is going on here or you are acting out on abuse orhave 90% of your tiome devoted t it you are fine.
As far as stopping goes occupying your time with something else can work. It's hard though and why bother? Nearly everyone your age does it regularly (both sexes).
Do you feel embarassed by it? You need to arrive at the real reason you want to quit and deal with that as you really have nothing to be embarassed over if that's your reason for quitting.
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Im going on a one week cruise in the middle of february and i have no idea what to pack. Like what kind of clothing. Im going to places in jamaica, the bahamas, and mexico. There's supposed to be 2 formal nights and a few "smart casual" nights.
1. What should I pack?
2. What does smart casual mean? (link)
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"Smart Casual' a.k.a "Business Casual" consists usually of blouses, with skirts or dress-pants with maybe a sweater or vest overtop. For guys it's dress-pants, cordouroy pants, sweater, vest and absolutely no jeans for either sex as they can refuse entry to certain events if not dressed right.
For formal wear they are looking for a gown that you would wear in their ballroom and your average dress will not meet what they are looking for as this has to be an ultra-fancy gown for such an event. think something you would wear to an awards ceremony (Oscars). It doesn't have to be expensive but needs to look fabulous.
For guys this would consist usually of a tuxedo and tie. In some cases a suit and tie may work but check with the people running the cruise for what they expect.
You should probably call the cruise organizers this week and ask about clothing because they know exactly what you should pack and can make suggestions. Obviously, you will need t-shirts, pants etc for a hot climate so be sure those are in your suitcase too.
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im having my 15th birthday party this saturday and well its my first time having boys over for a b-day party and what are some things i can do to keep the party interesting? (link)
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I mentioned this to another girl having a birthday party who was your age the other day. Try and get a copy of Scene It the DVD game. It combines trivial pusuit with DVD clips of shows, movies etc. There's several versions of it all relating to current pop-culture. It's a lot of fun.
You may also want to pick up a murder mystery game where your friends all have roles and other of them is the murderer. You can either by the boardgame version or write your own script and hand out parts and figure out who the murderer is.
Dancing is not always a good idea. Some people could hate the music you chose and at this age girls especially more so than guys are terrified of making the first move and asking someone to dance.
Have you ever noticed how many people are leaning against a wall holding it up (presumably) at a school dance? Well, if you have a dance at your party you may see a lot of that happening and it's not your fault.
Ballon fights obvipously will not work at this time of year whomever recommend that must not have been thinking. There's a lot you can do if you use your creativity and come up with something if what I mentioned above doesn't work well for the crowd you are expecting.
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I'm buying my cousin a few dvd's for her birthday which is coming up soon. He misses all the shows that used to be on t.v about 2 years or so back. Does anyone know maybe a website I can get a list from? So then I can have a look around online for some dvd's of those shows. I don't really watch t.v much so don't know many of the shows that were axed. Any help would be great.
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You might want to check out videodetective.com they have a reliable list of all the theatrical and DVD releases coming up this year and any you missed last year.
The site usually includes DVD box-sets. Also, when you go to Amazon (the American Site not the Canadian) and hit DVD and VHS and then box-sets it should yeild a lot of stuff as well as release dates for DVD on TV. A personal recommendation: Joan of Arcadia Season Two and Joan of Arcadia Season One. Quality TV as far as I'm concerned.
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15/f - Canada.
Alright I just eat a big bag of Sour Skittles..(the 151 g bag) and I was fine and then I was eating the sour powder. A few minutes after I coughed and pink stuff came up. It has a bit of an odour to it and I don't know what it could be. Also I've been suffering a sore throat could that have something to do with it? (link)
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It's phelm that has come to the surface to be chucked up. It's like vomit but it's mucous colored and containing particles of whatever you just at. This has happened because the powder you mentioned has upset your stomach when you were already sick to begin with.
It was not a good idea to eat those candies and especially the powder. The worst thing that can happen is more phelm or vomiting over the powder and sour candies you consumed. If that is not happening than no worries as the mucous will clear up on its own.
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has anyone got there acne cleared by using nutrogena products? (link)
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Most acne remedies sold on the shelf will not work to cure your acne be it severe or not to the point it will never return. The best thing to do if you have an acne problem is to visit a dermatologist or family doctor who can prescribe medication to you that you apply to your face. It will keep acne from forming and eat away at the acne that may already be present.
Another tip is to keep your hair from being in your face all the time as it contains oils that will brush up against it. As far as Nutrogena goes the jury is out on that one.
Perhaps some people were helped while others have a negative view. I'm interested in seeing opinions as well but your best bet is seeing a dermatologist who specializes in caring for your skin.
