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Q: 13/f and i've already got stretch marks on my inner legs/but I'm athletic not fat at all..I'm afraid if boys knew i have them they wouldnt date me they would probably think i'm digusting so I don't go swimming/wear short shourts in public or anywere around boys I feel so embassrent or however you spell it around them what should i do? Also does boys really care if girls have stretch marks?
=( I hate stretch marks
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Lol if the guy relly loves you he should not care if you have them. I have them...n plus every girl has them on he boobs and guys have them 2!!!!!!
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Q: my friend trina keeps borrowing money from me and my other friends all the time and i've tried telling her I can't keep loanining her money all the time if she dosn't pay me back,but she won't listen to me.How can I get her to listen to me?
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Tough love...wen she askes u...say no you can't. If she has a good reason for the money tell her get a job...or why dno't ya'll have a car wash n give her the money?
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Q: is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
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Well I don't think it's wrong. It's not wrong to date or marry ppl shorter or younger than you...the society makes it a big deal but I personally think that if you are inlove with the person and you yourself thinks he is yours...then should carE? (although they do)
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Q: how can i make myself seem shorter?
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Well...wen u wear big clothes you look short....iff ur not relly relly tall you can wear like baggy jeans and stuff
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Q: I really really like one of my best friends ex's. If he asks me out idk what to say! Cause I love my best friend but I really like him too!
And if this helps, my best friend decided to like the same guy I used liked right after I told her I liked him. ( I like her EX now ) And I was really hurt cause she started flirting with him constantly and won him over and now they're going out so she took a guy away from me, would it be wrong to go out with her old ex?!
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sounds to me like revenge so like make sure u relly like the boy. And yeah talk to your friend about it!!!!
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Q: how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance
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Yeah the same thing goes for me...I mean how to put it on. I use both Cover Girl Point Plus and Jordana for eyes. If you're wondering about liquid...unless you have a steady hand and really risky...go for it...but you get relly great eyes with the points.
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Q: This might be a completely moronic question but are there any kind of air conditioners that you don't have to mount in your window?
My apartment doesn't have central air and I'd like an air conditioner when it gets warm this summer. But my windows are a weird sort of shape and the whole apartment is oddly shaped so air doesn't circulate nicely. So yes, anyone know of any air conditioner that doesn't need to be mounted in a window?
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I don't know the price but there are the portable ones...so if you move or anything you can carry it around on wheels! And it used water like a car to run!
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Q: i keep having to peee
like all of a sudden really bad and then very little comes out, very often
and i havent drinkin that much today, just a small cup of cranberry juice, a bottle of water, and a can of minute maid lite...
does anyone know what this is?
thank you
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Nah that not gross...every girl happns to hve it. I duno what it is exactly but I have it rel often sometimes. I go to the doctor...he gives me septra,, makes me drink alot of fluid....ooh n yeah cranberry juice is good but you should try the capsules...they don't hve that bitter taste!
Hope you feel better,
Lotz of luv
JJ
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Q: ok so i was looking online for hair straightners..
and i was thinking about getting a chi.
im black and i have coarse hair and i was wondering if you guys think it would work on my hair? also if you have any other straightner suggestions.. nothing over $110 would help?
thanks much/rate 5's
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Well I niot sure of the price but a ceramic one will work pretty good!
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Q: is kelly and her twin sister from "8th & Ocean" the girls from that contact commercial a little while ago? they both are like, "we're twins. which one has the contacts in?" or something like that.
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yeah i think so...i remember the name sabrina but I don't quite remember kelly. Yeah I think Sabrina's the one who has the 'astigmatism' or something like da because like 2dai wen I saw 8th n ocean sabs had the glasses on.
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Q: im 14/f my bf is 17. he is always talking about how he wants to marry me and how much he loves me. i love him. i know you will think im to young. im not to young to know love. alright. so he got me this necklace for christmas that has a heart on it that on the front our names are ingraved and on the back it says "7 or 8 more years..." theres a story behind it...but its about me and him getting married in 7 or 8 years. then for valentines day he got me a ring. he wants to get married in 4 or 5 years now.... and he calls me his wife. like when he intorduces me to his friends he callse me his wife. and even to his mom he says hes going to see his wife and stuff. and whenever i see a baby i want one of my own.... is that normal? to want to have his kid? me and him have never had sex or anything. were really jsut good kids in love. so is that bad/wrong/weird/normal?
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That's so normal. Once wen I had my first bf it happened soo much:p lol I actually planned out my kid's names. My friend's bf is jus like that too he wants to get married n buys her rings n stuff and I think it's just one of those instances wen you're relly relly relly inlove!
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Q: I am an 18 year old female and I have been getting my period since I was about 13. I get my period every month. This month, however, I got my period for about a week(which is normal) ...but now, my period should be done by now. There is no more red blood, however, there is brown when I wipe. It kind of looks like brown blood, if that makes sense. This has never happened to me before in all these 5 years I have had my period. Please voice your opinions if you think you can help. Thank you very much.
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Yeah I duno if it's a discharge or not but it's totally normal. I think it's like when the blood gets a little stale and changes color. But no need to worry...it's just the blood you didn't pass out.
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Q: okay, so i have a boyfriend. and he's so perfect! i mean there's just something oddly attractive about him! he kind of has the care free attitude. he's just. great. but like i dont ever talk to him.. like ever i only have one class with him. and he just doesnt seem like he likes me.. so what should i do to like gain up my courage to acutally talk to him? and get him to like me more?
