ok..so im in an amazing relationship i love the kid to death. i really do, but there was this other guy who i was really good friends with and me and him we were "together" before me and my current bf. my bf hates this kid so much. but he keeps telling me that he doesnt matter if i hang out with him, just as long as i dont mess up and then he gets all depressed when i talk to him again. should i just stop talking to my other friend all together to make my bf happy? or what should i do....? ahh. i need help.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:28 am: No. Do not stop talking to him. That would ruin a perfectly good friendship. Your boyfriend should be able to understand that there will be many guys in your life and many guy friends. If he is a good boyfriend he will be OK with it. Yes, he may still get jealous, that's just natural, but he'll be fine. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
LiEKxoxoWOAH answered Saturday March 4 2006, 12:07 am: the anwser to this is what do you think you should do.. do you want to stop talking to someone bc your bf is jealous or just talk to him and have your bf be jealous
what i would do is talk to my bf and tell him nothing will change bc you and your ex are friends and mean it
thisismydance answered Friday March 3 2006, 11:34 pm: theres no answer to this. i can tell you what i think. but im not going to. this is a matter of the heart and no ones words or opinion should matter in this. what do you think you should do? which guy is more important to you? who could you never live without? who is there for you when your sad? who has always been there? who will always be there? be honest with yourself. try to make them get along and if it doesnt work. make the choice. who do you honestly love more? follow your heart. [ thisismydance's advice column | Ask thisismydance A Question ]
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