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If someone dares you to stick your hand in one of those ice despenser thing on the refridgerator/freezers and you happen to get your hand stuck in the ice machine.. what do you do??

oh my god..

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

now why exactly would that be a turn off? actually, we need more guys like that..

but you know.. then again, some grls like a tough guy that doesnt want a guy to take care of her, only in some occassions. i guess its different for some grls.

different strokes for different folks

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i'm 15 and i want my belly button pirced and my dad doesn't mind but my mom want let...i mean all my close friends have theres done...even my friend that has the meanest parents in the world! but i was woundering how i could get my mom to let me get it done!??

just because all of your friends have them doesnt mean that you have to get one as well. youre 15, who cares. wait til youre atleast 16 or so. maybe then your mom will change her mind and let you get it. it would be different if your dad said no and your mom said yes, but since its your mom, a female, whos saying no to it, then she probably has a reason for it

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ok i've never worn a tampon and i kinda want to but its a little weird knowing that that will be going...there. and what if i put it in wrong? any advice on like what kind to use for the first time? or anything like that...

you cant really put a tampon in wrong. just make sure its in deep enough.. and when you have it in, you cant even feel that its in there

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15 female

thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...

do i still have feelings for him?

obviously so if youre crying for him

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school is startin and so is football
I really dont care for football im all basketball and a little track
i played football for 3 years and didnt really like it. but al my friends want me to play
watta ya think (8th grade)

you shouldnt be asking us this question. you need to answer that yourself because youre the one thats going to have to play football when you dont even care for it all like that

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I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do?

why dont you just ask him why he keeps asking what youre wearing if its bothing you so much? he can just be making conversation, i mean, it isnt like the whole conversation is just about what clothes you have on right? just ask him wassup, who cares. you like him, he likes you. then smash. seriously..

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hey, well i've had my period for almost 2 years and i still get that discharge is that weird?? what should i do

you will always get discharge

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I have a problem with conflicts, well you could say that. And whenever I feel really bad I cut..... It's hard for me to stop, because it brings out anger, I don't really know what to do, and I need help.

yeah, it feels good to cut, i know.. but there are other things you can do besides that. i dont know why myself cutting makes me feel better, but you shouldnt do that. youre the one thats going to live with the scars, the constant reminders of pain and hardship. when you finally learn to control selt mutilation, youre gonna look at yourself and the part of your body that you cut, and its gonna upset you in the long run. just find something else thatll help you take out your anger, dont punish yourself

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id like to be a writer when i grow ^ maybe for the miami herald. like i wunna be maybe even the advice columnist. anything in the miami herald would be awesome. i dk wut should i do to practice 4 the future? i really want to be a writer!! does it pay alot?!?! p.s. i kno writers spell everything right its just im 13!! lol. and i like spelling stuff wrong unless its for school like a project, homework, or an assignment!! lol!! im going to 8th grade.

thats the same thing i asked myself. i want to be a writer as well.. well, sorta. but if thats what you want to do, then go for it. it doesnt matter how much it pays because if its writing that makes you happy, then nothing else matters.

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im stressed out all cuz schools coming ^ soon wut can i do to make me less stressed out?!?! i still have tons uf stuff i wunna do before i go to school. lol. like clean my room buy some stuff i need for school and all this other stuff and i dk. im so stressed i cant even remember the rest!! help!!


{{stressed out!!}}

what? are you going to kindergarten or something? there isnt a need to be stressed out for school, its like every other year. anyway.. school starts in more than a month. why the hell are you so stressed out now?

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hay..im 15 yrs old and i have the biggest crush on one of my friends (shawn)..the thing is, he likes one of my best friends, Nicole, and he likes another girl, Whitney,..Whitney doenst really like him..she just tells him she does so she can make him do w/e she wants and everyone knows this and we tell shawn alll the time but he just doesn't accept it..my friend nicole doesnt like him either..and she knows that i've liked him for the longest time..and i've told him this lastnight cuz we were havin a little 'confession' thing lastnight when we were talkin on AIM and he was tellin me about nicole and whitney and how he liked them so i told him that i liked him but then i changed the subject cuz i was upset about him liking the other 2 girls....i dunno what to do! ive been upset all day..can u help me?!

how can he even like two females at once? he sounds like a man whore. you dont want to be involved with man whore anyway. he may start to like you, but it probably wont last long, bc hell start to like someone else.. sucks for you

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well i like this guya nd i thought he liked me and everyone thought he liked me and we were flirtyin like all night and the next day but now i cant ell cuz we havent hanged out and stuff.............what do i do how can i find out if he likes me ((with out havein to like ask him cuz that might make him feellike he has to like meor something))

PlEasE hElp?!?!?
Sara

"hanged out" you mean "hung out" lol

also, you need to learn to use periods and commas.

and you need to learn to spell correctly.

i couldnt read a damn thing you typed

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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

you might have to let her get over it on her own. a person who is depressed doesnt like to hear what others have to say. shes going to have to realize that she needs help on her own. just make sure she doesnt do anything to hurt herself

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Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them?

you shouldnt have to skip classes and fuck up your education because of those assholes. dont even worry about them. theyre the ones with no lives, being that theyre huddled in a freakin corner talking shit about people. walk tall, and keep your head up. dont let any bitches pull you down

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Hey Im 19 and I have blonde hair, green eyes, im 5'5, and 100lbs. My bf says he loves me but I think he only likes me for my looks. He is always telling me how pretty i am and stuff. Everytime I ask him why he loves me, he jus doesnt answer the ?. He loves bringin me places to show me off to his friens. Everytime one of his freins hits on me, he jus laughs and keeps talking. One time his friend tried cybering wit me on here and when I told him he didnt believe me.

well i cant say that hes only with you just because of your looks based on the fact that he tells you how pretty you are. he may really love you..

although, he shouldnt allow his friends to hit on you without saying anything. it can be that hes afraid of his friends or something.

but it seems as though youre boyfriend is a dick since he lets them act that way. so.. he maybe he doesnt love you.

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Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks.

hes your DAD! how selfish can you get? "ive been liking my mom more." how old are you? you should be lucky to even have a father by your side, because there are plenty of people who wish that their fathers are/were there for them. think about it. i understand if he was your step father, but this is the guy who has been there for you since you were born. the least you can do is make an effort to spend some time with him atleast once. if you cant do that, then.. thats ashame

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im a 15 year old girl...ive only had 2 boyfriends and i havent gotten further than just kissing. i feel like i keep myself from getting too clse to people cuz im scared ill be bad at making out, etc.. i also think i havent done much with guys cuz i havent found the right one. i just want to be a little more experienced..any advice on what to do/how to do it?

why do u want to be more experienced? because your friends are? come on now, youre 15. so you say you wanna do shit just because u want to be more experienced. did it ever occur to you that you do intimate things only because the other person is someone special to you. to me it just sounds like you want to be a whore

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hey im a 14 year old girl and heres my problem: some times (about three times a month or so) i have to go to the bathroom really bad so i do and when im done i have this burning sensataion and i feel like i need to go again, so when i sit back down on the toilet to try to go again nothing happens. and so it burns down there and i feel like i need to go so i just wait and it goes away in about 20 minutes. i dont know what this is or what i can do ...PLEASE HELP!!! (ps i also havent gotten my period yet...)
~it burns

its called uti. urinary tract infection.. or something like that. get it checked out baby grl

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~15 female~
me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do?

she is a nasty, dirty ass smut. dead up

you dont need to be chillin with a whore. seriously, because people will begin to think youre that way as well


that bitch is nastyyyyyy

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