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He is your boyfriend after alll....so yah of course you need to talk to him and stufff
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Q: Everynight I sit in bed for about 2 hours before I fall asleep. Its not a big problem staying awake but the stress I go through trying to fall asleep is terrible. It's been going on everynight for about three weeks. I told my mom there was something wrong with me and that I needed sleep pills but she blew it off. So I began taking tylenol PM (without her knowing) and it put me to sleep within 30 mintues. But this weekend I ended up exposing alot of my secrets to her (that I have been drinking, etc) and told her about the pills. She believes me now and is going to take me to the doctor but she take forever to set up an appointment and I hate bringing it up. So Im going to probably end up taking them again. My question is, are all of these problems I've been having signs that im depressed? To me, it seems like what every kid my age does and that I shouldnt be worried.
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Yeah as you said every kid goes through it. Yeah it probably is depression and all that stress from school and home. If I were you try drinkin a hot cup of ovaltine or milo and you'll feel sleepy. Well also you should try running around and do chores and go for walks and stuff to get yourself tired so wen u hve your bath and a hot cup of milo or ovaltine you will feel drowsy!
PS- Don't ever take sleeping pills to sleep at your age because you willl get so hooked on them. My grandma had a stroke and she used to take sleeping pills cause at one point of her life she couldn't sleep and now that she has the stroke she got sooo hooked to them that she had trouble sleeping for the first week after she got it.Oh and for the first week she had withdrawal symptoms...feelin dizzy n stuff!
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Q: for science, we have to make an item out of all reusable items. such as paper, cardboard, and plastic, etc. it doesnt have to be a new invention, just a simple product that will be usefull. like my friend made a little container that holds little peices to games. anyone have any ideas? i'm stumped and its due wednesday!
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Lol...well viewing from the other suggestion it looks pretty cool. In school we always made this thingie with paper roll (the brown cardboard part) and a other piece of carboard. GEt like 3 paper rolls and cut them different sizes n put like gift paper or scrap paper (which u doodled on)on it and like tape the giftpaper on it. Then like stick it on the square paper and you got a pencil/pen holder! Really cool...hope I explained it well
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Q: 16/f. my boobs feel a little sore. does this mean they are growing?
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Yeah it does...wen I was now gettin em..ne time I went to the pool or beach mine burned n stufff...thank god me n my cusin r the same age so my aunt knew...jus keep them moistured
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Q: i have a really big great circle of friends, mostly girls but we hang out with a few guys too. So, i have a crush on one of my guy friends, and my friends brought up that we would make a good couple, after that i fessed up to acctually liking the guy. After that they told me that they thought that he was flirting with me that night (before the guys went home, and the girls slept over), i am not the best at judging this sort of thing, but he is just a nice guy, and there were mostly girls at the party so he had to sit next to one of us - so could this mean that he wasn't really flirting and just being himself? he is also very shy too, he doesn't really touch anyone, the most physical contact i have had with him is playing egyptian rat screw and slapping on the same card pile. I am also more experienced, so i wonder if he will ever get the guts to show me his real feelings. What should i do to let him know i like him without losing a friend?
15, female
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Yeah last year the same thing happened to me...n let's jus say we're jus friends. If he's a loyal friend and you've had fights in which he comes back and accepts you're apology go out for it because you MAY not lose his friendship if ya'll ever break up. Other than that get to know him more and it may develop and if ater all that you're still just friends..try not to push it anymore. Tell him you think he's cool and he's make a good boyfriend (jus dont say to y ou ) and try your best to let him know you'lll consider him (esp when he feels down).
Maybe he was flirting with you and maybe not. As time goes by you'll find out because he'll do it more often. Also if ya'll ever go out with other friend see where he'll sit...if it's oposite (he's shy), nex to you (most likely into you) and if he sits by some other person without hesitation...you're just friends.
But again it doesn't really matter what I think or say because it's up to you. Then again let your friendship grow...because people that have a friendship for a while are the people who have the best relationshipssss
G. Luck
Jamie
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Q: I've been really interested in the guitar lately, and my brother found some of his old beginners books that teaches you how to play basic chords and such. He told me that it would probably take about a month to learn the chord. Is this true? I expected much longer than that.
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Actually I am in guitar but like I stopped but I'll be back this week. Nah it don't take that long. It's about a week to learn one depending on how interested you are and how dedicated you are.
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Q: My girlfriend(17years old) has been raped by three different people. She only trusts me and hasnt got the confidence to tell anybody else. This means that the responsibility is down to me to give her my own sort of counseling service. I'm not really sure as to what to do apart from help her get it all out. Please could somebody give me some tips on more counselling advice? It would be much appreciated.thankyou x
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First of...go to the police. And if you would feel bad carrying her try calling them on a non emergency line and reporting it. Then try remembering she's going to goo thru a hard time and maybe she doesn't know what she's doing and sometimes she'll just break down! You personally hve to be her walll for her to lean on and try to keep your calm with her! Thirdly try gettin some pro help for her. It doesn't hve to be like a shrink or ne thing try boys and girls hotline and slowly but surely she'lll be fine! Make sure u tell the police though!
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Q: ok..so im in an amazing relationship i love the kid to death. i really do, but there was this other guy who i was really good friends with and me and him we were "together" before me and my current bf. my bf hates this kid so much. but he keeps telling me that he doesnt matter if i hang out with him, just as long as i dont mess up and then he gets all depressed when i talk to him again. should i just stop talking to my other friend all together to make my bf happy? or what should i do....? ahh. i need help.
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My answer to you is HELL NOOO! Cause if ur bf ever dumps you u still hve someone to lean on. As you said he doesn't mind you talkin to the guy unless it messes up...jus try not to mess it up! Remember this dude is like a relly good friend to you and those come 1 in a million...while boyfriends come 1 in 3!!!!
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Gender: Female Occupation: Student...yay! Age: 13 Member Since: February 2, 2006 Answers: 412 Last Update: June 13, 2011 Visitors: 29294
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