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I'm a member of a poem site and on this poem site you have a username. I keep changing my usernames because i`m not sure which one I like the best. i'm 14/f and here's my myspace profile(a little bit about me ) if it helps:
i'm polish and greek. i'm single. i need a new layout. i love talking. i can take a joke. once you get to know me, i'm very outgoing and wild. but i'm extremley shy at first. i know how to have a good time. i love the beach. and thai food. i love making people laugh. i ♥ NYC. i love everything about the Harry Potter world. Half the people who say harry potter is gay don't know shit about it. i love shrimp. i'm very random. i love my little fireflies, aka zuchy with the bright yellow berrets. monica and i are the best god damn zbiorki leaders ever. i love to dance. my lips are small but i make up for it with the size of my tongue. my friends are incredible i have a big mouth and i know how to use it [wink, wink]. i talk to myself.alot. the name bernard is cute. i actually like love school. yeah, i know. ♥
my current username is : вєαuτιful|♥|ιмρєяfєcτιon
i'd like to change it.
i want a cute username too!
please & thank you
thanks a bunchies!
mwahh (link)
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It might sound obvious but poetic_girl might work for you. The thing is you know yourself best and a user name that came from your own imagination and pondering it for quite a while would be much better I think than anything we could offer.
Think about your interests that you mentioned above and try and take two words that are opposites and find a way for them to relate to each other and be lyrical or poetic that you can figure out how pair two words together for a clever user name.
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Okay, so the last three or two teeth in the bottom back hurts only SOMETIMES when I chew gum. Like I'd be chewing gum and all of a sudden I feel a sharp pain for like 15seconds and it goes away. This happens only sometimes -not often..is there anything wrong wtih my teeth or am I chewing gum too much =? (link)
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I'm not a dentist but that does sound like there is a problem there. The only way to know is to make an appointment with a dentist to have your teeth cleaned and a checkup. They will then figure out where the pain is coming from. If it is a cavity (which it sounds like) they will fill it on the spot.
You did also mention in your note that this only seems to happen while chewing gum. I'm wondering if it is possible that the gum is sticking to dental work such as a filling and causing a sharp pain for a bit. At either rate pain even if t only happens sometimes is not acceptable and you need to see a dentist who can do something to help end it.
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what makes a woman technically "good" in bed? im a f/18 and idk if im good in bed like what do you girls do and guys what do you like? (link)
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Hi,
What other girls/guys like when it comes to sex will not help you at all. Why? Each person responds to different kinds of stimulation so asking us to figure out what your boyfriend will be turned on by will not help your situation as every girl/guy is different.
As long as your boyfriend seems to be enjoying the sex he is having with you than you are doing great. There is nothing technical that makes one person good in bed and another not. As long as you are confident when it comes to sex, ready for it, enjoy it, communicate and he does too you are fine and should not worry about being good or bad in bed.
Trust me if he had any complaints you would certainly know by now. . In order to answer the question what makes someone good in bed? you ought to ask him directly about what makes a girl good in bed to him. Ultimately, he is the one who either has or doesn't have problems with your performance in that regard.
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Well
I was saying that my eyebrows are messed up.
I know I can do waxing but there's really nothing to wax.
Could you dye around your eyebrows to darken the lighter hairs to make fuller eyebrows?
Do salons have that? (link)
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I think you ought to visit the experts at the local salon and tell them the problems you have with your eyebrows and let them determine what ought to be done here. They have definitely seen eyebrows like yours before and those in bad shape or way, way worse than yours.
Your problem is temporary and though you may not coming out of the salon looking totally perfect something can be done to make them look a lot better than they do right now and give you confidence in your appearance once more.
As far as waxing goes or dies for that matter do not do either yourself or have it done without consulting with several people who works professionally in various salons. After all you do not want the person who just worked on Bert and Ernie. Yikes!
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And i come to Advicenators yet again for help.
Im the kind of person that likes to plan ahead.
So im already thinking about Valentines Day.
I have absolutely NO idea on what to get my boyfriend! I want to get him something really nice, but i just dont know what.
Advice would be nice.
Thanks (link)
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Have you considered making him his favorite meal and havig a candle lit dinner just the two of you? After that you could give him a book of coupons you made that are redeemable for certain things like cuddling, massage, etc. etc. Creativity counts a lot here. Lso get him a tiny present such as a CD he's been wanting, concert tickets etc to go with it. I'm sure you will come up with something he will like.
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My mother is an alcholic. She wont admit this, but she drinks 3-4 times a week and gets wasted. How can I confront her about this? My stepdad agrees with me but will not do anything to stop her. What can I do? (link)
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It doesn't usually work when teens or anyone for that matter confronts someone about their drinking problem by themselves. you see, the person with the problem believes they do not have one and may become unpredicatble if you (their child) does the confronting.
The best thing you can do is join Al-A- Teen (probably goofed the spelling) which is a group that helps teens deal with problems related to their parent or parent's drinking problems.
