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On Handjobs
Hi!
I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs, but he never cums. No matter what i do or how i do it, he just says it feels good. Sometimes if i've been doing it for quite sometime, he'd just say it's time (for him) to rest, then he just goes back to kissing me. Is there something wrong here? What does this mean?
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there's nothing wrong. just some guys don't cum from handjobs. it's not a big deal and don't worry about your performance. he said it feels good, so don't worry <3
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I was wondering how old he is, and if he has a lot of sexual experience. Sometimes even boys feel guilty about sex--and sometimes they feel guilty only about certain girls, or certain sex acts, or certain sex acts with certain girls...No man would ever admit to it, but maybe he has never "cum" in front of anyone before! It could be anything really.
Don't let it affect your own confidence. Respect his wishes, but also do what feels right for you. You might mention how much you enjoy giving him pleasure...Good luck! gigi
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You need to communicate with him about this. You cannot be expected as a girl to know how he likes to be stimulated here. It is his responsibility to tell you what works for him and not for you to have to guess. Odds are, the methods you are employing do not work to make him excited and he's not about to tell you that and offend you.
You need to talk to him and ask him what he likes and he needs to communicate that to you so you can both enjoy the experience.
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Theres nothing wrong, not every guy has an orgasm from hand stimulation. You could try doing it harder or faster or with some kind of lubrication. If it still doesnt work you could try a blow job. Alot of guys only get orgasms from actual sex not oral. So dont think theres anything wrong im sure hes enjoying it he just cant climax from it. Hope i helped =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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