They will tell you how to handle your mother and whether or not an intervention or confrontation can be successfully acheived based on what you tell them about it. Your father also needs to get support to figure out how to handle this as well.
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13/f.
Ok. About a year ago, I was masterbating and I started to bleed. It was almost time to start my period, but I didn't start until about a week after. I know I popped my cherry. But is it possible to have my cherry popped again? I don't want to go through the humilitation of telling my husband [or boyfriend if I feel I am ready] that I popped my own cherry. Please help ASAP. (link)
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You have nothing to worry about. The hymen (a.k.a. your cherry) a mucous membrane that partially protects the opening of your vagina almost always gets stretched by masturbation or tampon use both which are popular with girls.
It's quite possible you stretched your hymen here but odds are you had nails that scratched the inside of your vagina when you were being vigorous with masturbation. Guys know that the hymen can be stretched by tapon use or masturbation and will not care if the hymen has been stretched or not when it comes time to be sexually active.
I hope this helps as you need not worry. It's normal and has absolutely nothing to do with your period because it arrived weeks after you noticed this.
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So, there's a song I totally fell in love with. The song is "Love Me Dead" by the band Ludo. I've looked on iTunes and Purevolume, but I can't find a downloadable copy anywhere. The band used to have it on their myspace and it's on their purevolume page, but it's not loadable.
Is there anyway to access this song and download it? I know it's pirating, but you don't understand- I'm in LOVE with this song.
Someone help! (link)
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If I were you the first thing I would do is go back to the band's Myspace page. Send them a note (no matter how well-known the group someone reads it be it a manager or PR person) and point out that such and such a song they do is one of your favorites and you cannot find it on a CD, Itunes etc and that it used to be on their page.
Ask why it was taken off first of all, then ask if they have any plans of relaoding it any time soon to Myspace and making it so fans can in fact download it into an Ipod.
Odds are, it was from a demo reel and they wanted to gauge reactions before recording it for a CD. 9 times out of ten that's the case with bands. But before you look elsewhere start with their Myspace page or official page and write in.
If you want to guarentee a response find out who their publicist or manager is by using the Internet and write directly to them because they are the decision makers and not the group when it comes to recordings and tours and running the day to day stuff for said group.
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Has anyone used Playtex Beyond Tampons? With the flushable cardboard applicator?
1. Are the wrappers flushable?
2. How is the leak protection?
3. Do you know of any other rounded tip applicator tampons that are flushable that work well?
Any other comments will do fine.
P.S. 13/F... going on a two night trip for school and I'm sure I'll have my period during the trip so I need great tampons. (link)
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If i were you I would visit your pharmacy and talk to the pharmacist about your fears and the trip. Have them recommend something for you that will not leak etc. so there's no worries. I know it sounds embarassing to do this but trust me, there's thousands of girls before you who have asked for a pharmacist's help in choosing the right feminine products.
After all, this is their job and they get paid for it and see lots of people with far more embarrasing questions and conditions. Enjoy your trip. I hope it goes well for you.
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Hi!
I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs, but he never cums. No matter what i do or how i do it, he just says it feels good. Sometimes if i've been doing it for quite sometime, he'd just say it's time (for him) to rest, then he just goes back to kissing me. Is there something wrong here? What does this mean? (link)
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You need to communicate with him about this. You cannot be expected as a girl to know how he likes to be stimulated here. It is his responsibility to tell you what works for him and not for you to have to guess. Odds are, the methods you are employing do not work to make him excited and he's not about to tell you that and offend you.
You need to talk to him and ask him what he likes and he needs to communicate that to you so you can both enjoy the experience.
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for my moms wedding, my present to her is that im going to sing .. does anyone have any good songs .. the wedding isnt for awhile but i want to pick a song so i can practice =] (link)
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How musical are you? Can you write your own lyrics? Are you able to put chords etc together so it sounds decent? I'm just curious because if you have the talent to sing and can actually write and arrange something you wrote yourself. That would have more of an impact than anything we could ever recommend that is already written.
In the event you do not have those talents or abilities just yet no worries there. Check this link out http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/ Lyrics, song titles etc of some of the world's most famous and also latest love songs.
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hey guys..im going to a party 2morrow and this guy i kinda like is going too. I know hes going to want to sit beside me and put his arm around me. What do i do after he does that? Do i lean my head on his shoulder? Or what?!?! (13/f)
-Thanks alot (link)
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The best advice is to go with the flow. You will know in the moment what to do next and what you are comfortable doing. You can either lean in and kiss him or rest your head on his shoulder and move in tighter.
Do what comes naturally to you and what you feel is right and comfortable. You cannot do anything wrong once that arm is around you except for pulling away completely.
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